“Women who wear black live colorful lives!” (11.24.17)

Patricia Bokowski, each challenge adds to the suspense, adds to the mystery, adds to the chaos, adds to the possibilities, adds to the romance, adds to the adventure, adds to the joy. 
And I say anything that adds to the joy should be embraced. 
Cool?   The Universe / “Women who wear black live colorful lives!


There’s nothing challenging that has ever happened in your life, Patricia Bokowski, that one day you won’t look back upon with deep gratitude.

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

The Badura Twins in Pretty Little Thing


We are talking Women Who Wear Black.

Such as me.

Why you might ask?

I find it looks best on me.


It’s easier to put outfits together.

I don’t know about you.


I lead a busy life.


I do full makeup and hair everyday.

I need to make dressing as easy as possible.


I wear black.


It’s easy to accessorize.


I believe.

It gives a women.

A hint of mystique. NineFrogs “Quote of the Day”!

Yes they do☝☝☝

Are you one of us?

What makes you wear black all the time?

Sure, they say it makes you look slimmer.

But, it’s more than that👈👈👈

I find it adds a bit of mystique to a woman.

Something that says, ‘I would love to know what is going on in her head because I bet she is very interesting.’

Yes, that’s what wearing black does to a woman🔥🔥🔥

One of my favorite designers on IG – House of CB

Paige Dress / Alex Perry

Every time!

Remember that!

And yes, even in the midst of a pandemic.

That is still not a good reason to not look your best.

Because, if you are not looking your best everyday.

You certainly aren’t doing your best everyday!

Dress your best everyday.

And see how life changing it can be!


Hot Sophistication / Lane Bryant 

I’ve said that like a million times.

It is FAR better to be over-dressed than under-dressed.

Arrive over-dressed,

And you are guaranteed to be the life of the party.


Arrive under-dressed.

And you will feel like hiding out in the ladies room all night!

I told this story a couple of years ago.

My friend invited me to her country club (casual country club).


I was in the ladies room.

Checking myself out in the full length mirror.

Making sure my dress was hanging where it was supposed to be.

All of a sudden.

This woman (that I did not know) comes out of the stall.

Stands right next to me.

Looks in the mirror.

And then says…

‘you know, this is a CASUAL party, you DIDN’T HAVE to wear a dress.’

I should add.

She was wearing a lovely pair of pants.👈👈👈

See, that’s the power of over-dressing!✔✔✔

And I wasn’t even wearing a LBD.

As I recall, it was some floral summer dress.


That woman felt so intimated because of the way I was dressed.

That’s what you call power in dressing👈👈👈





That is not the first time.







That Back, Adore / Indah Clothing

That’s the thing about wearing black.

Even if you are over-dressed, it still doesn’t matter.

I wear black all the time.

Because, I can dress it up or dress it down.

All I have to do is change my makeup or jewelry.

And I have a whole new look.

It’s much easier for me to work with on a daily basis.

I don’t know about you.

But I lead a busy life.

And I do full makeup and hair everyday.

So I need to make getting dressed as easy as possible.

And, dressing in black works for me!

Mac Duggal

Absolutely Love <3 / Intermix

Mickey Mouse Dress / Lena Hoschek


When you are looking for something different / Stone Cold Fox

My Favorite Of Them All / The Ashley Graham / Marina Rinaldi

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon in paperback.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – The Frog’s Den!

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ “People will stare.  Make it worth their while!”

“Women who wear black live colorful lives.”



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