“What’s in a look?” (11.14.17)

What a day! I feel so great, so magnanimous, so everywhere! Tell you what, Patricia Bokowski, today dreams are on me. Today everyone’s dreams will come true!
Can I do that? Gimme a break!
Patricia Bokowski, I do it every single day, for everyone, everywhere, no matter what. Always, second to second, month to month, year to year, I give you what you think about, what you most expect, what you believe in and move toward.
What else are Universes for?
  The Universe / “What’s in a look?” / www.tut.com

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs


What’s in a look?

Who else loves fashion.

As much as me?

I mean.

I have loved fashion.

Since I was like 12!

As soon as I turned 13.

And started babysitting.

And making money.

So, I recently did something.

I’ve been wanting to do for some time now.

I opened a shop on Amazon.

Take a look:  https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

As a Personal Shopper, I now get to bring my favorite fashion finds to everyone!

Full disclosure, I make a commission.

New items are added daily.

Thank you in advance for shopping with NineFrogs!


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Once a month I would go to the store.

And buy my copy of Cosmo.

Remember Cosmo?

And I would linger over every page.

Taking in all the fashion and makeup.

And loving every second of it.

And hoping that maybe.

One day.

I could work in the fashion world.

Well, I am happy to say.

Took me many, many years.

But, I finally got here!

Dreams do come true.

As long as you are willing to work for them!


Because of my profession.

I often get asked.

“What do YOU like Patricia?”

Like, what are my personal fashion choices?

Because, I have noticed a lot of people.

Seem to have the same taste as me.

So, today I’m sharing my personal current favorites.

As in, things I would actually wear.




My short hair is a real crowd pleaser!

My first tattoo!

My third tattoo!

My fourth tattoo!

I know.

Trust me.

I get it.

Many of you HATE tattoos.

I had to put that in caps.

Because, that’s how some people.

Have expressed their total disdain of tattoos to me.

I get it.


It doesn’t change my mind.

I still love them!


And to date, I’ve gotten four tattoos.

Just waiting to get my next!

Don’t worry.

I’ll post it once I get it!




One of my favorite quotes these days!

Christopher Korey Collective / NYC

He is my hands-down favorite best-dressed man!

I think that’s a great reminder of how you choose to live your life!


I’m pretty sure this is my next tattoo!


If anyone would have told me.

Years ago.

That one day I would be a writer.

I would have said they were crazy.

Not just a writer.

In case you hadn’t heard.

I just published a book on Amazon.

And I’ve been blogging for years.

I knew when I started my business in 2012.

That one day I wanted to start blogging.

And I did just that in 2015.

Now ask me if I knew anything about blogging?

I did not.

I just knew I wanted to do it.

So I did it.

That’s what I’m talking about!

Just do it.

Trust me.

The more you do.

The better you get at it!

Because if you never start.

You’ll never be good at it!

Being the best ME!

Notice I didn’t say beautiful me, gorgeous me or pretty me.

Just being the best me.

Some days I hit it out of the park.

And some days I don’t.

One thing I have learned along the way.

You need to show up everyday.

Good, bad or indifferent.

You just got to show up!


Funny story and true.

Yesterday, we were having some work done at the house.

I hadn’t met the person who was doing the work.

Because my son set it up.

So, I’m leave the house early.

I had an early appointment.

And, this man gets out of his truck.

Which was parked in our driveway.

And I quickly put together.

That this was the guy doing the work.

So I say: “Good morning.”

He says: “Good morning.”

Then, he turns around again.

And says:

“Can I just say? You are so beautiful.


I wasn’t expecting to see such a beautiful woman first thing in the morning!”

I say: “Thank you.”

He says:  “No, really, you are so beautiful!”

Moral of the story:

You never know who you are inspiring!

I mean.

Do you think?

When I looked in the mirror before I left the house.

That I said to myself:

“God, you’re looking quite beautiful today Patricia?”


No, I didn’t.


Maybe we should!

“My, you are looking quite beautiful today lovely.”

That’s a wrap!

What’s in a look?

It’s HERE!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today:  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you check out my shop on Amazon:  https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“What’s in a look?”



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