“Who’s ready to go?” (5.3.2020)

Okay, Patricia Bokowski, here’s the skinny. The answer to your question. The way, the light, the door. The most overlooked truth in reality. And the one that requires the most “uncommon sense” to fully grasp:
When it comes to effecting change (big or little, but especially big), manifesting the life of your dreams, or getting that perfect parking space, “thinking” is immeasurably more valuable when used to imagine what you want — the end result — than to figure out how you’re going to get it.
Which is why most people have to schlep through big parking lots. 
Tallyho,   The Universe
/ “Who’s ready to go?” / www.tut.com
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

Who’s ready to go?

Isn’t that most of us these days.

Always on the go.

The problem is.

A lot of people are just going no where fast.

Seriously, not going anywhere.

Now, if you ask me.

This is where your passion should come in.

So let me ask you?

What is your passion?

And, do you even have one?

Note: not everyone does.

But, if you one of the lucky ones.

Like me.

You’ve got it.

You might not know what to do with it.

But deep inside, you KNOW you have it.

So, I have BIG news to share!

I recently opened a shop on Amazon.

As many of my clients are still reluctant to go out shopping.

I decided to bring my favorite fashion finds to everyone.

Take a look: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Full disclosure, I make a commission.

New items added daily.

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I’ve spoken about this many times before.

ALL my years at Cablevision.

And for those that don’t know.

I worked for Cablevision for well over twenty years.

And then I wrote a book about my experience.

Of working in the flight department in 2010.

You should read it, seriously!

Titled: ”How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon!

Anyway, over all those years.

I ALWAYS had this nagging feeling.

That I was supposed to be doing ‘something’ bigger.

Unfortunately for me.

I didn’t know what that ‘something’ was.

As much as I tried to find it.

I couldn’t.

But then one day.

It changed.

I found it.

And then I knew.

This was the f*cking thing.

That I was supposed to be doing!

Yeah, like that!

So, let me ask you?

Are you following your path?

You know?

That thing.

That thing that gets your heart pumping.

That thing that makes you get out of bed in the morning!

That thing that you can’t stop thinking about.

That thing you dream about doing.

That thing that makes you want to cry somedays.

BTW, that’s true!

Now, if you aren’t.

You should be.

And, I should add.

Everyone should be on their path.

That’s what this life is all about!

Doing that thing that sets your soul on fire!

Let me explain something to you.

In case you weren’t aware.

Opportunity dances with those.

Already on the dance floor👈👈👈


Already ON the dance floor!

Not, getting ready to.

Or, working on it.



No, today.

Check. Check. Check.✔✔✔



“Opportunity dances with those who are already on the dance floor.”


You have to be ON the actual dance floor.


To put it another way.

As the lottery people love to say:

“You have to be in it to win it”.

Either way.

You get the idea!

You need to be “in the game”.

In order to be winning!

Sitting on the sidelines.




That your dreams.

Will come true.

Is a complete waste of time! 


Get out and start!

That’s where the magic is!

It’s a leap of faith for sure.

You can do it, I promise you!

If that’s what you really want.

You so have what it takes.

If I can do it.

YOU can do it too!

Now, I am no sports enthusiast!

By any stretch of the imagination!

But I do know enough about professional players.

To know.

That in order for them to gain the success.

That they have achieved.

They had to have practiced till they bled.

And then some.

And yet.

They kept getting back up.

And doing it over again.

That’s what it’s like.

On the dancefloor.

You get knocked down.

You get back up.

“Fall down seven times, stand up either.” – Ancient Chinese Proverb


It’s not easy to stay in the game.

That’s why so many quit!

Only, you owe it to yourself.

To stay in the game.


You will NEVER know.

What you are made of.

True fact.

We are ALL born with so much potential.

And yet so many of us die.

Using only a fraction of it!

Too many.

The minute it starts to get hard.

They bail.

And I can tell you right now.

It is HARD.

Like f*cking hard.


Nothing great ever came from easy .

It is the hard that makes it worthwhile.


Even if you feel like you are losing today.

Stick with it.

Because eventually.

You will start to win.

Even if they are just little wins.


Little wins.

Eventually become big wins.

You just have to stick with it!

Now or never baby.


Nobody wants to be average.


Certainly, no one wants to live a mediocre life.


If you don’t start making some major changes.


That includes your mindset.

Things will never change.

And no one has time for that!


It all starts with your thoughts.

That is so me these days.

See, I have learned (the hard way).

That as you pursue your journey.

Along the way.

You will most likely encounter people.

Who will want to jump on your path with you.

See, you have already started.

And they didn’t.

So, they want to take the easy route.

And jump on your path.

That’s where the hellfire comes in.

Do you know how many times.

Over the years.

People tried to take advantage of me.

And when I called them out on it.

Said to me: “Patricia, I thought you were a nice person?”

That’s right.

The minute a woman speaks up for herself.

She is considered a B*TCH!

Yes, we’ve all heard it before.

But don’t let it deter you.

Press on.

Press on hard as a matter of fact.

Just like I do everyday.

The fact is.

No one is stopping me!

It’s a daily process.

This pursuing your dreams thing.

Wash + Rinse + Repeat 👈👈👈

You just keep at it.

With whatever you got.

However you can do it.

Maybe you work full time.

And start it as a side-hustle.

Maybe you are a stay at home mom.

You start it at night.

Whatever the case may be.

You start! “How can I?” (6.3.2021)

The moral of the story, don’t give up!


Never give up on something.

You can’t go a day.

Without thinking about it.

Life is too short.

And, you are too special!

I can honestly say.

That if I never started my business.

My life would be so different.

And I can guarantee you.

I would never be as happy as I am now!

So about that book!

Titled: ”How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6P8FSG3

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!


I can’t tell you when success will find you?


I can tell you when it won’t!

You, sitting on your couch.

Not doing anything.

To be successful!

As such.

I can pretty much guarantee you a success rate.

Of zero. 

And ain’t nobody got time for that. 

I’m telling you.

It’s YOUR time to shine.

Now, go out and get busy.

Who’s ready to go?

It’s HERE!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click link to purchase: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you check out my shop on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today: pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Who’s ready to go?”



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