“Never give up!” (10.28.18)

Excuse me, Patricia Bokowski, but I would like to tell you in the strictest of confidence that there’s a massive conspiracy playing out to help you go where you’ve never gone before. 
That’s all I can tell you. 
Down low,  The Universe / “Never give up!” / www.tut.com

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius.” – NineFrogs

Here’s the thing about life.

That no one really tells us growing up.

Life is hard.

Some days.

Really hard.


I said it.


It’s hard.


You’re harder.


You just have to keep at it.

Day after day.

Week after week.

Month after month.

And year after year.

Doing your absolute best.


Remember the line?

The one about:

“the fool didn’t know he couldn’t do it, so he did it anyway!”

So guess what?

Be the fool.

Do it.

Whatever it is you’re thinking about doing.

Do it.

Life is too short not to.

And don’t worry about what other’s think.

What other’s think of you.

Is none of your business.

And news flash.

They are going to think.

What they think of you no matter what.

So, you might as well do what you really want.

Never give up!

For those that don’t know.

I started my business in 2012.

And in 2012.

I had no clue what I was doing.

Like, zero.

But guess what?

I did it anyway.

And I’ve been winging it ever since.

And, one thing I learned early on.

After some very hard.

Life lessons.

Never rely on anyone.


No, I learned that lesson real good.

These days.

I make my own opportunites.

I make sure I am ‘out there’.


I don’t wait for an invitation “to the table”.

Because, this girl isn’t afraid to eat alone.


“They” ask to sit at MY table.


Like that.

Never give up!


Stop asking people.

Who have never been.

Where you are going for directions.

It’s YOUR path.

And yours alone.

So, stop asking other people.

What YOU should do?

You can ask for advice.

But, for the love of GOD.

Do not ask other people what YOU should be doing?

Do you think Kylie Jenner.

Asked her mother.

If she should start a lipstick company?

No, she woke up one day and said, “I’m going to start a lipstick company.”

And that was that!

Never give up!

I have written often.

That I am not vanilla.


I am more pistachio with a scoop of strawberry.

I am most definitely NOT for everyone.

And I’m totally cool with that.

These days.

I can instantly tell when I meet someone who’s my kind of crazy.


I can also tell instantly.

When I meet someone who’s not.

And that’s okay too.

I went to a new store the other day.

It’s a small store, that sells hair products.

As soon as I walked in.

This lady came up to me.

(pretty sure she was the owner by the way she spoke).

Anyway, we bonded instantly.

She loved my haircut, the color, my makeup, my outfit, my confidence.

You name it.

In a matter of 15 minutes, we bonded.

My kind of weirdo.

That’s what I’m talking about.

Never give up!

I’ve been noticing some over the years.

You know.

I’m a big people watcher.

And I’ve noticed.

In general.

The older women get.

The more quiet they become.


They start loosing themselves in age.

And then wonder why they are sad?

I’ve also noticed this happens to some men too.

So, I beg you.

Please don’t let that be you.

Don’t let that woman inside of you.

Die before you are actually buried.

As for me.

I find the older I get.

The louder I’m becoming 🙂

To the dismay of many.


I have a lot of say.

And by God.

I’m going to say it

And, you should too!

Don’t let anyone silence you.

That’s how you lose your power!

Never give up!

If you’ve been reading my blogs over the years.

You know.

I am BIG on smiling.

It’s free.

And it makes other people feel good.

It makes you feel good.

So, if you are fortunate to have a smile.

Please share it with those around you.



There are many out there.

Who, just can’t find their smile.

And need yours desperately.


I can’t be everywhere 🙂

So shine your brilliant smile.

The Universe will thank you in ways you can’t even imagine.

Yes, she’s watching you.

Just like she’s watching me.

And trust me.

She will reward you for your services.

In the meantime.

Never give up!

Herman got that right!

It’s just doesn’t matter.

What matters is what you show up with to the world.

What energy are you putting out on a daily basis.

Are you contributing to the world in a good way?

Or, are you one of those people.

That when you leave the room.

The room lights up?

Because it matters.

What’s in your heart?

What’s on your mind?


Let it shine through you.

So I ask you?

Please be AMAZING!

Please be FABULOUS!

Please be BRILLIANT!

All those things!

Are so needed right now!

Like, a lot.

Never give up!

I sincerely needed to close out today’s blog with this one!

It’s my favorite one these days.

I used to cry over everything and everybody.

Not anymore!


This girl found her power.

And I hope you found yours.


Maybe you are one of those lucky ones.

Who never lost it.


I lost mine for a bit there.

But, I worked at getting it back.

And now that I have it.

I WILL NEVER LOSE IT! “Why you need to think different!” (8.1.17)

Never give up!

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6P8FSG3

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – The Frog’s Den! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCliVgDpn8Yw3eVjiX_yI6Vw

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Never give up!”



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  1. Patricia Bokowski July 22, 2021

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