“How come I can’t find it?” (9.19.16)

Remember the joy you used to feel when you’d find a quarter in the street?
And how exciting it was when you got older to find a crumpled $20 bill in the pocket of a pair of jeans you hadn’t worn in months?
Well, brace yourself, Patricia Bokowski, because the day isn’t far off when between catnaps, swimming laps, or happy dancing, you’ll be busy gathering documents for your tax return preparer and suddenly find a statement to a bank account you don’t even remember opening, with more than enough money in it to do whatever your heart now longs to do, probably twice.
You do trip us out.
Sure enough,  The Universe / “How come I can’t find it?” / www.tut.com

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

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How come I can’t find it?

Remember those words.


If you want different.

You need to do different.


You can’t expect better results.

Doing the same exact thing.

Over and over again.

Yet, I hear so many people.

Complain about that.

And yet.

So few do anything about it.

You have to understand.

That it is a mindset.

Not a ‘where you are at’ set.

You decide in your mind.

That you are not happy where you are.

And that you are ready.

To start making changes.

That are going to change your life.

Deciding that you are worthy.

Of a better life.

Just remember.

If you want different.

You have to do different.

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I opened a shop on Amazon.

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And stop being afraid.

Of what could go wrong.

You really need to turn that thinking around.

And I mean now.

FEAR nothing!

FEAR is something.

You make up in your head.

Danger is real.

As in, a dinosaur is chasing you.

And is going to eat you.

That’s danger.

FEAR is usually the things.

We THINK are going to happen.

And they usually don’t.

Or at least.

Not as bad as we think.

Here’s a little nugget of wisdom.

I wanted to share with you today:

EVERYTHING is figureoutable.

Everything 👈👈👈

Raise your vibration!


Are you worried.

About how it’s all going to work out?

Well don’t.

I learned a long time ago.

To forget about the dreaded “how’s”.

As Mike Dooley says.

You know Mike Dooley? 

The Notes From The Universe guy!

It’s not up to us to figure out the ‘how’s’.


To be present everyday!

To put out our best work.

To show up.

To be consistent.

To be persistent.

To use our creative imaginations.

To do the work!

We were born to do.

And here’s a little reminder.

Some days, you’ll knock it out of the park.

And some days, you won’t.

And that’s ok.

As long as you keep showing up!

Raise your vibration!

Are you struggling with limited beliefs?

How many times have you heard, “you can’t do that.”


“That’s never going to work.”


“What makes you think you can be successful?”


“No one is going to pay you to do that.”

The list goes on and on.


Right now!

Stop that thinking!

Trust me.

People LOVE to tell you what you can’t do.

Only, that’s what they can’t do.

Not you.

YOU, can do anything you set your mind to.

As long as you work at it daily.

Giving it everything you’ve got.

With a no-holds bar attitude.

Being relentless in your pursuit.

Of whatever sets your soul on fire ✝✝✝

Raise your vibration!

I don’t know how many times.

I’ve used that picture 👆👆👆

Because it really does say it all.

“Don’t be like the rest of them, darling.”

And it’s very easy to be like them.

To be in the same routine of them.

Do the same work.

Have the same friends.

The usual weekend fun.

Doing the same f*cking thing.

Day in and day out!

But if you’re like me.

And got hit with the bug.

The entrepreneurial bug.

You know?

The thing that wakes you wake up at 8:00am.

When you are really a 9:00am kind of girl.

The notion that you want a different kind of life.

That you dare to think differently.

Than everyone else around you.

Trust me.

That’s when your life.

Starts to turn around!

Raise your vibration!

I’ve written about this before.

All the years I worked my 9-5 job.

Talk about not doing different!

It wasn’t until I was out of that world.

For quite some time.

That I realized how much time I wasted.

Time that I actually could have been doing.

Something really amazing with my life.

Working toward a higher purpose.

I’ve said this before.

All those years.

In my past life.

And I ALWAYS knew.

There was something bigger.

That I was meant to be doing.

I just didn’t know what that ‘thing’ was.

But once I found my ‘thing’.

I’ve never looked back.

Long story short.

It was the BEST decision I have ever made!

Raise your vibration!

What so many people.

Don’t get.

Those dreams were planted.

In you for a reason.

And you know what?

Not everyone gets them.

Yes, that’s right.

Not everyone gets them.

So, if you are one of the lucky ones.

Who got one.

Then you need to do your part.

And figure out how to make them come true.


Do whatever you can.

With whatever resources you.

Trust me. “Why you need to think different!” (8.1.17)

You will be so happy with yourself that you did!

Raise your vibration!

YOU ARE ready now.

There is never going to be.

Some mystical great time to start.

Just start.

From where you are.

With what you have.

Just start.


If you want different.

You need to do different.

This is YOUR life.

And YOU are in charge of it.

If you want different move different!

That’s a wrap!

How come I can’t find it?

It’s HERE!

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I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

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Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth while!

“How come I can’t find it?”