“I can and I will!” (2.11.2020)

Patricia, I think you’re amazing. I think your approach to life is dead-on. And I can’t think of anything you’ve ever done that I wouldn’t have done had I been in your shoes.
Still, beloved, I think we could have a little chat about visualizing more. Seeing the end result in all its glorious detail, bypassing the cursed how’s, and feeling the emotions you expect to feel.
Hey, it’s my life too.
Tallyho,Β Β Β The Universe /
“I can and I will!”

Yeah, Patricia, nothing you’ve ever done….


Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

I can and I will!

The two most powerful.

Statements you can make!

See, this is what it comes down to.

Just tell yourself:

I can.


I will.

End of story.

And, if that’s not your attitude these days.

Then, you better change that asap!

Because, saying…

Maybe I will.


I HOPE I will.

Will not fly here.

No, there is only one statement.

That needs to come from you.

And it’s this:

I CAN and I WILLπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

End of story!

And it is super important.

That you say that to yourself everyday!

Hear this.

Because not enough people tell you this.

On the road to success!

You’re going to stumble.

A lot.

While trying to climb those mountains.

That’s why you have to keep saying to yourself.

I can and I will!

Over and over.

Make it your personal montra.

Because, trust me.

You’re going to want to.

Put that in your toolbox.

To help you climb.


That kind of woman.


If you are.

Working on a dream.

Here is something you NEED TO KNOWπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

There is NO substitute.

For Determination and Persistence.


And, if you are aiming to achieve a goal.

KNOW that you WILL encounter obstacles.

You will face them time and time again.

Your job is to see them.

And then work around them.


You may ask?

What kind of obstacles are we talking about?

Let’s see:





Time, or lack thereof.

Money, or lack thereof.



Just to name a few!

And, here’s the thing.

You just have to figure them all out.

And just when you think you have it all figured out.

There will be more issues.

This whole road to greatness is not for the weak!

Like I said.

More roadblocks.

Than you EVER would have imagined.

THAT is where persistence comes in.πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘Š

You just need to keep going.

Just keep moving.

In the direction of your dreams.

I can personally tell you that.

Over the past seven+ years.

I have not only been through my share of struggles.

But I was also given a extra scoop of.

You are not going to f*cking believe this sh*t.

Boatload of f*cking cr*p.

You have to be f&cking kidding me!

Yeah, like that.

And guess what?

I’m still f*cking HERE!

One day I’m going to write a book about it.

Like, maybe ten years from now.

Because as my son pointed out to me recently.

I’m still living that book.

So I can’t really write about it just yet.

That will be for another day.

In the long distant future.

And, talking about.

I can and I will.

I just finished writing my first book.

Title: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”


With everything I have been through.

And it’s A LOT!

There hasn’t been a day I haven’t shown up!

Over ALL these years.

I might have had.

Tears coming down my face.

But I showed up nonetheless.

That’s the kind of.

F*ck you attitude you need to have!

To reach your over the mountain top goals.

What does Winning Look LikeπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Several years ago.

I took a class with a man named Coach Joe.

He was an extremely smart and interesting man.

Filled with so much knowledge


He loved sharing it with the class.


I recall him telling the story.

Of how he went through a very bad time in his life.

A time where most people.

Wouldn’t be thinking of anything.

Except the problem at hand.

But he explained to the class.

That no matter what.

He chose to show up everyday in his business.

(He was a free-lance motivational speaker.)

He told us.

Although he was handling this rather large problem.

He was not going to let it side-line his business.

That’s the kind of thinking you NEED to have.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

See, you can’t show up.

When it’s easy.

Or convenient.

Or, when you feel like it.


Like it or not.

That’s how the magic gets in.

That’s really what it comes down to.

You don’t have to be superman/woman.

You just have to be laser-focused on your goal.


You need to have.

A HUGE amount.

Of determination AND self-confidence.

Also, it doesn’t hurt to be.

Persistent AF!

Now who’s WINNING?

So, I belong to this group on Facebook.

And one of the guys who’s an admin in the group.

Had this to say about gaining success recently:

He said, to be successful:

‘is like fighting decay’.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

So, in essence.

You are ‘fighting through‘ to succeed!

As I said earlier.

Success is NOT going to be easy.

And only YOU can decide if it’s worth the struggleπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

But, here’s my two cents.

It most definitely is! πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

I know so many people.

Who gave up on their businesses.

And threw in the “proverbial” towel.

Again, no one ever said it would be easy.

But here’s the thing.

That no one tells you.

When you first start a business.

And, I mean a business from scratch.

That sh*t is HARD.


And even so.

You can’t give up!

I often think.

When I have a problem.

That I can’t figure out.

I think.

What would Wonder Woman do?


Like, what?

Just remember.

Whatever it is you are working towards.

Will change your life.


Now, think to yourself.

Who’s winning now?

Ask any person.

Who has become super-successful in their life.

Ask them?

How much turmoil?

Did they go through?

Before they became successful?

I’ll bet plenty!

A couple of years ago.

I got to hear Kathleen King.

She is the woman who started Tate’s Cookies.

She gave an amazing speech.

About how her business started.

And in her speech.

She detailed many of the highs and lows.

And ultimately.

How she sold her business.

For major coin! $$$$$$$$$$

Was it easy?

Hello no!

Not from what she told us.


Everyone around her thought she’d give up.

Only she didn’t.

She stuck it out.πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘Š

And like I said.

Eventually, and strategically.

Sold her business for millions.


That never would have happened.

If she had given up.

Or better yet.

If she’d never started!

Think about that?

Did you know Dwayne Johnson.

In his early days.

Tried stand-up comedy.

At one point in his career?

Probably not.

Because he wasn’t very successful at it.

See, that’s the thing about success.

You try different things until you find ‘your’ magic.

So just hang in there.

Keep trying!


Don’t be afraid to be creative!

That’s the kind of success mindset

That’s going to take you places.

I can and I will!

It’s HERE!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6P8FSG3

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you check out my shop on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“I can and I will!”



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