“Enough already!” (7.31.17)

If you want better from others, Patricia Bokowski, be better yourself.
Want better?
  The Universe / “Enough already!”
Always bring it home, Patricia Bokowski, and then watch how others change.
“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

Enough already!

I hear that often these days.

Don’t you?

So how can we fix that?

You know?

Make folks feel better.

Here’s a little something.

I wanted to share with you all.

Zig Ziglar states:

“Motivation doesn’t last, neither does bathing, that’s why we recommend it daily.”

So, I’ve been thinking.

Why are so many people cranky these days?

Here’s what I think.

I believe the cause of their misery is.

Somewhere along the way.

They lost their power.

Yes, not only that.

They gave up their power.

Without even realizing it.

And that’s why they can’t.

Figure out how to help themselves.

Let me tell you.

Feeling helpless.

Is one of the WORST feelings you can have.

So today.

In my effort.

To help all those hopeless souls.

Who can’t get a grasp on their happiness.

I’ve assembled some of my favorite quotes!

Quotes that are designed.

To inspire, motivate and set your soul on fire!

Hope it works kids.

THAT is the BIG lesson for sure!

Once you realize that.

Your life changes.👈👈👈

No one scares you anymore!

And let’s be honest.

That’s one of the reasons we feel powerless.

Because we feel someone.

OR something is more powerful than us!

We either let the person.

Or the situation.

Become BIGGER than us.

When in reality.

YOU have the power.

If this is you?

It’s time to regain YOUR power today.👈👈👈

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“The first step to getting anywhere

is deciding you’re not willing to stay where you are.”

– Kermit the Frog

Nine Frogs 🐸🐸🐸


I’ve written about this before in my blogs.

Before I started my business.

I had a good amount of self-confidence.👈👈👈

Only, once I started my business.

And things started to take off.

My self-confidence jumped significantly.

And one of the biggest changes.

I noticed in myself.

Was I started going out to eat by myself.

Something I had RARELY done before.

And not just going out to eat.

I started going out everywhere by myself.

Yes, I know many cringe at the idea.

It was as if a whole new world opened up to me.

New feelings, new experiences in this new world.

(Wait till I get to Public Speaking).

I get that it’s not for everyone.

Trust me, I get it.

I used to be the same way.

I would NEVER go out to eat by myself.

Now, I don’t give it a second thought.

Just like going to a networking event by myself.

I just do it as they say 😉

That’s just one of the many changes.

That has happened to me over the years.

Going out to places by myself.

Starting my very own business.

Not caring what others think.

About me.

About what I’m doing.

About who I’m hanging out with.

All I know is.

I’m more confident then I’ve ever been in my entire life.

Growing my audience around the world.

By thousands of followers.

None of these things ever would have happened.

Had I not had the confidence.

To start my NineFrogs business.

So, what sets your soul on fire?

I knew for years.

Back when I was working in the corporate world.

That there was something bigger for me to do.

I just didn’t know what THAT thing was?

Only I just knew it in my soul.

And as the years went by.

That feeling only got stronger.

I would literally say to myself,:

‘Patti, there is something OUT there you are supposed to be doing.’

And it is most definitely NOT here.👈👈👈

With this mundane work.

No, there was a whole new world.

Waiting for me!

And I was hell-bent on finding it!

That’s the kind of attitude.

One has to have.

In order to accomplish great things!

It’s not arrogance.

It’s confidence.

And, if you want to move mountains.

Which, we know you do.

That’s the kind of attitude.

You need to have.

Want to be better?

Hang with the eagles!

Be confident in yourself.

Like, really confident.

Know that you are on the right path.

Have unwavering confidence in yourself.

Know you have got what it takes.

And that you are in it for the long-haul.

What I have found over the years.

Is this.

Most people want safe and secure.

Most people want comfort.

Even if it is comfortable misery.

Actually, a lot of comfortable misery.

But they don’t care.

Because it’s something they know.

So, they won’t change it.


Most people will accept a mediocre life.

Not me.

Been there done that.👈👈👈

These days.

I am going to the top of the mountain.

No matter WTF I have to do.

To get there!


When I was a kid.

I was afraid of everything.👈👈👈


Only as the years went on.

And the more “life” storms I went through.

I wasn’t as afraid.

And now I have found.

That with each “life” storm.

It actually making me more courageous.

Quite honestly.

As the saying goes:

‘That which does not kill us makes us stronger.”

I should have that tattooed on my forehead.

Because, I have been through it all.


Quite honestly.

That statement couldn’t be more true!👈👈👈

Here’s a little nugget.

I wanted to share with you:

All my years working in the corporate world.

Being around all these ‘executives’👈👈👈

Executives who thought they were so f*cking smart.

F*cking smarter than me.

But in reality.

They were not.

They were just playing the game.

Better than me.👈👈👈

Because at the time.

I didn’t know we were playing a game?

Then I learned the truth.

So now I learned how to play the game.

I got smarter.

And, let me tell you something.

When you are a smart woman.

You can be a threat to many people.

So if you want me advice.

Be better.

Be smarter.

Learn the rules of the game.

And, then break them!

The way I see it.

You have two choices in life.

You can silence yourself.

And not be a threat to anyone.



And let your voice be HEARD👈👈👈

Needless to say.

I’ve taking the second option.

As Maya Angelou says:

“When one woman speaks up for herself, she speaks up for all women.”

That’s how you inspire others.

By telling your story.

Because, then YOUR story.

Becomes someone else’s inspiration👈👈👈


You will be.

Like I say.

You’re not vanilla.

Everyone is not going to like you.

I know that about me.

And you know what?

I am perfectly fine with it!

I love that.

And trust me, so true!

That is true power.

The willingness to stay focused.

When the odds are against you!👈👈👈

That is truly a super-power.

The phrase “do not be afraid” is written in the bible 365 times.
That’s a daily reminder from God to live every day being fearless.
That which does not kill us makes us stronger!

That’s where so many people fail.

They are so afraid to fail.

That they don’t even try.


So you try and fail.

Now you know that’s one way NOT to do it.

But there’s still a billion other ways to try it.

So keep trying.

Keep failing.


You WILL find the way!

Don’t be afraid to fail.

Be afraid not to try.

I BELIEVE in you!

Want to be better?

Try and fail, only better.

Enough already!

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Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“Enough already!”