“Is the game fixed?” (1.1.16)

Patricia Bokowski, next time you feel really hurt, really angry, or really, really upset, and you’re sure that even I have been violated, shaken, and humbled, quick, check and see if the sky is any less blue, the sun any less radiant, the birds have stopped singing, or the flowers have lost their scent. 

I’ll wager you’ll find that life has gone on much as before. Too consumed by the powers of now and the inevitabilities of love, understanding, and eternal life to have even missed a beat. 

  The Universe / “Is the game fixed?”

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

Is the game fixed?

The age-old question!

Is it, or isn’t it?

Honestly, I don’t think it’s fixed.

I don’t think your future is already planned out by the heavens.

I think, you make your future.

Whatever you see your future as being.

Too many people.

Let ‘fate’ foresee their future.

As in, what you were born into.

But, if you truly want to take your future in your hands.

Then, you are going to need to do something.

That’s going to push you to the next level.

And you may read this and say:

“No problem, I can do that.”

Only, it sounds a lot easier than it is.

Because, once you take that step.

You are now stepping into a world.

Where you live everyday being uncomfortable.

And, you have to be ‘good’ with it.

Trust me when I tell you.

THIS is not for everyone!

But, if you are really serious.

About changing our future.

Of not living a mediocre life.

And living a life you deserve.

Then I say:

Prepare for GREATNESS!

If it comes.

Let it.

If it goes.

Let it.

Take chances.

Move mountains.

Do things that scare the f*ck out of you!

Push yourself.

We get so comfortable.

We forget that we are made.

To do hard things!

It all comes down to:

Being comfortable with being uncomfortable.

As the saying goes:

If you aren’t living on the edge.

You are taking up too much room.

Life shrinks or expands.

In direct proportion to one’s courage.

Be courageous.

Do hard things.

Things that make you uncomfortable.

Those things that you keep pushing.

To the back of your  “to do” list.

Do them.

Push yourself harder than you ever have.

See what you are made of!

People always think, ‘this is only how much I can do.’

And I say.

No, you are capable of so much more.

Myself included.

Hear this.

Fall in love (or, all over again).

Only, this time with yourself👈👈👈

Discover what you are made of.


It will most likely be much more than you think!

That goes for me too.

I’ve had to come out of my comfort zone.

And do new things.

I started my YouTube Channel.

That took longer than expected.

And I started on TikTok too.

Both, took me out of my comfort zone.

And now I have some other things on my “to do” list.

That I want to accomplish this year.


Nothing happens until you put the action behind it.

Do that thing that scares the sh*t out you.

Because one of two things will happen.

Either you will fail miserably.


It will be a huge success.

Either way.


And a little something I learned recently.

One of those ‘Aha’ moments.

Stop worrying about the likes and comments.

Just do it.

And keep doing it.

Eventually, they will come.

Just don’t stop because they aren’t there.

Keep your mind and eyes.

Open to everything!👈👈👈

You never know.

Where you will find your next miracle?

Or find you?

That’s why I always say.

Get out of your own way! NineFrogs Daily:


We trip ourselves up all the time.


Get out of your own damn way.

Stop doubting yourself.

And just do it.

Now is the time.

Move mountains.

Lots of them!

Please note.

Keep it happy 🙂

Reset your mindset set to success.

No matter what is going on around you.

Just keep telling yourself:


Know that you are always winning.

(That’s success mindset).

Know that The Universe is on your side.

And wants what you want.


Keep shining.

Like The Universe is conspiring on your behalf.

Because she is.

Don’t be afraid to break the rules.

Not the law.

You don’t have to follow the herd.

In fact.


Do your own thing.

Be alone.

And learn the power in it.

Find out what you are made of, really!

You think you can only do this much.

When in fact.

You can do a whole lot more.

And you won’t know unless you try.

We are made to do hard things!

It’s just no one tells us that!

Be kind to yourself.


Say nice things to yourself.

And watch what happens.

Stop beating yourself up for who you are not.

And instead.  NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

Give yourself high-fives for who you are!


You are a work in progress.

Take chances.

And don’t be afraid to fail!

Failure is not the worst thing that can happen to you.

Living a mediocre life is.👈👈👈

Always strive for the BEST you can do!

If you are trying to create something beautiful.

Remember this.

“There is always a way, ALWAYS.”👈👈👈

Your future is going to be EPIC!

It’s in YOUR hands. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

Be courageous brave girl.


And, if you ask?

HOW do I start?👈👈👈

I’d answer:

Right from where you are right now!

With whatever you have!

You so got this!

I’m so proud of you!

Is the game fixed?

It’s HERE:

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I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

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Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“Is the game fixed?”



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