“What if?” (10.29.2020)

One of the most stringent conditions all angels must meet, Patricia Bokowski, other than double-advanced harp playing and skydiving abilities (not necessarily at the same time), is that they must not allow themselves to feel hurt or rejected by the choices made by others, no matter how much they’ve done for them nor how great their love. 
Yeah, WOW. 
Wow, wow –  The Universe
/ “What if?”

Angels are people, too, Patricia Bokowski.


Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – The Frog’s Den

What if?

That needs to be your attitude!

Wake up every morning.

And, decide!

“Today I am going to be happy!”


It’s that simple.

Most people.

You know.

The ones that aren’t happy.

Overthink happiness.

Like, “how can I be happy when….(fill in the blank).”


We can ALL fill in the blank.

With something that is going on.

In our lives.

That doesn’t mean you still can’t be happy!


Here’s my advice:


To show up at your front door!


And while you’re at it.

Stop waiting for everything.

To be perfect to be happy.


It’s never going to happen.

Like never.


Because it’s kind of like having a baby.

There’s never a good time.


Just be happy now.

Life is fleeting.

Otherwise it could be too late!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

You deserve to be happy now!


It all starts with you!

This isn’t a dress rehearsal.

This is YOUR ONE time shot at it!

Well. at least as you this time around.

And you deserve to be living it happy!


Look at it this way.

Being in a state of ‘happiness’.

Is good for your body.

It works better.

It feels better.

Your mind works better.


Think about this:

How are you going to solve?

All those problems in your life?

And make all those dreams come true?

If you aren’t happy?

No person, thing OR event, is going to make you happy!

They can ‘add’ to your happiness.

But, they themselves, cannot make you happy!

If you aren’t happy already.

You make YOU happy. http://www.ninefrogs.com

I hear so many people these days.

Saying how unhappy they are.

They’re depressed.

Have no energy.

And so on and so on.

If that’s you.

It’s time to change your mindset!


Make it a choice.


To stay happy.

Because the alternative.

For me.

Wouldn’t do me, my family, or my business any good.

You might not realize this.

But, everything in life is a choice!

And I choose to be happy!

That’s the thing.

That trips people up all the time!


Now with the current climate.

You can get all caught up in the BS.


You can totally distance yourself.

From it as much as possible.

People get it all wrong.

They think their life cannot be happy.

Because their life isn’t perfect.

Tell me.

Who has a ‘perfect life”?

No one.

No one has a perfect life.

Everyone has issues.

I bet if you asked Jeff Bezos if he has any problems.

He’d tell you he had plenty.

And I bet if you asked him if he was still happy?

He’d give a resounding YES.

And I know what you’re going to say!

If you had ALL that money.

You’d be happy too👈👈👈

To which I would answer.

If money was the key to happiness.

Why are so many ‘wealthy’ unhappy?

Just look at how many ‘wealthy’ people.

Why do so many have mental health issues?


Because they struggle with their happiness.

Their peace.

And because money can’t buy either!

Just like when.

People tell me to be realistic!


Never lose your sense of humor.

Just sayin!

It’s a decision.

Do I choose to be happy, or NOT?

For me, it’s not even a decision.

I wake up everyday HAPPY 🙂

Is my life ‘perfect’?


But I make the best of ‘everything’ I have.

And I work like a deranged MF daily!👈

To make it even better.

For me and MY family!

That’s my driving force in life.👈👈👈

And, oddly enough.

That makes me HAPPY AF 👈👈👈

Why it doesn’t matter!

That’s it!


How can you not be happy?

If you are smiling.

And my friend.

There is always a reason to smile.


Just let it all go.

Why it doesn’t matter!

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I love when I hear people say, ‘Patti, I’ll be happy when_______

I lose weight.

I get a new partner.

I get more money.

I get a new job.

I start my business.

The list is endless.

Here’s the thing!

Be happy now.

End of story.

Why it doesn’t matter!

I’d say the #1 reason.

For so much unhappiness in the world.

Is people putting the key to THEIR happiness.

In someone else’s pocket.

I learned this lesson the hard way.

Very hard.


Never again.

I make my own happiness.


I never rely on anyone else to make me happy.

People can add happiness to my life.







That’s an inside job!

So, if you have found.

That you have left the keys to YOUR happiness.

In someone else’s pocket.

Take it back!

NOW! NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY!”:

Why it doesn’t matter!

Have you heard?

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Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

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I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

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That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“What if?”


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