Live as if, Patricia Bokowski.
Always, The Universe / Wedding Dresses!
As if, Patricia Bokowski, life was easy, people were awesome, and you just haven’t yet decided which of your favorite charities should receive your anonymous $1 million donation.
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs
Need I say more?
My love of wedding dresses has been an ever lasting love <3
If you have been reading my blogs over the years.
You know I am a sucker for new wedding designs.
And let’s be honest.
You only get to wear your dress only once.
So not fair!
The other day.
I was clearing out some boxes in my basement.
And stumbled upon some pictures from my wedding (since divorced).
But hey, I looked fabulous.
I wore a mermaid gown.
And if anyone had told me that beforehand.
I would have said they were crazy.
But it worked perfectly👈👈👈
Seems like a life-time ago.
I remember going dress shopping.
And just like every other bride-to-be.
I went to every store to look for the “one”.👈👈👈
And I remember I just couldn’t find anything I really loved ;-(
Then I asked my friend Lisa if she would come shopping with me (she and I had the same taste in clothes).
It wasn’t long that we were in that shop and Lisa found a dress.
At first glance I told her no way, it was a mermaid dress.
And I thought that will never look good on me.
She was like, ‘just try it Patti.’🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
When I walked out of that dressing room, I knew that was the one!
As I stood in the dressing room with Lisa and the sales lady in the store.
We all agreed.
The dress was great, only it needed more bling.
So more detail and bling was added to the dress.
In my head.
I knew exactly how I wanted it to look.
Whenever I take someone out on their own Personal Shopping experience with me.
And I mean always.
Have them try on a variety of different things.
Usually, much different than what they usually wear.
You truly NEVER know when something might look fabulous!
How amazing is that dress☝☝☝
Zuhair Murad is one of my favorite designers <3
Everybody loves differently.
There is no right or wrong way <3
Just the way it feels right to you.
The problem is.
Sometimes you meet the perfect someone.
And you think.
This IS IT.
That person does feel the same way.
That person doesn’t know how to love you.
The way you deserve to be loved.
And the thing I have learned.
The older you get.
The lesson is still the same 🙁
Damaged people can’t love you the same way you can love them 🙁
That is pure magic right there.
I wish they had been around when I got married.
I did have a pair of fabulous wedding shoes!
You can have all the money.
All the ‘things’ in this world.
But without love.
Does it really matter.
Even if you don’t have a love right now.
The promise of a love one day, works.
It’s all the in details☝☝☝
You’re wedding dress doesn’t have to be white!
I love everything about this dress, the color, the cut, the veil…
You see more and more.
Like you have never seen before.
And I live for that.
I crave you whole💙💙💙
Simple yet elegant.
Love. Love. Love. BC Dress 🥂🥂🥂
What love is all about, makes life worth living🔥🔥🔥
A black wedding dress!
I absolutely adore this dress. Pronovias♠♠♠
Now this is how bridesmaids dresses should be.
In a sea of tulle.
Galia Lahav <3
“When two people are meant for each other, no time is too long, no distance is too gar, and no one can ever tear them apart.” / Anonymous
“A girl should be two things, classy and fabulous!” / Coco Chanel
“Give a girl the right shoes, and she can conquer the world!”
Are all together.
Like no other.
When it’s your special day.
I hope you find a dress.
As special as you!
And if you need help.
Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on YouTube and TikTok – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!
That’s a wrap!
Patricia <3 always
NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!