“How can I change?” (2.12.18)

There’s always been something about you, Patricia Bokowski, that gave me goose bumps and, finally, I think I’m able to put a finger on it.
Without you, Patricia Bokowski, who else would the angels point to when speaking of “our kind – only braver”?
You inspire us each and every day.
With deep pride,  The Universe / “How can I change?” / www.tut.com
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How can I change?

In this game of life.

You have to think on your feet!


And, in case you weren’t aware.

We’re all playing!

Which is why.

I am always surprised.

That people complain about Monday’s?

If that’s you.

Guess what?

Time to rethink!


I know you know that.


I feel we have to address this issue.


If you are one of those people.

Then you either need to find a new job.


Start your own business!

I need a change!

Which is exactly what I did back in 2012.



Best decision I ever made for myself.

And my family.

I was done with the whole corporate life.

After twenty some odd years.

I was through with it.


It was time to start my ‘own’ thing.


Like I said.

BEST decision EVER!

You can look at Mondays one of two ways.

Either look at Monday’s as a clean slate.

And a fresh start to your week.



In which case.

I would say.

You need a new career.

That’s right.

Not just a new job.

A whole new career.

I have found.

Over the years of talking to people.

That, people who hate Monday’s.

Are also.

The very people who live for Friday’s.

And the weekend.

Sad way to live!

You are literally.

Wishing your whole life away.

It starts like this.

You manage your way through Monday.

Then Tuesday.




Tomorrow is:


Happiness sets in!


It’s the weekend!

(insert questionable choices made over weekend).


It’s Sunday morning.

OMG, tomorrow is Monday.


And we are back to Monday!

(insert sounds of loud groans).

I HATE Monday’s.

Sound familiar?

How about instead of hating Monday’s.

You choose instead.

To be a shark this week instead!

Yes, you heard me!

A BIG, scary, f*cking shark👈👈👈

See, sharks don’t let things get in their way.

They just tear through anything.

Or, they eat them.

Whichever the case.

And they don’t really care.

Because, they are SHARKS.

And they are scary AF👈👈👈

Yes, you! NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY!”

I need a change!

In order to get great results. 

You need to do the things others won’t.

It’s just the way it works.

You can either spend your time sitting on the couch.


Doing something that will change your life.

Scary stuff, I know!

The game of life!

Is not for the weak!

Most people spend so much time.

Complaining about “whatever”.

That they don’t even take the time to realize.


A privilege denied to many, everyday.

Wake-up call people!

Make sure you give thanks.

Everyday that you wake up!

And, stop f*cking complaining about ‘everything’.


It’s annoying AF listening to you all!

That’s right! 

When a woman knows what she brings to the table.

She doesn’t care if she has to eat alone.

In fact.

Many times we prefer it!

A major plus to have in life:

A great sense of humor.

A great sense of humor is the thing you need.

To survive on those days.

And let’s be honest.

That’s life.

Good days.

Bad days.


Having a good sense of humor helps on both!

You’re ready!

Life is all about taking chances. 👈👈👈

Never live your life that you are always so “comfortable”.

If there is a leap to be made in your life, by all means, take THE LEAP!


Make it a BIG one!

You’re ready!

Time is going to pass anyway.

So why not work on your dream?

One of the worst things in the world.

Would be to look back over your life.

And regret not going for it!

For me personally.

And I’ve written about this before.

I am working on my empire.

My NineFrogs empire/brand.

I’ve been working on it for quite a few years now.





Summer Time.

That’s what happens when you become laser-focused.👈👈👈

You have this burning passion.

And it’s pretty much the only thing you think about.


That about sums it up.

You’re ready!

Most people like to complicate the whole thing.

When literally, that’s what it comes down to.

Write it down on paper.

It doesn’t have to be some long, drawn out Master Plan.

Take out a piece of plain paper.

And write what you want to accomplish.

As in, your major goal.

Then write five things you can do to get you there.

And then be prepared to keep changing those five things.

And see, it doesn’t matter, as long as you don’t change your Major Goal.

Mine, is to be Internationally Successful👈👈👈

And that’s what I work on everyday.

In every way I can think of!

Spend your precious time with people that make you feel alive 👈👈👈

People who appreciate your quirks and who love you like crazy.

Life is way too short to spend your time with people who merely ‘tolerate’ you.

I learned that lesson the hard way.

These days, I only spend time with people I really enjoy.

Otherwise, I spend it alone.

And I’m totally fine with that.

Because as I’ve learned over the past few years or so, I’m excellent company.👈👈👈

I’m funny.

I’m smart.

I’m interested in a variety of things.

I’m NEVER bored and I’m never boring!

I feel that’s how most women feel.


We’ve all battled some life storm or 13579468357!


And yet.

We keep on pushing!

That’s what I love about women.

You may knock us down.

But we always come up swinging!

Pretty much!

Hey, whatever it takes!

Just remember, you need to push yourself.

Get out of your comfort zone.


I know.

You hate the idea of that.

But, that is what is going to get you to the next level.

Unless of course.

You are ok staying where you are,

For like.

The rest of your life.

Living a mediocre life.

When you actually have the potential.

To live an amazing life.

Choose wisely! NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY”:

How can I change?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

Available now on Amazon!

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

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That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“How can I change?”


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