“The landscape of my life!” (9.13.16)

I have to tell you, Patricia Bokowski, that one of the greatest things about being the Universe, is knowing absolutely everything.
Well, that and making dreams come true.
I also love being eternalโ€ฆ and having no limits.
Creating worlds simply with thought.
Knowing that reality is unfolding just exactly as it should.
Having it all, being it all, doing it all.
And I like being perpetually in loveโ€ฆ and loved. 
How ’bout you, Patricia Bokowski? What’s your favorite thing about being the Universe? 
  The Universe / The landscape of my life!
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Kermit the Frog๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ

The landscape of my life!

I’ve been thinking a lot of about that these days.

Like, the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Fortunately for me.

I can get past the bad and ugly parts.

How you may ask?

Because I CHOOSE to.

Because, I have the power to do so.

Something many out there don’t do.

And instead.

Hover over the bad and ugly parts.

Hint, we’ve all experienced them.

So the question today is.

What are you doing with yours?

The landscape of my life!

Here’s my advice.

Dare to be whoever you want to be!

Think about that.

What does that mean to you?

To me.

It means.

I don’t have to be like everyone else.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

It means.

I give myself the freedom to think how I want to think๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

To wear what I want I to wear!

Do the kind of work that I want to do!

To spend my time with whoever I want.

Not with who other people think that I should be spending my time with.

Love whoever I want.


Not who others think.

And most importantly.

Be the kind of person I want to be๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

The landscape of my life!

How I live my life these daysโ˜โ˜โ˜

That’s why I keep my circle small these days.


Super small.

Less people, less BS!


To be in my circle.

You don’t have to think like me.


You also can’t think like everyone else.


No judgement.

No gossip.

No talking about other people!

Small people talk about other people.

Smart people talk about ideas.

The landscape of my life!

I was just speaking with my friend Wendy yesterday.

And we were both saying.

The reason we get along so great.

Is because.

We are both very open minded individuals.


We are both business minded people.

So we can bounce ideas off one another.

And we don’t worry about being judged by the others.

Those are the kinds of relationships you need in your life.

People who make you feel like sunshine!

The landscape of my life!

If you have friends like that in your circle.

Consider yourself lucky.


Trust me.

Those people are hard to come by.

And those people are the kind of you WANT in your circle!

It’s not about quantity.

It is about quality.

Good friends are like good outfits.

It’s better to have five good friends.

Just like it’s better to have five good outfits.

Then ten so so friends.


Ten so so outfits.

Quality > Quantity!


That is so damn accurateโ˜โ˜โ˜

And the more entrepreneurs I speak with.

That’s how they feel as well.

Someone told me years ago.

When I first started my business.

That entrepreneurship was a lonely business.

I didn’t really get that at first.


After a couple of years of being in business.

It struck me one day.

How accurate he was.

And to be clear.

I’m not lonely.

I am alone.

Two totally different things.


It’s all good.

When I’m deep in thought.

In my work.

I’m in my flow.

As Gary Vee calls it.

It’s MY happy place.

And I love it!


It wasn’t until I realized I was spending great amounts of time by myself.

Because as a solo entrepreneur,.

That’s how it works.

And you know what?

I love it <3

It’s my new lifestyle.

And it’s funny.

People always ask.

Don’t you get bored?


I literally have more to do than time to do it!

And yes, I know.

We all have 24 hours…blah blah blah.

I’m one of the hardest working people I know.

And I still don’t have enough time to do everything in a day.

And, that’s okay.

Because, everyday, I’m giving it all I got.

Some days I hit it out of the park.

And some days I don’t.

And that’s ok.

Because I show up everyday.

How do you think everyone felt when I opened my business in 2012?

Do you think people were like, ‘Wow, that’s awesome?’


“I’m so happy for you Patti, you’re going to do just great.”

No, they were not!

If you are going to pick a different path.

Expect those around you.

Not to be.

Super supportive.

That’s why it’s so important.

You see YOUR path.

And you stick to it like glue.

Bees to honey.

Don’t be like Alice in Wonderland.

Where any road will take you.

You need to know your path like the back of your hand.

The landscape of my life!


I’ve noticed over the years.

People have a tendency.

To water themselves down.

So as not to shine so bright.

And it always makes me wonder.


If you have it.

Flaunt it.

Especially since.

The world needs it.

Now more than ever.



True GREATNESS comes from taking chances!

Chances that “most” others would not take!

If you think about it.

How are you going to know how far you can go?

If you don’t push yourself.

That’s what you call out-of-the-box thinking!

Unfortunately, most people do not think that way.

Most people.

Like to just keep doing the same thing.

Year in and year out.

Because it’s safe.

Only living a save life.

Isn’t going to get you where you want to be.


One step at a time babe.

No one expects you to take on everything.

In one big chunk!

That’s not how it works.

You chip away at it.

One day at a time.

One chip at a time.

Sounds kind of crazy.

Only that’s how it works!


And, don’t worry about HOW it’s going to happen.


To be honest.

It wasn’t until I started my own business years ago.

That I started living life on my terms.

And giving myself permission to think different than everybody else๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Actually, it’s not that I wasn’t already thinking different.

It’s just that my life wasn’t aligned with my thoughts.

Once I started my business, it all came together.

I believe that’s how it kind of works.

We need to be totally aligned with our thoughts.

AND our actions for it all to come together. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

I always knew there was something more OUT THERE for me.

I just wasn’t sure what THAT thing was.

So, once I started my business.

And started down my own path.

It all came together!



Kermit the Frog๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ

That’s so true.

Life is way too short.

So spend it with the people you love.

Make memories.

And go on wonderful adventures together.

Do the kind of work that sets your soul on fire.

Even if no one else “gets” it.

Remember that everyday IS THE SPECIAL OCCASION.

So stop putting off until tomorrow.


That’s so true!

Dare to be whoever you want to be!

And make sure you share your BIG BEAUTIFUL SMILE with the world.  

The world needs it more than ever  ๐Ÿ˜‰

It’s your life.


What are you going to do with it?

Don’t you dare waste another day.

Living a mediocre life.

You deserve everything!


ONE Life!

NineFrogs Update: I’m writing a book!

Yes, my first!

Anticipated Release Date 10.31.2021

Stay tuned for further updates!


Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!



“The landscape of my life!”



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