“How to think positive!” (6.15.16)


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“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – The Frog’s Den

We all know that a positive mind is the key to success!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

A positive mindset is key to attaining your goals.

And is instrumental in getting your mind to do those ‘hard things”.

Of course, it’s really only ‘hard’ if you think of it that way.

It’s so easy to get all caught up with all the negativity going on in the world if we let it.  #dontdoit

The key to success is keeping yourself positive.  ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

And do you do that you might ask?  

Think about this, none of us are promised a tomorrow, so make the best of every day! 

They say the more struggles you endure, the stronger you get.  

No one gets stronger by living an easy life.

And while you are here, you should be determined to live the life of your dreams.  ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Don’t just exist, thrive!  LIVE!

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Isn’t that the truth? โ˜โ˜โ˜ 

We’ve all been there.  

Life sometimes gets the best of us.๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Old Chinese Proverb:

Fall down seven times, get up eight!

That’s the thing about life.  

You just have to keep getting up, no matter how hard life is and what it throws at you!

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As simple as that sounds, that’s really what it comes down to.  

Every morning you wake (with gratitude of course) you have two choices, to be happy or not.  

Each takes the same amount of effort.  NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

And, if you choose HAPPINESS, it doesn’t mean everything in your life is great!

Or, that you have no problems!

We all have problems, it just means you choose to live your day happy ๐Ÿ™‚

That is such a HUGE thing to get in life.

And so many people don’t!

Don’t be one of those people!

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“Strength does not come from winning!”

That really sums it up!

Real strength comes failing, over and over again.

Going through life’s storms, and coming out stronger on the other end.

See, a lot of people like to live their lives very cautiously so that they never (or as much as they can) fail at anything.

Only, that’s not how you live life.

Not if you want to achieve the level of success and happiness you truly want and deserve.

No, you go out into the world, determined to succeed.

Will you fall?  Have to move mountains?  Struggle?


Only, here’s the thing…

Don’t surrender!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Have you ever heard of The Secret?


The Universe?

We’ve all heard it.

Basically, whatever you put out into the world comes back to you tenfold.  

So be a light where there is darkness.  

Be the candle the people around you need.  ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Not everyone has the strength and where-with-all to be the rock.

Be it for them. ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ 

Hold them up.  

Spread your smile!

Your positive vibes!

And your strength.๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช

Now see what comes back to you!

Truly positive people, and I know since I am one of them, knows that in order to keep a positive mindset, we have to keep sharpening it.๐ŸŽฏ๐ŸŽฏ๐ŸŽฏ

I can’t tell you how many people have commented to me, that I am such a strong person!

That I am so brave.

Maybe I am.

I have had to deal with many life storms in my life.

And, most of them I’ve had to do alone!

It really comes down to what you want, and what you deserve๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

So, you have to say to yourself:

“Am I going to accept what is given to me, or, am I going to fight like hell to get what I deserve?”

I don’t know about you, but I’m a fighter!

And I’m going to keep fighting until I get what I want and deserve.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

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I hope I have inspired you!

Being positive is something you have to work at everyday.

There’s no magic pill you can take.

It takes work.

And once you have achieved a positive mindset, it’s a total game changer!

Your life will never be the same.

Stay positive๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

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That’s a wrap!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

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How to think positive!