“Where are you?” (12.14.19)

Me? Concerned, Patricia Bokowski? Let’s see, at the moment, you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. Whenever the going has gotten tough, you’ve always bounced back even higher than you were before. And, somehow, you keep getting even better looking. 
But you are a dear for thinking of me. 
Mmmmmwaw –   The Universe / “Where are you?” / www.tut.com

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

Where are you?

You see.

I see a lot of people struggling these days.

And I think, part of the problems is.

They keep looking back.

Talking about yesterday.

Last week.

Last month.

Last year.

Stop doing that.

You are only supposed to be thinking.

About today.

And of course, your future.

But certainly, not yesterday.

I believe that’s why so many people.

Are extremely over-whelmed.

It makes me so sad.

Because I know what that feels like.

I have been there.👈👈👈

In that dark place.

Where you can’t see the light.

As if.

There is no light at the end of the tunnel.

Only you know what?

There is a light.

It’s called HOPE👈👈👈

Trust me.

As someone who has seen.

Their fair share of heartache.


Terrible circumstances.

Bad luck.

Deceived by people.

Who I blindly trusted.

Only to be stabbed in the back.

By those very people.

Trust me.

I sincerely know.

The feeling of despair 👈👈👈

Here’s the thing though.

If you find yourself in that place.

You have two choices.

Give in and feel sorry for yourself.

And remain a prisoner of fate ;-(

Or, fight like a warrior.

Raise your sword and go to war!✨✨✨

I think you can guess which route I chose👈👈👈


Not only am I still here.

I’m kicking a$$ everyday!

YOU are the source of your strength.

AND your power.👈👈👈

As such.

You need to believe.

With every fiber of your being.

That you will over-come.

Whatever it is you are dealing with.

A very wise person.

Gave me some advice several years ago.

And, it’s this;

Everything is figureoutable 👈👈👈

Not to be morbid.


I feel this is a great inspirational story.

Do you remember?

The story of that lady.

Back in 2009.

Where the chimpanzee ripped off the face of the lady?

Oprah had interviewed the lady.

And then wrote a piece on it for her magazine.

Here’s a paper clipping I have from then 👇👇👇

You have to be BIGGER than the problem.

That’s what screws people up.

They let the problem get bigger then them.

And then they lose their power.

Which makes things a million times worse.

Because if you feel like you have no power.

You’ve already lost ;-(

And we don’t want anybody feeling lost.

Because that’s a really bad place to be. “How to win?” (11.6.2020)

People don’t think straight.

When they are in turmoil.

Which is also why.

I always stress to people.

How important it is to keep a positive attitude.


It is extremely difficult to cultivate a great attitude.

When the problem hits👈👈👈


Are some things.

To look at.

To help you solve your problem:









The thing is.


That’s where most people.

Miss the boat!

Many people filter things in such a way.

That all they see are the problems.

And what is wrong.

Leaving them.

With nothing left to focus on.

But what they don’t want.


Imagine if you switched your thinking?

How different would your outcome be?


Before life throws you another life-storm.

And let’s hope.

It’s not for a very long time.

I’ve gathered some tips to share with you.

Tips to keep your vibration high:

Surround yourself with people.

Who’s goals are as high as yours✈✈✈

Take in inspirational material everyday.

Whether that’s reading.

Listening to up-lifting music.

Or going on YouTube and watching some videos!


And you can pray to anyone you like.

Pray to The Universe.

Ask her if she can send some help.


You need to keep your body moving.

And the most important thing you can do:

Keep going!👈👈👈

“You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!” / Rocky Balboa

Don’t give up!

Do you know how many situations.

I’ve gone through in my life.

Where I thought?

How the hell am I going to get through this?

How can I handle this?

Will I survive this?

What will this do to my life?

And you know what?

I not only survived all of them.


I thrived!

Guess what?

I’m still here!

Still standing.

Still smiling.

Life will always try.

And knock you down.

That’s a given.

The thing is.

She wants you to get back up.


Then when you went down.

Stay positive.

And don’t look back!

Where are you?

Did you hear?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – The Frog’s Den! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCliVgDpn8Yw3eVjiX_yI6Vw

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Where are you?”



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