“Think positive!” (6.15.16)


Worry?! Why? 
Patricia Bokowski, do you really think something could go “wrong”? Are you not eternal? Have you forgotten how much you’re loved? Don’t you see how far you’ve already come? Could you possibly be in better hands? 
Is there not chocolate in every land? 
  The Universe / “Think positive!”

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – The Frog’s Den

We all know that a positive mind is the key to success!👈👈👈

A positive mindset is key to attaining your goals.

And is instrumental in getting your mind to do those ‘hard things”.

Of course, it’s really only ‘hard’ if you think of it that way.

It’s so easy to get all caught up with all the negativity going on in the world if we let it.  #dontdoit

The key to success is keeping yourself positive.  👈👈👈

And do you do that you might ask?  

Think about this, none of us are promised a tomorrow, so make the best of every day! 

They say the more struggles you endure, the stronger you get.  

No one gets stronger by living an easy life.

And while you are here, you should be determined to live the life of your dreams.  👈👈👈

Don’t just exist, thrive!  LIVE!

How can I think positive?

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Isn’t that the truth? 

We’ve all been there.  

Life sometimes gets the best of us.


Those of us that have a positive mindset.

We don’t let it get the best of us.


THAT is why it is crucial to have a positive mindset.

On those days.

When things aren’t quite going your way.

How can I think positive?


“Fall down seven times, get up eight!” – Ancient Chinese Proverb

That’s the thing about life.  

You just have to keep getting up.

No matter how hard life is.


What it throws at you!

Show life your tenacity.


Not this guy/girl!

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As simple as that sounds.

That’s really what it comes down to.  

Every morning you wake.

(with gratitude of course)

You have two choices, to be happy or not.  

Each takes the same amount of effort.  NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

And, if you choose HAPPINESS.

It doesn’t mean everything in your life is great!

Or, that you have no problems!

We all have problems.

It just means you choose to live your day happy 🙂

That is such a HUGE thing to get in life.

And so many people don’t get.


We have so many unhappy.

Negative people around.

Don’t be one of those people!

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“Strength does not come from winning!”

That really sums it up!

Real strength comes failing, over and over again.

Going through life’s storms, and coming out stronger on the other end.

See, a lot of people like to live their lives so cautiously.

That they never (or as much as they can) fail at anything.

Only, that’s not how you live life.

Not if you want to achieve the level of success and happiness you truly want and deserve.

No, you go out into the world, determined to succeed.

Will you fall? 

Have to move mountains? 



Only, here’s the thing.

Don’t surrender to it!👈👈👈


Have you ever heard of The Secret?


The Universe?

We’ve all heard it.

Basically, whatever you put out into the world comes back to you tenfold.  

So be a light where there is darkness.  

Be the candle the people around you need.  👈👈👈

Not everyone has the strength and where-with-all to be the rock.

Be it for them. 👈👈👈 

Hold them up.  

Spread your smile!

Your positive vibes!

And your strength.💪💪💪

Now see what comes back to you!

Truly positive people.

And I know since I am one of them.

Knows that in order to keep a positive mindset.

We have to keep sharpening it.

I can’t tell you how many people have commented to me, that I am such a strong person!

That I am so brave.

Maybe I am?

I have had to deal with many life storms in my life.

And, most of them I’ve had to do alone!


It really comes down to what you want.

And what you deserve👈👈👈

So, you have to say to yourself:

“Am I going to accept what is given to me,

or, am I going to fight like hell to get what I deserve?”

I don’t know about you.

But this girl is a fighter!

And I’m going to keep fighting.

Until I get EXACTLY what I want 👈👈👈


What someone thinks I should get.

NOT this girl.

Different beast.


Yes, you can!

Being positive is something you have to work at everyday.

There’s no magic pill.

It takes work.

But, I can tell you this.

Once you have achieved a positive mindset.

Your whole outlook on life will change.


Your life will never be the same.

How can I think positive? 

Have you heard?

I’m writing a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated Release Date:  Summer 2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“Think positive!”


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