“What do I need to know?” (2.11.2020)

Patricia, I think you’re amazing. I think your approach to life is dead-on. And I can’t think of anything you’ve ever done that I wouldn’t have done had I been in your shoes.
Still, beloved, I think we could have a little chat about visualizing more. Seeing the end result in all its glorious detail, bypassing the cursed how’s, and feeling the emotions you expect to feel.
Hey, it’s my life too.
Tallyho,   The Universe /
“What do I need to know?”

Yeah, Patricia, nothing you’ve ever done….


Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

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What do I need to know?


There’s plenty you need to know.

The thing is.

Most people don’t bother to find out.

There are simply complicit with their lives.

But then spend the rest of their lives.

Complaining how miserable they are.

How life isn’t fair.

How they are always getting screwed one way or another.

How they can never ‘catch a break’.

If that’s you?

Today is the day to change that.

As in ASAP.

Because, saying…

Maybe I will.


I HOPE I will.

Will not fly here.

No, there is only one statement.

That needs to come from you.

And it’s this:

I CAN and I WILLπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

End of story!

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And it is super important.

That you say that to yourself everyday!

Hear this.

Because not enough people tell you this.

On the road of life!

You’re going to stumble.

A lot.

While trying to climb those mountains.

That’s why you have to keep saying to yourself.

I can and I will!

Over and over.

Make it your personal montra.

Because, trust me.

You’re going to want to.

Put that in your toolbox.

To help you thrive.

Not just exist.

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Seriously though.

If you are working on a dream.

Here is something you NEED TO KNOWπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

There will be people who will want you to fail.

And those people are usually the ones you call family and friends.

Trust me!

And, the more.

You are aiming to achieve that goal.

KNOW that you WILL encounter many obstacles.

Your job is to see them.

And then work around them.

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You may ask?

What kind of obstacles are we talking about?

Let’s see:





Time, or lack thereof.

Money, or lack thereof.



Just to name a few!

And, here’s the thing.

You just have to figure them all out.

And just when you think you have it all figured out.

There will be more issues.

This whole road to greatness is not for the weak!

That’s why you need to know as much as you can!

Like I said. β€œWhy you need to think different!” (8.1.17)

There will be roadblocks.

And there will be setbacks.

THAT is where persistence comes in.πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘Š

You just need to keep going.

Just keep moving.

In the direction of your dreams.

I can personally tell you that.

Over the past seven years.

I have not only been through my share of struggles.

But I was also given a extra scoop of them.

And here are a few phrases that came to mind at these times:

Are you f*cking kidding me?

You are not going to f*cking believe this sh*t.

F*ck this f*cking sh*t.

Holy MotherF*cking sh*t, this can’t be happening!


Just like that.

And guess what?

I’m still f*cking HERE!

One day I’m going to write a book.

About everything that’s happened to me.

Since I started my business.

I’m thinking.

Maybe ten years from now?

Because as my son pointed out to me recently.

I’m still living that book.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

So, I can’t really write about it just yet.

That will be for another day.

In the long distant future.

For those that don’t know.

I just finished writing my first book.

Title: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!


With everything I have been through.

And it’s A LOT!

There hasn’t been a day I haven’t shown up!

Some days better than others.

But nonetheless, I showed up.

I mean, I might have had.

Tears streaming down my face.

But there I was.

That’s the kind of.

F*ck you attitude you need to have!

A BIG F*ck You to anybody.

Who thought they were going to bring me down!

FYI, I still have that same attitude today!

Basically, these days, I’m a beast!

What does Winning Look LikeπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Several years ago.

I took a class with a man named Coach Joe.

He was an extremely smart and interesting man.

Filled with so much knowledge


He loved sharing it with the class.


I recall him telling the story.

Of how he went through a very bad time in his life.

A time where most people.

Wouldn’t be thinking of anything.

Except the problem at hand.

But he explained to the class.

That no matter what.

He chose to show up everyday in his business.

(He was a free-lance motivational speaker.)

He told us.

Although he was handling this rather large problem.

He was not going to let it side-line his business.

That’s the kind of mindset you NEED to have.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

See, you can’t show up.

When it’s easy.

Or convenient.

Or, when you feel like it.


Like it or not.

That’s where you find the magic!

So, I belong to this group on Facebook.

And one of the guys who’s an admin of the group.

Had this to say recently about gaining success:

He said, to be successful:

‘is like fighting decay’.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

So, in essence.

You are ‘fighting through‘ to succeed!

As I said earlier.

Success is NOT going to be easy.

And only YOU can decide.

If it’s worth the struggleπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

But, here’s my two cents.

It most definitely is! πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

I know so many people.

Who gave up on their businesses.

And threw in the “proverbial” towel.

Again, no one ever said it would be easy.

But here’s the thing.

The thing that no one tells you.

When you first start a business.

And, I am talking about.

A business from scratch.

Here it is:


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Like, as hard as you might think it is.

It’s like, a hundred times harder.

And yet.

The GIANTS stick to the plan.

Because we knew it wouldn’t be easy.

And, we also know most people won’t do it.

But we aren’t ‘most’ people.

Far from it.

We’re that rare breed.

“If it comes:

Let it.

If it goes’

Let it.”

Whatever is meant for you.

Will always get to you.

That’s a wrap!

What do I need to know?

It’s HERE!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6P8FSG3

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

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Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“What do I need to know?”



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