“What if you were right?” (11.25.2020)

It’s been so long, Patricia Bokowski, I’m quite sure you’ve forgotten our secret handshake, haven’t you?
How about our code for saying, “I love you”?
Then I doubt you’ll recall my solemn promise to let you know once you began approaching exactly the right time and exactly the right place, with enough life lessons under your belt to finally stop struggling, start soaring, and living the life of your wildest dreams?
Well, if not, the following might not make much sense:
“You’re getting hot! Really HOT!! Ouch, so hot! DOUBLE-HOT! Patricia Bokowski, NOW-W-W-W-W-W-W!”
I $l%o^v1e you,  The Universe /
“What if you were right?”


Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

What if you were right?

What if you are actually.

On the right path.

Even though I know.

You’re not sure.

What if?

Things are actually working out.

Even better than you had imagined.

What if?

All that stress and worry you’ve been carrying.

Was for nothing.

What if?

The Universe has been setting things up.

Behind the scenes.

For your success.

What if you were right?

Here is something else.

I’ve been thinking about.

Seems like.

There are a lot.

Of stressed out people ‘out there’.









So, I decided.

That today.

I’d share some.

Short & Sweet.

Inspirational words.

Words of encouragement.

Of wisdom. NineFrogs Daily:

To make you think.

Words to assure you.

You’re doing better.

Than you think!

You got this!

Trust me!

“Did you know?

Grapes have to be trampled to make wine?

Olives are crushed to make oil?

Diamonds are formed under pressure?

Seeds grow in the dark.

When you feel trampled, crushed, under pressure or in the dark.


That you are in a powerful moment of transformation.


Raymond Polanco (my FaceBook friend).

“I tried being normal once. It was the worst five minutes of my life.” – Kermit the Frog

Kermit the Frog 🐸🐸🐸

What if?

What if it really is bringing you.

Where you need to be?

What if it’s not a punishment?

What if?

The Universe is working behind the scenes.

To bring you where you need to be?πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


It just doesn’t look like that right now?

What if?

What if you stopped looking.

At everything that is happening to you.

As a blessing.

And not a curse!


What if?

Live your life from a place of power.

Remind yourself daily.

Regardless of what you’re facing.

Moment to moment.

That you are stronger.

Than anything you are going through.

Facing, or having to handle.

Refuse to operate at the level.

Of the problems or challenges that you are facing.

Project yourself in the future.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Because future you has got this!

“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world.

And there’s still going to be someone out there that hates peaches.”

So what’s the moral of the story?

Don’t worry about what other people think about you.

What other people think about you is their business, not yours.

So please, keep shining!

“Success is a little like wrestling a gorilla.

You don’t quit when you’re tired.

You quit when the gorilla is tired.”

“Do what honors and respects you.

Don’t participate in activities that bring you down.

Don’t allow toxic people in your life.

Love everyone, but be discerning on who you allow into your life.”

– In my head I am always right and you are always wrong

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs


“Life has a way of shaking you to the core.

And then…when you think it is the worst possible scenario,

a rainbow appears on the other side with miraculous occurrences that you could have never dreamed up yourself.

And that is the beauty of not knowing what is around the corner in this adventure we call life!”

– Kermit the Frog 🐸🐸🐸

My first tattoo, the Lotus flower and Om symbol!

The Lotus Flower – A Love Story

The lotus flower.

Is a beautiful flower.

That can be found all over the world.

But the start of this flower’s life.

Is not as beautiful as one would think.

It is unlike many other flowers.

When the lotus flower.

First begins to sprout.

It is under water.

Making it’s home in lakes and ponds,

In areas where the water.

Remains fairly still on the surface.

But underneath the surface.

The lotus is surrounded by mud and yuck.

Dead fish and bugs.

Yet, despite it all.

The lotus flower continues to grow strong.


Through the mud.

Until one day.

It sprouts out of the water.

Washed over and cleansed.

By the very dirty water where she grew out of.

Freeing herself from the harsh conditions.

Of the muddy pond.

It is then that the lotus flower.

Slowly opens each beautiful petal to the sun.

As the outer lotus flower is cleaned off.

The inner lotus flower.

Has never seen a drop of mud or dirty water.

It is pure, and bright, and beautiful.

We can look at our lives like the lotus flower.

Struggling to get out of the muck.

And come out a beautiful flower standing strong!

“I loved her.

Not for the way she danced with my Angels.

But for the way the sound of her name could silence my demons.”

Christopher Poindexter

“My mission in life is not merely to survive,

but to thrive, and to do so with some passion,

some compassion, some humor and some style!”

– Maya Angelou

“We meet many matches in our lives,

but there is always one that

burns brighter and hotter than the rest.

Our only hope is that they will be

the one burning beside us in the end.”

– j. iron word

“A bottle of water can be $1.00 at a supermarket.

$2.00 at the gym, $3.00 at the movies.

And $6.00 on the airplane.

Same water.

Only thing that changed it’s value.

Was the place.

So the next time.

You feel your worth is nothing.

Maybe you’re at the wrong place.”


Every f*cking time!


That’s a wrap!

What if you were right?

It’s HERE!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

And lastly, make sure you check out my shop on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare! Make it worth their while!

What if you were right?



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