“How can I be successful?” (2.12.18)

There’s always been something about you, Patricia Bokowski, that gave me goose bumps and, finally, I think I’m able to put a finger on it.
Without you, Patricia Bokowski, who else would the angels point to when speaking of “our kind – only braver”?
You inspire us each and every day.
With deep pride,  The Universe / “How can I be successful?” / www.tut.com
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – Kermit the Frog 🐸🐸🐸

How can I be successful?

In this game of life.

You have to think on your feet!


And, be quick about it as well.

And, you know we’re all playing it.

Which is why.

I am always surprised.

That people complain about everything.

If that’s you.

Guess what?

Time to rethink life.


I know you know that.


I feel we have to address this issue.


If you are one of those people.

Then you either need to find a new life.

So, a few months ago.

I did something I’ve been wanting to do for some time now.

I opened a shop on Amazon.

As a Personal Shopper, it brings me great joy.

To bring my favorite fashion finds to everyone.

Take a look: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Full disclosure, I make a commission.

FYI. I add new items every day.

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I know, because I did it myself.

Back in 2012.



Best decision I ever made for myself.

And my family.

I was done with the whole corporate life.

After twenty some odd years.

I was through with it.


It was time to start my ‘own’ thing.


Like I said.

BEST decision EVER!

It’s like how people look at Monday’s!

Like, you can look at Monday’s one of two ways.

Either look at Monday’s as a clean slate.

And a fresh start to your week.



In which case.

I would say.

You need a new career.

That’s right.

Not just a new job.

A whole new career.

I have found.

Over the years of talking to people.

That, people who hate Monday’s.

Are also.

The very people who live for Friday’s.

And the weekend.

Sad way to live!

You are literally.

Wishing your whole life away.

And certainly not on the road to success.

It starts like this.

You manage your way through Monday.

Then Tuesday.




Tomorrow is:


Happiness sets in!


It’s the weekend!

(insert questionable choices made over weekend).


It’s Sunday morning.

OMG, tomorrow is Monday.


And we are back to Monday!

(insert sounds of loud groans).

I HATE Monday’s.

Sound familiar?

How about instead of hating Monday’s.

You choose a new philosophy.

Instead of going into Monday all sad and gloomy.

You choose to be a shark this week instead!

Yes, you heard me!

A BIG, scary, mother-f*cking shark👈👈👈

See, sharks don’t let things get in their way.

They just tear through anything.

Or, they eat them.

Whichever the case.

And they don’t really care.

Because, they are SHARKS.

And they are scary AF👈👈👈

Yes, you! NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY!”

That’s the kind of attitude you need to have.

But also, be kind.

No one is giving you permission to be a d(ck.

Just a force of nature.

Two totally different animals.

In order to get great results. 

You need to do the things others won’t.

It’s just the way it works.

You can either spend your time sitting on the couch.


Doing something that will change your life.

Scary stuff, I know!

Climbing the ladder of success.

Is not for the weak!

Most people spend so much time.

Complaining about “whatever”.

That they don’t even take the time to realize.


A privilege denied to many, everyday.

Wake-up call people!

Make sure you give thanks.

Everyday that you wake up!

And, stop f*cking complaining about ‘everything’.


It’s annoying AF listening to you all!

That’s right! 

When a woman knows what she brings to the table.

She doesn’t care if she has to eat alone.

In fact.

Many times we prefer it!

A major plus to have in life:

A great sense of humor.

A great sense of humor is the thing you need.

To survive on those days.

And let’s be honest.

That’s life.

Good days.

Bad days.


Having a good sense of humor helps on both!

How can I be successful?

Life is all about taking chances. 👈👈👈

Never live your life.

That you are always so “comfortable”.

If there is a leap to be made in your life.

By all means, take THE LEAP!


Make it a BIG one at that!

Time is going to pass anyway.

So why not work on your dream?

One of the worst things in the world.

Would be to look back over your life.

And regret not going for it!

For me personally.

And I’ve written about this before.

I am working on my empire.

My NineFrogs empire.

I’ve been working on it for quite a few years now.





Summer Time.

That’s what happens.

When you become laser-focused.👈👈👈

You have this burning passion.

And it’s pretty much.

The only thing you think about.


Trust me on that one.

Most people like to complicate the whole “success” thing.

When literally.

What it comes down to.

Is a burning desire.

To make ‘something’ happen.

To bring it to fruition.

Whatever your ‘thing’ is.

And how do you do that?

Write it down on a piece of paper.

As in, your major goal.

Then write five things you can do to get you there.

Then be prepared to keep changing those five things.

Because you’ll need to come up with another five things.

Which is totally cool.

Just as long as you don’t change your Major Goal.

My goal.

Which I have said many, many times.

Is to be an Internationally Successful Entrepreneur!

And that’s what I work on everyday.

In every way I can think of!

Spend your precious time.

With people that get you.

People who appreciate your quirks.

And who love you like crazy.

Life is way too short.

To spend with people who merely ‘tolerate’ you.

I learned that lesson the hard way.

These days.

I only spend my time with people who’s company I really enjoy.

Otherwise, I spend it alone.

And I’m totally fine with that.

Because as I’ve learned over the past few years or so.

I’m excellent company.

I’m funny.

I’m smart.

I’m interested in a variety of things.

I’m NEVER bored.

And I’m never boring!

I feel like that’s how a lot of women feel.

Like, we’re all running around.

With bullet holes in our armor.

Still looking like wounded butterflies.

And yet.

We keep on pushing!

That’s what I love about women.

You may knock us down.

But we always come up rise!

Pretty much!

Just remember, you need to push yourself.

Get out of your comfort zone.

Yes, I know.

You hate the idea of that.

But, that is what is going to get you.

To the next level.

Unless of course.

You are ok staying where you are,

For like.

The rest of your life.

Living a mediocre life.

When you actually have the potential.

To live an amazing life.

Choose wisely my friend.

Because you deserve it all.

And remember.

I believe in you!

How can I be successful?

It’s HERE!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you check out my shop on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“How can I be successful?”