“What does it take to be the best?” (4.27.21)

Of all the planets, of all the countries, of all the people, Patricia Bokowski, that you could have chosen to inhabit, call home, and become… that you chose as you did could only mean one thing: Being Patricia Bokowski Bokowski, here and now, is what you most wanted when making such decisions from the absolute zenith of your divine magnificence. 
Yeah, you knew exactly what you were doing. 
Can’t fool me,  The Universe /
What does it take to be the best?


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

“A wealthy person is simply someone who has learned how to make money when they’re not working.”

– Robert Kiyosaki

What does it take to be the best?

By not accepting living a mediocre life.

By doing things ‘other’s won’t.

By taking risks.

By working every day at being the best version of yourself.

By working every day at being the best version of yourself.

That’s how you become the best!

“If you want to achieve greatness, stop asking for permission!”

How can I be my best?

By stretching yourself, every day, out of your comfort zone.

By surrounding yourself with people who make you feel like sunshine.

People who clap at your wins (and if not, you need a new circle).

By reading everything you can.

And learning everything you can.

And realizing both are a life-long commitment.

Did you watch Breaking Bad when it was on TV?

I know I loved.

I was a faithful watcher every week.

I couldn’t get enough of it.

But, I know there were plenty of people who didn’t watch it.

Could have cared less about it.

Granted, it wasn’t a show for everyone.

But for those of us who it was for.

WE absolutely f’ing LOVED it <3

It goes the same with people.

Everybody may not love you (or me).

And that’s okay (because we are not vanilla).

But the people who do loves us (f’ing ADORE us).

That’s living your best life.

Not shuffling along with the crowd.

Standing out and stand up for what you believe in.

Willing to be mocked (and they will, trust me).

Doing your thing.

In your light.

In your space.

That’s being the best!

You want to be your best?

Then, now is the time.

To level up.


Take risks.

Business tip:

“You don’t have to be great to start. But you have to start to be great!”


That’s one of the traps in life.

Watering yourself down.

When really.

You should be giving it a voice.

Give it a platform.

Share your thoughts.

Be you.

Business tip:

“Don’t try to fit into someone else’s box. Create your own.” – Life_mystified

On this journey to being the best version of yourself.

You need to be open to what comes next.

Yes, have a plan of course.

Or a dream or goal.

Whatever you want to call it.

Just be open to opportunities that come along the way.

Something that you think can’t possibly be a good thing.

Might turns out to be the best thing!

Business tip:

“Leveling up takes isolation, separation and extreme focus.”

Dr. Seuss got it right!

“Why fit in when you were born to stand out!”

You are uniquely you.

Flaunt it.

Show the world who you are!

Especially when it comes to business.

You need to learn to stand out from the crowd!

Business tip:

“You will never influence the world by being just like it.”

The longer I am in business.

The more I have learned.

You try and be nice.

And then you get burned.

I’m sure I’m not alone here.

Certain people will push the boundaries.

To see what they can get away with.

And then when you push back.

They get offended.

Here’s the thing.

Life can be chaotic.

And people can behave badly.


You and me.

We are not obligated to put up with their bad behavior.

That’s why you have to have boundaries.

And if someone crosses those boundaries.

There has to be consequences.

Business tip:

“The Devil whispered in my ear, ‘You’re not strong enough to withstand the storm.”

Today I whispered in the Devil’s ear, “I AM the storm!”

(pretty sure that’s my next tattoo).👈👈👈

It would be an understatement.

To say.

We are living.

In weird, and unprecedented times.

Trying to make sense.

In a world that many times.

Doesn’t make sense.

As far as I can see.

All you can do.

Is make sure.

In your little corner of the world.

It does.

And make it magical.

Business tip:

“We cannot become what we want by remaining who we are.”

Whenever I see or hear people complaining.

That’s the first thing I think of.

The second is.

How unhappy they must be!

If you want to change things.

Then work on changing them.

If you cannot change them.

Accept them and move on.

Business tip:

“If you’re not helping to make it right, then stop complaining about it being wrong.”

That’s the thing about business.

You never really know when something is going to hit?

Who would have thought a show about chess would be such a hit?

Did you see it?

It was one of the BEST shows I’ve ever seen!

And look what it’s done for Netflix👈👈👈

Business tip:

“What if it all works out even better than you imagined?”

Business tip:

“If the people in your circle aren’t clapping for you. Then you don’t have a circle. You have a cage.”

Be the best!

“That’s how you keep your power and your peace.” – Erica Williams Simon

I firmly believe the number one reason for so much unhappiness in this world.

Is because people have lost their power. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

Or, their belief of such.

Business tip:

“You don’t become what you want, you become what you believe.” – Oprah Winfrey

How can I be the best!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“What does it take to be the best?



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