“Can I help you?” (8.6.17)

Patricia Bokowski, you are “here” (your life now) and you want to go “there” (your dreamed-of life). And because both are physical places, it would seem that you must manipulate the physical world to go from “here” to “there.” 
This is the ultimate illusion. 
Physical places are simply mirages, reflections of an inner world, the world of your thoughts. So to get from “here” to “there,” begin your manipulations within, by thinking of your desired end results, as if they’d already come to pass.
A thought worth dwelling on, 
  The Universe / “Can I help you?”

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius.” – NineFrogs

Can I help you?

Let’s be honest.

We’ve all needed a hand.

Every now and then.

And I can tell you this.

While pursuing your dreams.

You might need a little more.

Than most times.

And that’s okay.

It’s foreign territory for most of us.

But one bit of advice I would give is this:

Let go of the fear!


Let. It. Go.

Because, when you are going after.

Your BIG dreams👈👈👈

The ONE thing you really need.

Is an unwavering belief in yourself!

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That’s how you can think BIG!

So, my advice:

You should think BIG.

Because, quite honestly.

It’s just as easy.

To think BIG.

Than it is.

To think small!

Okay, that might be a bit dramatic.

But, you get the point.

This is a reminder.

To live your life fiercely.

Don’t be so comfortable in it.

That’s how you become mediocre.

You have to have the attitude.

That there is always something better.

Around the corner.

But, you gotta be on your toes.

If you want it to come to you.

Yes, that kind of mindset!

Think as if.

As if everything you want to come true.

Is going to come true!

A life.

Where serendipities happen all the time?

A life in which everyday.

You take action towards your goals.

Some days you might hit it out of the park.

And some days.

You’ll be lucky if you can send an email.

And, that’s ok.

The point is.

Make sure you keep showing up!

From Dr. David Schwartz’s book, The Magic of Thinking Big:

Believe BIG.

“The size of your success is determined by the size of your belief.  Think little goals and expect little achievements.  Think BIG goals and win BIG success.  Remember this, too!  BIG ideas and BIG plans are often often easier, certainly no more difficult, than small ideas and small plans.”

And there you have it!

Believe you can move mountains.

And you WILL!

“If you truly believe that you can achieve something, you will find a way to do it.” – Napoleon Hill

And if you don’t.

You won’t.

That’s what it all comes down to!

Figuring out a way.

A way to move your mountains!

This is not a dress rehearsal!👈👈👈

And there are no do-overs!

It is the real thing.

I am so amazed.

When I see so many people.

Literally sleep-walking their way through life.

Like, they are either waiting to die (literally).

Or live their lives like they are half-dead.

Don’t be one of those people.

Just keep thinking.

How can I make my life bigger?

And you will be astounded!

When The Universe answers you!

Sometimes being brave.

Is the only thing you have.

Be brave and do the things.

Most people would never dream of doing.

That’s how you move mountains.

That’s how you THINK BIG.

MOST people never dream.

Of the things you and I dream of doing.

For them, that’s for ‘other people.’

So they stay in their mediocre lane.

Year after year after year.

Never even thinking!

That their lives could be so much bigger.


And more abundant!


Here’s the thing,

No one is going to do this for you.

No one EXCEPT you!

No one is going to move these mountains, except you.

So stop waiting for the right moment.

Or, for someone to give you permission.

To be great!

And give up the notion that you aren’t good enough!

Smart enough.

Have all the answers!

Work with what you’ve got.

And go from there!

Those mountains.

Are NOT going to build themselves.

I’ve said this a million times.

Do you think I knew how to do.

Most of things I’ve done.

Over the last ten years?

Hell no!

I just learned as I went along.

That’s why it’s called a ‘process’.

Once again.

When I started my business back in 2012.“How can I move on?” (9.1.2021)

I had NO idea what I was doing.

No idea!

Even though.

I had been in the business world for over twenty years.

Owning your own business is a totally different thing.

But, I did know one thing.

That I was going to be internationally successful👈👈👈

And how was I going to do that you might ask?

By forging my own path!👈👈👈

Has it been easy?


Has it been worth it.


Can I help you?

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Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

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“Can I help you?”



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