“Love your shoes!” (5.31.15)

If I were to explain to you, Patricia Bokowski, how life, your life included, was meant to be… at first, you wouldn’t believe me.
Because, Patricia Bokowski, you’re already there, living as you were meant to live. You’re exactly where you’re “supposed” to be, learning what you wanted to learn, loving who and what you wanted to love, while absolutely adored by all who know you, in an adventure without end.
Stranger than fiction,  The Universe / “Love your shoes!” / www.tut.com
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

How to keep a positive mindset?

One of my FAVORITE topics!

And you might say, ‘Why is that Patti?’


I believe it is fundamentally important.

In both your personal and professional life!

To keep a positive mindset.

It’s just like your image!

Show a poor image.

And I will guarantee you.

That is exactly how you will be treated.


And I don’t mean HOW you are dressed either.

I am talking about your:

Body language.

Eye contact.




Basically, the WHOLE package👈👈👈

Think about that date you have coming up?

What are you going to wear?

Something nice I would guess?

How about that upcoming board meeting?


Or maybe you have an important client meeting?

Same again!

So I ask you?

Are you going to walk into it.

Dressed in your old jeans and t-shirt?

Or, are you going to wear something.

That makes you feel great and powerful!

No matter your sex.

Everyone wants to feel good about themselves!

And put forth their best selves to the world.

More importantly.

I truly believe everyone deserves.

To FEEL good about themselves.

And again.

Anyone who knows me.

Knows, I’m all about that.

The point is.

You want to wear something that serves you.

And makes you both feel AND look great.

At this point.

You might be saying.

What does a positive mindset.

And making a great first impression.

Have in common?

I’m getting to that.

But for now.

Let’s look at some of my favorite tips.

For a Positive Mindset 👉👉👉

So I recently did something.

I’ve been wanting to do for some time now.

I opened a shop on Amazon!

Take a look: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

As a Personal Shopper, I now get to bring my favorite fashion finds to everyone.

Full disclosure, I make a commission.

New items are added daily.

Thank you in advance for shopping with NineFrogs!

Britney Spears Women’s Perfume,
Fantasy, Eau De Parfum EDP Spray for Women, 3.3 Fl Oz
Link below to order perfume on Amazon



Smile – yes, I know, smiling was #1 on my last blog!

Because, it’s so important I had to put it as #1 again on this list.

Let’s be honest.

I put smiling in as many blogs as I can.

Because THAT’S how important I think smiling is 😉

Like the saying goes:

Never underestimate the power of a genuine smile.

And it needs to be genuine.

Otherwise it doesn’t count.

And trust me, people can tell.👈👈👈

Your Look –  When you look in the mirror.

And, before you walk out the door.

Are you happy with what you see?

Is this the “image” of you.

That you want to share with the world?

What if today you met someone.

Who could change your whole life?

Is this the image that’s going to do it for you?

Don’t be one of those people.

I see walking around in their pj’s!

I’m not sure when it became acceptable.

To walk around in your pj’s and slippers.

Either way, don’t do it.

Because a lot of other people are doing it.

Just do you.

You should like what you see in the mirror.

You should be able to say:

I like what I see.

And more importantly.

I love how I feel!

If you want to keep a positive mindset.

And this one is super-important!

For the love of God.👈👈👈

Stop comparing yourself to others.

Get your glow on.

And please?

Don’t be afraid to stand out and shine.

I love when I see someone out there.

Doing ‘their’ thing.

Whatever their thing is.

So, if there is something you’ve been wanting to do.

Now’s the time!

Just like Dr. Seuss says.

“Why fit in when you were born to stand out?”

Finding your people.

Or should I say?

Finding the ‘right’ people.


You are the sum of the five people.

You surround yourself with.

So, choose wisely.

These days.

I keep my circle really small.

Like. tiny.

Less BS.

Less drama.

I have very high goals to reach.

Like, being an internationally successful entrepreneur.


I need to conserve my time and energy.

Since, I only have so much of it.

On a daily basis.

So again.

No distractions.

You want to be in my life?

You need to add to it.

Like I always say:

Stick with the people who make you feel like sunshine!

Stop complaining!

That is the surest way to block all the good things coming to you.

You literally block your own blessings.


Work on developing a strong, positive mindset.

And, then.

Your brain will work on solving all your problems.

That’s how it works.


If all you do is complain about all your problems.

All you are going to get.

Is more problems.

Pretty sure Oprah said that!


People often tell me.

That they can “feel” my positive energy.

When they first meet me.

Why is that you might ask?

Well, I believe it is a combination of things:

My beautiful smile.

(hey, we’re all born with a gift or two).

I dress nicely.

Even when I’m going to the gym.

I make sure I look good!

And not for anyone else.

That’s for me.

Because I like to look in the mirror.

And feel happy with what I see.

More importantly.

I like to feel good about myself.

Helps with my mindset.

And oh, this one:

My hair…seriously!

People LOVE my hair.

I can’t tell you how many compliments I get on it.

And it makes people smile 😉

My vibe.

On a typical day.

On a scale of 1-10, is usually about a 8-9.

It is that high 24/7?

Absolutely not.

But that’s a blog for another day!

Just think when you meet someone for the first time.

Don’t you want them to walk away thinking.

“I really like this person.”

People who do well in sales know this all too well!

Mindset – what is your mindset?

When I look back on my days.

My corporate world days.

I now realize.“How can I make it?” (6.20.2023)

I was always searching for something bigger.

Than what I was doing.✔✔✔

I always felt this need to discover.


And soak-up every bit of knowledge.

I could get my hands on (this was before the internet).

Back in those days.

I went to as many seminars as I could.

(I would plead with my manager.

saying attending would make me a much better employee,

even though the seminar had zero to do with work).

This is the front page of my Franklin Planner.

That I literally have had for years☝☝☝

The Planner was like a pre-Google!

And those two notes.

Were from a two-day seminar I attended.

With a man named Coach Joe!

He was amazing!

He gave everyone in that class those two notes 👈👈👈

How special do you think.

Everyone in that class felt upon receiving those?

Pretty damn special I can tell you!

December 6, 2010 – I have so many clippings like this in my book.👈👈👈

So what’s my point of all this?

For me sharing these things with you?

I realized something.

I have been teaching myself.

Over all these years.

To have the utmost highest mindset I can possibly have.

And, consistently work at it EVERYDAY.👈👈👈

To keep a positive mindset.

Your mind has to literally be a locked door.

So that you don’t let any sh*t get in.


Don’t let that happen.

Keep your mind sharp.👈👈👈

You want to possess a mindset.

So positive.

That is not only going to lead you to your dreams.


Be so damn clear that other’s will feel it off of you!

Your Words – What about your words?

When you meet someone for the first time.

Do you have something nice to say?

Compliments always work.

When meeting someone for the first time.

I mean, who doesn’t love a compliment? 👈👈👈

Such as:

“Love your shoes!”

“You have a great smile ;-)”

“Wonderful meeting you!”

“I’ve been looking forward to meeting you.”

“I knew this was going to be a great day!”

You get the idea!

That’s a wrap!

Love your shoes!

It’s HERE:

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today:  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you check out my shop on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“Love your shoes!”



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