“How can I do it?” (6.15.16)


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  The Universe / “How can I do it?”


“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – The Frog’s Den


How can I do it?


Possessing a positive mind is the key to success!

A positive mindset.

Is key to attaining your goals.

And getting things done.

It is also instrumental.

In getting your mind to do those ‘hard things”.

Of course.

It’s really only ‘hard’ if you think of it that way.

It’s so easy to get all caught up.

With all the negativity going on in the world.

The key to success.

Is keeping your mindset positive.  👈👈👈

And how much do you think you can get done you might ask?  

Think about this.

None of us are promised a tomorrow.

So make the best of every day! 

They say the more struggles you endure.

The stronger you get.  

No one gets stronger by living an easy life.

And while you are here.

I hope you are determined to live the life of your dreams.  👈👈👈

Decide today.

Don’t just exist, thrive!  LIVE!

How can I do it?

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Isn’t that the truth? 

We’ve all been there.  

Life sometimes gets the best of us.


Those of us that have a positive mindset.

We don’t let it get the best of us.


THAT is why it is crucial to have a positive mindset.

On those days.

When things aren’t quite going your way.

How can I do it?

“Fall down seven times, get up eight!” – Ancient Chinese Proverb

That’s the thing about life.  

You just have to keep getting up.

No matter how hard life is.


What it throws at you!

Show life your tenacity.


Not this guy/girl!

That’s how you get the better of life!

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As simple as that sounds.

That’s really what it comes down to.  

Every morning you wake.

(with gratitude of course)

You have two choices.

To be happy or not.  

Each takes the same amount of effort.  NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

And, if you choose HAPPINESS.

It doesn’t mean everything in your life is great!

Or, that you have no problems!

We all have problems.

It just means you choose to live your day happy 🙂

That is such a HUGE thing to get in life.

And so many people don’t get.


We have so many unhappy.

Negative people around.

Don’t be one of those people!

“Strength does not come from winning!”

That really sums it up!

Real strength comes failing.

Over and over again.

Going through life’s storms.

And coming out stronger on the other end.

See, a lot of people.

Like to live their lives so cautiously.

That they never (or as much as they can) fail at anything.

Only, that’s not how you live life.

You can’t live your life, on the ground.

If you want to really succeed.

You need not be afraid of failing.

Not if you want to achieve the level of success.

And happiness you truly want and deserve.

No, you go out into the world.

Determined to succeed.

Will you fall? 


Will you move mountains? 

If you want to move mountains, you will!

Will you struggle?


Only, here’s the thing.

It’s all worth it.

To get to live the life you truly deserve.

Remember, nothing great comes easy!


Have you ever heard of The Secret?


The Universe?

Of course you have!

Basically, whatever you put out into the world.

Comes back to you tenfold.  

So be a light where there is darkness.  

Be the light the people around you need.  👈👈👈

Not everyone has the strength.

And where-with-all to be the rock.

Be it for them. 👈👈👈 

Hold them up.  

Spread your smile!

Your positive vibes!

And your strength.💪💪💪

Now see what comes back to you!

Truly positive people.

And I know, since I am one of them.

Know that in order to keep a positive mindset.

We have to keep sharpening it.


I can’t tell you.

How many people.

Have commented to me.

That I am such a strong person!

That I am so brave.

That didn’t happen by choice.

It happened because life has thrown many storms my way.

And I knew I had two choices.

Defeat, or rise above.

Needless to say I chose rise above EVERYTIME!


What it really comes down to.

Is what do you want?

And what you deserve?

So, you have to say to yourself:

“Am I going to accept what is given to me?

Or, am I going to fight like hell to get what I deserve?”

I don’t know about you.

But this girl is a fighter!

And I’m going to keep fighting.

Until I get EXACTLY what I want 👈👈👈


What someone thinks I should get.

Or deserve.

NOT this girl.

Forget the old version of me.

She’s gone.

Different beast.


Being positive.

Is something you have to work at everyday.

There’s no magic pill.

It takes work.

But, I can tell you this.

Once you have achieved a positive mindset.

Your whole outlook on life will change.


Your life will never be the same.

How can I do it? 



I can tell you from personal experience.

Once your self-confidence starts to really shine.

Don’t be surprised.

That other’s will start to notice.

I’m talking complete strangers.

And, they will want some of what you got!

And, they will try all different ways to do it.

And, if you don’t give in to them.

They will not be happy.

And WILL come at you.

Don’t let them!

How can I do it?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon!

Coming out in paperback shortly.

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!


Lastly, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – The Frog’s Den!

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“How can I do it?”