“Say what?” (9.30.15)

Dang, Patricia Bokowski, just because you’re a supernatural, unstoppable, manifesting machine, doesn’t mean you can’t ask for help. A lot of help. And fully expect to receive it.

That was part of “the deal,”

  The Universe

“Say what?”/ www.tut.com

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Say what?

That’s a question.

We should all be asking more often.


Like, should I go after that BIG dream of mine?

Why not?

Should I move to that city I’ve always wanted to live in?

Why not?

Should I start my own business?

Why not?

Should I write that book I’ve always wanted to write?

Why not?


What’s YOUR answer?

Remember, YOU have a purpose.

I have a purpose.

We all have a purpose!

That’s why we are here.


In this time and place.

In the Universe.

Remember who you are.

And why you are here.

Stop just going with the flow.

BE the flow!

Stop living life “less than”.

“Less than” amazing.

“Less than” fabulous.

“Less than” brilliant.

“Less than” wonderful.

In case you forgot.

YOU are all of the above.

I know.

Sometimes we forget.

I think that’s the thing.

With so many.

They block their own success.

Before they even start.

Thus crippling them.

And left feeling hopeless.

Unsuccessful, and depressed.

The fact of the matter is.

You will never know.

What you are capable of.

Without giving it a shot!

So decide today.

That today is the day!


It doesn’t matter how fast you go.

What matters is that you are consistent.

And that you show up everyday.

In whatever capacity you can.

Planting seeds.

Watering them.

Tending to them.

That’s how you grow.

I’ve said this before.

When I first started out.

Back in 2012.

I had NO idea what I was doing.

I just knew I wanted to do it.

So, I listened to a lot of people’s thoughts and ideas.

Of what I should be doing.

I had phone calls with people who told me.

That they could get me on the Wendy Williams show.

Or Fox News.

And I believed them.

Until one day I didn’t.

Me these days!

I have found over the years.

Since I started my business.

I’m not as nice as I used to be.

In fact.

I was just speaking with my brother last night.

Speaking on that very subject.

See, I have found.

That people will try and take advantage.

Of your “niceness”.

Taking it as your weakness.

Sad but true.

And when people ask me.

Why it has to be that way.

I tell them.

It’s just the way it is!

Another thing I have discovered along the way.

But don’t let that stop you.

From being amazing!

Because. “How to win?” (11.6.2020)

You owe it to yourself.

to see how far you can go.

And I can assure you.

It’s a whole lot further than you think!

Trust me.

I see that with people.

That the older they get.

They tame themselves.

Once again, depriving themselves.

Of being “more than”.

“More than” deserving.

“More than” blessed.

“More than” courageous.

And that’s why we say:

“Why not?”

Riri knows!

You literally have to be gangsta.

These days.


You gotta have a.

“Get out of my way” attitude.

That’s how you get sh*t done.

That’s how you move mountains.

That’s how you get to where you want to get to.


No crying in baseball.

Total ‘I’m all in attitude.”

Say what?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled:  “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon!

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

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That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Say what?”


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