“Know your worth!” (1.12.16)

Can you hear it, Patricia Bokowski? The entire Kingdom now beckons.
There were no tests, no hoops, and no limits.
All I have, I press to you at this very moment.
This is all you have to know.
And all you have to do is make room for the torrent that will flow in direct proportion to your every preparation, including what you do today.
  The Universe / Know your worth!
Patricia Bokowski, you mean the world to me.
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs
Why are so many people willing to settle for whatever is given to them?
And never try to make things in their life better?
You will never get what you really want in this life if you don’t try.
And try HARD.
Like REAL hard๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ
Like the kind of trying that breaks you.
And you don’t care.
Because you want it so bad you will do anything you can to get ‘there’.
Most won’t.
They will settle.
Not you.
YOU, don’t settle for less.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ
Know your worth!

I don’t think we are ever really prepared for something unexpected.

If we’re honest, we just hope that we do our best when it happens.

For me, I had two incidents, both over this past year that I totally did not see coming.

And I have to say, I handled it like a champ.

Because I read somewhere that if an opportunity comes to you, TAKE IT!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Do the best you can…

Marose Spa Picture 2

Opportunity #1.

I was invited to a networking event with a group I had never met before.  

As I walked in I was greeted very warmly by the group and soon got to meet everyone in the room.  

Then, to my surprise, I was asked if I wanted to be interviewed on camera right then and there.  

My first thought was, “OMG, how do I look”, my second thought was, “am I ready to do this” and my third was “OMG, can I do this?”.

I should add, not only was I being interviewed, but the show was in Spanish.

And I don’t speak Spanish๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘

But like I said, when an great opportunity is offered to you, you take it and run with it!

Before I even had time to think, I was standing in front of the camera being interviewed.  

I was extremely fortunate to have a very lovely woman interview me and it all went along very well.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ #grateful

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Opportunity #2.

This was about a year after Opportunity #1.  

I was invited to a taping of a show in the Bronx with some friends.  

It was summer, it was really hot.  ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ

Like really hot.๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

I remember I took a nap and woke up about ten minutes before I had to leave to meet my friend.  

I threw on my clothes and was out the door.๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ

On the drive over to my friends house, I fixed my make-up so that I looked presentable. 

But I figured, hey, it’s hot as hell out, and, I don’t know any one here, so I’m good. โ˜โ˜โ˜ 

So, if you can believe it, It turns out, I knew the host of the show. 

Someone I was friends with on FaceBook, although we had never met in person.

And I had no idea it was his show we were going to see?

As soon as I got there and we saw each other, it was crazy funny. 

Both of us so happy to actually meet in person.

So imagine my surprise when I was asked to be interviewed on camera that night for the show! ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ

I should add, it was another show in Spanish, because, once again, I don’t speak Spanish.

Plus, I truly didn’t feel camera ready.

Like I said, it was HOT out that day, and I did not feel I was looking camera ready. 

Kermit the Frog๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ


Only the interviewer (Bianca) assured me I looked great and that all would go well and so I agreed.  

She was right, it did go well and I was happy with myself that I decided to do it.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

So what did I learn from these two experiences?

That in order to grow, you have to get out of your comfort zone, as uncomfortable as that is.

As was this case with both of these opportunities.

Otherwise, you will never know how much you can do.

Here’s another lesson I learned, to look your best always whenever possible.

Seriously.โ€œShine like the whole Universe is yours!โ€ (8.31.2020)

Because you never know when a golden opportunity might appear.

Twenty seconds of insane courage is what it took in both of these instances.

And I’m so happy I had the courage to say yes both times๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

And I hope that if you get an opportunity that scares the hell out of you.

You jump on it, feet first!



Grab it by the balls.

Have a ‘take-no-prisoners’ kind of attitude!

Because that’s how you win at LIFE!


I believe in YOU๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

And mostly…

Know your worth!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ

Need a smile?

Check out my TikTok videos, guaranteed to put a smile on your face ๐Ÿ™‚

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!







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