“Today is the day!” (5.25.17)

Those feelings you most want, Patricia Bokowski, aren’t going to come from somewhere new, someone special, or something wonderful. 
They’re going to come from within, where they now wait for your permission to be released – often in terms of somewhere new, someone special, or something wonderful. 
Permission granted, 
  The Universe / “Today is the day!”
“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs
Today is the day!


Why not?

You know.

That ‘thing’.

That everyone is searching for.

That ‘thing’!

That ‘spark’.

That ‘thing’.

That makes life worth living.

Makes you jump out of bed.

In the morning.

And oh.

That ‘thing’.

Is different for everyone.

So I recently did something.

I’ve been wanting to do for some time now.

I opened a shop on Amazon.

Take a look:  https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

As a Personal Shopper, I now get to bring my favorite fashion finds to everyone.

Full disclosure, I make a commission.

New items are added daily.

Thank you in advance for shopping with NineFrogs!

It’s like this.

People have a way.

Of putting off the special for another day!

Only, “today” is the special day.  👈👈👈

Everyday you wake up.

IS THE special day!

Remember that!

Be AMAZING today!

Do whatever you can today.

To get you one step.

Closer, to where.

You want to be.

Maybe it’s a phone call?

An email?

A post?

A blog?

Or, these days.

A video!

Just remember.

Give it your all!

This is pretty much how.

I live my life these days.

Ever since I started my business.

Just about five years ago.

I wake up everyday.

And say thank you..

With the intention of.

Helping as many people as I can.

Through whichever means I can.

My services.

My blogs.

My posts.

My videos.

All of it serves to help others!

It gives me MY purpose.👈👈👈

It is the driving factor.

In my life (aside from my family).

Having a true purpose.

Has changed my life immensely.

In more ways than I can count.

I can’t imagine living my life.

Any other way now.

And like most entrepreneurs.

I still have so many things.“How can I move on?” (9.1.2021)

I still want to do.  


I know I have only literally.

Scratched the surface.

Of what I want to do.

And where I want to go.

When you have that sense of purpose.

It makes each day amazing!

Because no two days.

Are ever the same.

No more 9-5, Monday to Friday.

Now it’s from the time.

I wake up.

Till the time I go to bed.

So again.

People ask.

How can I do it?

My answer.

It depends what you really want.

And how hard.

Are you willing to work for it?

Because, let me tell you.

The bigger the dream.

The bigger the effort.

Making something from nothing.


People ask me often.

What pushes you.

To do what you do every day.

That’s easy.

It’s my purpose.👈👈👈

In my vast life (unscientific) experience.

I have one theory.

Of what stops people.

From living an amazing life.

And that is:

Most people just never START.

They think about it a lot.

They talk about it a lot.

But, they don’t actually.

DO anything about it.

And then wonder?

How come I’m not getting what I want?

In order to get.

What you want out of life.

You need to have a clear picture.

Of what you want.

And then wake up everyday.

And do everything you can.

In those 24 hours.

To get you closer.

To where you want to be.

That’s it.

Be creative.

Work smart.

Take risks.

Try new ideas.

See what sticks.

And what doesn’t.

Adjust accordingly.

Here’s another issue

I see often.

Too many people.

Are living in the past.


Of living now.

You know what.

Those people need to do?

Let that sh*t go!

Reality check.

You have today!

That’s it.

Nothing after that.

Is promised to any of us.


If you need a reminder.

Why you need to make today amazing?

That should be it! NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

Once again.


I said it earlier.

That’s how you get it.

You start.

That’s it.

However you can.

With whatever you have.

With whatever resources you have.

With whatever knowledge you have.

You don’t have to have it.

All figured out.

Trust me.

I had no idea when I started.

I just started one day.

And that was that.

Just start.

Something else.

To think about.

When you’re thinking.

How can I get it?

How many people.

Have a funny memory with their family?

Something that happened.

Out of the blue.

That you still talk about it today?

I know my kids and I have quite a few.

I’m pretty sure every family has many.


You didn’t know it was going.

To be a cherished moment until it happened.


That’s what living.

A ridiculously amazing life is all about.

Always thinking the best is till to come.

It’s a mindset.

And either you have it or you don’t!

True story:

Some years ago or so.

When I was working at Cablevision’s Flight Department.

I met Brad Pritt in person. 

And yes, he is just as handsome.

If not more, in person, and just as nice.

I had heard at the time.

That he was taking flying lessons.

So I knew he was in the area.

I was just never expecting.

Him to walk through the door at work.

So imagine your standing.

Talking with a couple of your co-workers.

By your desk.

And suddenly the door opens.

From the hangar.

And in walks Brad Pitt!  

That really happened!  

I received an e-mail yesterday.

That brought me some great news!

Something that I was hoping.

Was going to happen (business wise).

My first reaction was.

OMG, I can’t believe it!

And second reaction was.

Mmmmm, I don’t know if I can do that?

Then I proceeded.

To come up with about five reasons.

Why I couldn’t do it.

Silly, right?

Talk about.

Blocking your own blessings!

“If you are always trying to be normal,

you will never know how AMAZING you can be.” /

Maya Angelou

Here was a thing.

I really wanted to do.

Yet the thought of actually doing.

It scared the hell out of me.

Totally out of my comfort zone.

I had to literally sit.

And think about it.

And tell myself I could do it.

I leave you with this.

“Pursue Greatness Daily”!

You deserve it!

It’s your destiny.

Don’t just ‘settle’.

For whatever comes your way.

There are plenty of people.

Who die at 30.

And aren’t buried till they’re 75.

I’m sure we all have a story.

Or two, or ten.

About sh*t that happened to us.

The difference is.

You can look at what happened to you.

Learn from it and move on.

OR, you can let it.

Keep right where you are!

Total bullsh*t!

Don’t let that happen to you!

As the saying goes.

You are never too old to learn a new trick.

Because, remember.

You are looking to make your days.

Ridiculously amazing!

And I want that for you!

People get so caught up in.

What “happened” to them.

That they can’t move forward.

Don’t let that person be you!

Be so caught up in your own life.

Your future, your passion.

That you don’t have time.

To think about yesterday.

All your thoughts are on your today’s.

Personally, I’ve been to hell and back.

More times than I can count.

So, I just use that as fuel.

To get me to where I want to be!

There is only person responsible.

For making your life amazing.

And that is you! 

So be amazing!

How do you do that?

Make a list👈👈👈

Adjust accordingly.

That’s a wrap!

Today is the day!

It’s HERE!

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Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“Today is the day!”