“Where do I find them?” (9.23.15)

Patricia Bokowski, can you keep a secret? 
You know the space between you and all things, the void. Like right now, the space between you and your computer. 
That’s where I hide… and watch. 
Looking to see what your expectations are: of yourself, others, abundance, health, and happiness.
And from this space as I catch your thoughts, hear your words, and see all you do, no matter where we are, I manifest the next moment in time. 
Fade out with “I believe in miracles, you sexy thing” by Hot Chocolate – 
  The Universe / “Where do I find them?” / www.tut.com
Patricia Bokowski, if you reach out now, into this space, you can feel me. I’m here. It’s true. You sexy thing.
“If you want to achieve greatness stop asking for permission.” – NineFrogs

Love: as defined by Webster’s Dictionary –

: a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person

: attraction that includes sexual desire

: the strong affection felt by people who have a romantic relationship

: a person you love in a romantic way

Where do I find them?


Looking for love in all the wrong places.


Dating 2022 🙁

That’s certainly what it feels like some days.

For those of us in the dating game (which is what it feels like most days).

So today.

We’re celebrating the single life, of sorts.


It seems we are all either trying to find it.

Keep it.

Or find a new one.

Probably one of THE most written about subjects.

And why is that you may ask?

Because there’s so much mystery to it.

It’s so complicated.

Even though they say when you find the right one it’s not.


There’s just so much to say about it.

So many unanswered questions?






And no one can give you that answer.

Only The Universe knows.

Where do you find them?

We are all looking for the answers.

In all the wrong places 😉

I have no doubt about that!

Love is magical for sure <3

And other times.

It can be agonizing AF.

We’ve all been there ;-(

When it’s wonderful.

It is timeless.

When it’s awful.

Time stands still.

Where do I find them?

And when will you find it?

That is a BIG one👈👈👈

Usually when you least suspect it.

With someone you least suspect.

I met my husband (now ex) on a blind date.

And we fell hard and fast for each other.

That’s how she works her magic.


Is what makes LOVE so special.

Where do I find them?

So my advice to anyone who is seeking LOVE?

Let LOVE seek you.


That doesn’t mean you sit back and do nothing.

Oh no.

It means you stop waiting for your prince/princess to come knocking on your door.

It means, get yourself out in the world.

Pursue your interests.

LIVE your best life.👈👈👈

BE with the people who make you happy.

Do the work you love to do!

And then, when you least suspect it, LOVE will find you <3

Be a beautiful butterfly.“




Where do I find them?

And while you’re at it.

Sign-up for some of those on-line dating apps.


I know you hate them.

We all HATE them.

But, I have to say, over the years, I’ve met some great people.


It didn’t last.

But, I am still in touch with some of those very people.

Like the lottery says: You never know.

No risk, no magic.

Be willing to put yourself out there a bit.

Like dipping your toes in the water.

You can do.

I believe in you <3

And what happens if you do?

And you meet the love of your life!

It could happen👈👈👈

Where do I find them?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon!

Click the link to purchase your copy today:  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

Available in paperback shortly!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“Where do I find them?”


1027 St. Johnland Road, Kings Park, NY 11754


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