“Can you tell?” (3.25.19)

A philosophical journey from here to there…
Patricia Bokowski, do you think that if ten million dollars were to be suddenly deposited into your checking account, that over the following months and years you’d have fewer and fewer challenges? Or do you think, perhaps, that your challenges would simply evolve and change? 
Right, evolve and change. 
And do you think that with your extra $10 million, you’d gradually be presented with more and more opportunities to be happy? Or do you think, perhaps, that your opportunities would simply evolve and change? 
Right, evolve and change. 
Now, doesn’t that answer everything? 
Beeb, beeb –   The Universe
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Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Can you tell?




As we all know.

There are a lot of doors out there.

The question is?

How many have you been knocking on?

And, question for you?

You do realize that not all doors are for you?

So stop wasting your time.

Knocking on doors that aren’t yours!

That is what messes people up.

They get stuck on one door.

Knocking and knocking.

On a door.

That wasn’t there’s!👈👈👈

“If a door doesn’t open for you, it’s not your door.”

Which is NOT to say, you give up.

What is truly yours.

Won’t ever be withheld from you👈👈👈

It just means.

You need to find another door.

Because when people get all hung up on ‘one’ door.

THAT one “door”.

That if it doesn’t open.

They will spend the rest of their lives.

Concentrating on the one that didn’t open.. 

Instead of going out.

And knocking on new doors!

Keep knocking!

You need to know when it’s time to pivot.

Things are changing quickly.

The landscape has a lot of moving pieces.

And if you want to be part of that landscape.. 

You have to be willing to start knocking on new doors.

Old doors lead to old ways.

If you want to see where you future is going.

Keep knocking!

You can change your life at any second.

Seriously, all you have to do is “try”.

People forget.

Life can literally change in a nano-second!!!

There are millions of doors out there.

Your job is to find the door(s) that are meant for you.  👈👈👈

And the only way you are going to find “your” door.

Is to knock on as many as you can!

Knock. Knock. Knock.

Keep knocking!

Can you tell?

The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸

It always amazes me.

How quick people are to stop knocking on doors.

Like, they knock on a few doors.

They don’t get the results they want.

And now.

They stop knocking entirely.

Let’s say, you want to buy a car.

And let’s say, you have a limited budget.

You call a few places.

Maybe you even visit a few places.

And you find nothing.

So you say, ‘that’s it, I’m never going to find anything’.

Same goes for looking for a new job, house, partner, and so on.

You get the idea.

Hustle needs to be your new best friend.


Keep knocking on those doors until you find the one.

The one that may lead to where you want to go.

And never stop knocking until you get there!

Knock. Knock. Knock.

Keep knocking!

Can you tell?

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

If you truly want to work life’s magic.

All you have to do is get out there.

In the world.

Meet new people.

And go new places.👈👈👈

Old keys will never open new doors.

You want new doors.

To lead you to new places.

Keep walking!

Back in 2012.

I had no idea what I was doing.

Which I’ve spoken about before.

When I started my business. 

But, one thing I did know!👈👈👈

I knew for sure that I had to get myself “out there”.

And meet as many people as I could.

I wanted to let as many people know;

Who I was: 👈👈👈

What services I was offering: 👈👈👈

What I was all about:👈👈👈

Did I know what I was doing?

Or how I was going to do that?


I just made it up as I went along.



Is what I continue to do today!

I’ve just gotten better at it!

And, btw.

That’s what most successful people do.

Just winging it on a daily basis!

I’m sure I’ve told you.

Over the years.

I’ve met quite a few people for coffee.

People I met at networking events.

With a follow-up cup of coffee to get to know one another.

Then there were the many phone calls with complete strangers.

Something I don’t do anymore.

But, back then it was a necessity.

All in the name of getting me and my business ‘out there’.

THAT’S one of the ways you find your door.  👈👈👈

By knocking on any door that sounds like it might be your door.

Even if it’s a long-shot, take it!

Worse that can happen.

Wrong door.

Knock. Knock. Knock.

And if turns out not to be your door?

Get the f*ck out asap!

And you don’t have to be polite about it either.

Just leave.

And don’t feel sorry for yourself because it’s not your door.

You know anything about The Rock’s career?

Do you know how many different things he did.

Until he found success?

I mean, real success?

He did so many things.

That’s what I’m talking about.

He knocked on plenty of doors.

And he will be the first to tell you.

Many of them just did not work for him.

Did that stop him from knocking on more doors?

Absolutely not.

It just made him knock on more!

Knock. Knock. Knock.

You never give up on the dream.

You just have to move along to the next door. 

And guess what?

There are an infinite amount of doors to try.👈👈👈

So don’t give up hope.

If something doesn’t work.

It wasn’t YOUR door.

Do you know how many doors.

I have knocked on over the years?

More doors than I can count.

I am still finding more doors.

Knock. Knock. Knock.

Never give up on your dreams!

No matter how long it takes.

It’s not a RACE.

It’s a marathon.

So enjoy the journey. 

Knock. Knock. Knock.


Do not let someone else tell YOU.

Which door is yours.

People mean well.

They say things like, ‘oh, you should do this.

Or. “you should do that.”


You you decide if it is your door. 

And you alone.

From here to there!


Never stop knocking.



As I’ve said.

Over the years. NineFrogs Daily:

I have knocked on more doors

Than I can count.

Some doors were good.

And some, not so good.


I would never have found out.

If I hadn’t knocked on the doors.

From here to there!

Can you tell?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!’ – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

Available now on Amazon!

Click link for purchase: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Can you tell?”


1027 St. Johnland Road, Kings Park, NY 11754


Comments (2)

  1. Michael Ault March 24, 2019
    • Patricia Bokowski March 25, 2019

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