“When do we start?” (1.16.2021)

You’ve made a lot of friends throughout your life, Patricia Bokowski, and you’ll be making a lot more. You can be very proud of this.
But you can safely multiply that number by 7 to reveal the minimum number of secret admirers who were wow’d by your passing glance; by 100,000 to approximate the minimum number of people you’ve inspired; and by 1,000,000 to uncover the least number of lives yours has improved.
And this… makes me very proud.
We’ve only just begun,  The Universe / “When do we start?” / www.tut.com


Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

When do we start?

Life changes.

In an instant.

As many of us know first-hand.

For me.

No doubt.

It was my career ending with Cablevision.

I had been there roughly 20+ years.

And then one day, I wasn’t there anymore.

Just like that.

And then I realized.

I had to figure out who I was now?

So I have BIG news to share!

I recently opened a shop on Amazon.

As many of my clients are still reluctant to go out shopping.

I decided to bring my favorite fashion finds to everyone.

Take a look: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Full disclosure, I make commission.

New items added daily.

Thank you for shopping with NineFrogs!

So, when that happens.

You have two choices.

Curl up in a ball.

And hibernate for the rest of your life.


You can start a new life.

Because, that’s exactly what I did!

I started a brand new life.

Started my own business.

And I’ve never been happier.

“Find what you love and let it kill you.” – Charles Bukowski

That’s the kind of attitude you to have.

To make those BIG dreams come true.

For me.

Looking back.

Not knowing what the hell.

I was doing back when I first started.

But, just knowing.


Has it been hard?



On those days.

I always remember my WHY!

That brings me right back!

And quite honestly.

It’s been a LONG time since I’ve had.

Such a bad day that I didn’t want to show up.

“Do things for people.

Not because of who they are, or what they do in return.

But because of who you are.”

– Harold S. Kushner

“Why are you so determined to keep your wild silently inside you?

Let it breathe.

Give it a voice.

Let it roll out of you on the wide open waves.

Set it free.”

NineFrogs 🐸🐸🐸

“When you ask The Universe to go to the next level,

don’t be surprised when every person preventing progress

is removed from you life.” – Anonymous

Lost your power?

Want to get it back?

Do that!

Get comfortable with being alone.

That’s where you find your power.

You don’t find your power.

When you are surrounded by people.

You find it.

By being alone.

“Being along has a power very few people can handle.” – Steven Aitchison

When do we start?

Looking for the ‘perfect’ time to start?

Trust me.

My best advice.

Take a GIANT leap of Faith!

That’s what it takes.

Yes, take it.

A GIANT Leap of Faith.

But I think.

What it really comes down to.

Is a total belief in yourself.

And what you are capable of doing.

And here’s the thing.

Most people.

Totally underestimate.

What they can do.

Trust me.

I look at all the thing’s.

I’ve done over the years.

And I amaze myself.


“Everything you want is on the other side of fear.” – NineFrogs 🐸🐸🐸


“Maybe we are here to love wildly, passionately and fearlessly.” whispered the heart.

“You are going to get us all killed!” yelled the brain.”

NineFrogs 🐸🐸🐸

Here’s a little something.

You need to learn early on.

In the game of business.

First off.

Never chase.



Chasing anything.

Will get you no where fast.

Don’t spend your precious time.


How much fun can that be?


I have learned.

To make my own opportunities.

Don’t ever let anyone tell you.

That YOU.

Can’t do something.

God knows.

There’s been plenty of people.

Who have told me.

Over the years.

That I couldn’t do this.

That or the other thing.

And I just smile.

And do it anyway!

“Be so good, they can’t ignore you!” – Steve Martin

Here’s a little something.

I wanted to share:

Fun facts about Nora Ephron:

She directed, produced and wrote 15 Hollywood movies;

Including romantic comedy classics such as;

“When Harry Met Sally,” “Sleepless in Seattle.” and “You’ve got mail.”

She helped turn Meg Ryan into a world-wide star.


She started her career as a humorous essayist.

Next time someone tells you.

You can’t do something.

Think of Nora!👈👈👈

“One day it just clicks.

You realize what’s important and what isn’t.

You learn to care less.

About what other people think.

Of you.

And more about what you think of yourself.

You realize how far you’ve come.

And you remember.

When you thought things were such a mess.

That you would never recover.

And you smile.

You smile.

Because you are truly proud of yourself.

And the person you’ve fought to become.”Author Unknown

One thing I have learned.

Over the years.

Is this:


You must be constantly learning.


If you want to be successful?

And who doesn’t?

You seriously.

Need to be learning.

Every day!

You need to be one with it.


For me.

On any given day.

I would say.

I am on:


Google News


Easily ten times a day.

At least.


There is SO much information.

To be had.

And quite honestly.

That’s what helps you to stay relevant.

That’s a wrap! NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

When do we start?

Here it is, my book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6P8FSG3

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you check out my Amazon shop: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs
Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ “People will stare. Make it worth their while!”

“When do we start?”



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