“Why you need to think different!” (8.1.17)

When giving careful and calculated thought on how else you might see certain situations differently than you now see them — including your entire life, for that matter — please keep in mind, Patricia Bokowski, that occasionally being on “the fringe,” is good. 
Real good. 
Come in Tokyo, 
  The Universe / “Why you need to think different!”
Because when a tree falls in the woods, Patricia Bokowski, and nobody is there to hear it, it never really fell. Nor were there any woods.


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Why you need to think different!

People ask?

Why do I need to think different?

Because if you want different results.

You need to think about things differently.

You can’t be doing what everyone else is doing.

And think you are going to get different results.

Think about these things:






Only now.

Think about them differently.

As the saying goes:

“No matter how slow you go, you are still lapping everyone sitting on their couch.”

Just don’t stand still.

Keep moving in the direction of your dreams.

And show up everyday.

That, is something ‘most’ people don’t do.

People show up when it’s convenient.

When they want to.

When it’s easy.

Only, that’s not how you get results.

You get results when you show up everyday.

No matter how small the results.

Just don’t stand still!


It was the best of times, it was the worst of times,

it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness,

it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity,

it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness,

it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair…

A Tale of Two Cities


As Henry Ford said: “Whether you think you can, or you think you cannot, you are right.”

It’s all in the way you think!

Think positive thoughts.

Get positive results.

Think negative thoughts.

Get negative results.

The Universe is going to give you EXACTLY what you asked for.

That’s why I say.

You need to think different.

Think different than the crowd.

That’s another reason I keep my circle small.

Not everyone thinks like me.

And I can’t be around people who use toxic words.

And who’s actions go against my way of thinking.

It’s called protecting your energy!


How you need to live your life!

With a positive attitude.

And unstoppable determination.

That’s the human spirit at work.

That’s the kind of spirit that gets you to move mountains.

And go after those big dreams of yours.

You truly have to have the mindset that says:

“I can do this, no matter what!”

The only time you get to look back.

Is to see how far you have come.

And even then.

Don’t linger.

Because you’re not going that way!

All eyes ahead on the future!

YOUR future.

And your FUTURE is not in the past.

It’s straight in front of you.

And your jobs.

Is to not stop until you get there!


Something I learned a long time.

A few years after I started my business.

I had so many people calling me.

Messaging me.

How this person was going to do this for me.

And this other person was going to do that.

And I believed them.

Then the harsh reality came to me.

Nobody was going to save me, except me.

Nobody was going to make opportunities come my way.

Except me.

That’s thinking different.

Don’t rely on anyone but you.

Because in the end.

You are the only one who knows exactly where you want to be!


If you are lucky enough, like me.

To have this ‘thing’ put in you.

This ‘thing’ that says to you every morning.

‘You gotta make this work.”

“You gotta figure out a way.”

Because the way I see it.

“It’ is seeking me.

As much as I am seeking ‘it’.

My job, for the past eight years.

Has been figuring out how to find ‘it’.

I know I’m close.

I just have to keep at it!

That’s thinking different. 

“Soda becomes vodka.  Bikes become cars.

Kisses turn into sex.  

Remember when

dad’s shoulder’s were the highest place

on earth and mom was your hero?

Race issues were about who ran the 

fastest.  War was only a card game.

The most pain you felt was when you

skinned your knees, and goodbyes only

meant until tomorrow!

And we couldn’t wait to grow up.”

– Word Porn

“If nothing is sure, anything is possible.” 

That’s how you have to live your life!

That’s the kind of spirit you need to have.

That’s the kind of mindset you need.

Don’t let anyone tell you, that you can’t do something.

YOU can do anything you set your mind to.

And show up everyday to.

Why you need to think different!

Because that’s how you move mountains.


Have you heard?

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My first.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

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