“How to have a Happy Day!” even in #lockdown2020 (4.25.2020)

I have to tell you, Patricia Bokowski, that one of the greatest things about being the Universe, is knowing absolutely everything.
Well, that and making dreams come true.
I also love being eternal… and having no limits.
Creating worlds simply with thought.
Knowing that reality is unfolding just exactly as it should.
Having it all, being it all, doing it all.
And I like being perpetually in love… and loved. 
How ’bout you, Patricia Bokowski? What’s your favorite thing about being the Universe? 
Tallyho,   The Universe
/ How to have a Happy Day!

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Day #93302830281 of #lockdown2020.😐😐😐

At least that’s what it feels like😷😷😷

How you all doing🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

Making the best of this bad situation I hope👈👈👈

So, a friend of mine called me during the week.

And said, ‘you need to write one of your inspirational blogs, people need to hear from you now.’

Well, okay, point taken.👈👈👈



I do realize that many of the things I am going to suggest here today are not quite “doable” under the current circumstances. ☹☹☹

That’s ok.☝☝☝


Now you have the time to think about how you can do some of them when we get out of this situation😍😍😍

So today I share.

Some of my best NineFrogs ideas for having a Happy Day!

Develop an ‘I can do anything’ attitude👈👈👈

If this #lockdown has shown us anything.

It’s that we are all a lot stronger and adaptable than we ever thought!

Would you ever thought in your lifetime you’d be grocery shopping with a face mask 😷😷😷

Or, drinking wine at noon on a Tuesday 🍷🍷🍷

Strange days indeed!

LOVE ferociously!

If this #lockdown has shown us anything.

It’s that life is fleeting.

So when this thing is over.

Love with all you heart <3

With WHOEVER you want to love!


Here’s a side-note.

Don’t fall in love in #lockdown.


A lot of people are just bored.


Maybe not the best time to fall in love?

Just sayin!

Let YOUR life serve as an inspiration to others🥰🥰🥰

What can you start doing today to inspire those around you?

Remember, everyone has a gift!👈👈👈

Find it and share like you’re throwing confetti around at a party!

That’s how you find your own happiness.

Making those around you HAPPY!



A lot of people can’t find there’s.

And I can’t be everywhere.


You need to step up.

Be the light for those around YOU👈👈👈

Take chances.👈👈👈

Life is way to short to live ‘too comfortably.”🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Remember the book “Who Moved My Cheese?”

If you haven’t?

Now is a great time to do it!

I know you probably can’t get to the library.

But, maybe you can find it online!

The bottom line is this.

Life changes quickly.

Look at what we are dealing with now?

Would any of us have predicted this February 1st?

I don’t know about you, but I wasn’t 😞😞😞

You Go Queens! Remember, we got this!

Have fun!😍😍😍

Yes, I know right now that’s an almost impossible task to even think about.

But, here are my two schools of thought on this.


As much as you can.

Try and make the best out of a bad situation.

However you can, if you’re not doing it already.

For me.

Like a lot of others.

I’ve been cooking a whole lot more.

Turns out. I really like it!


I put a DVD player in my room so I can watch some old DVD’s that I haven’t watched in years.

And my son and I have been watching some new shows on Netflix together.

Something that wouldn’t have happened otherwise.

I’ve also started a list.

A list of all the things I want to do when we ‘get out’.

One thing for sure, I’m getting a new tattoo👈👈👈

What’s on your list?

“Your spirit is what keeps you going, your attitude is how you show it to the world.” / Patricia Bokowski

Let your inner fashionista out…she’s in there, and that goes for the men too!

Please don’t be walking around in your sweats everyday😩😩😩

Because, as we all know.

Even in #lockdown2020.

If you are dressing like shiz.

You are most likely going to feel like shiz!

So, take a shower, and put on a clean pair of PJ’s!

The point is, have some semblance of balance in your life.

Trust me, you WILL feel better.

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Fall in love, (or all over again) with yourself.❤❤❤

Prior to #lockdown020.

We were all running around like chickens without heads.

Let’s be honest.

And for many of us, putting ourselves LAST on our “to-do” list.☝☝☝

Well guess what?

Now is the time to take care of yourself.👈👈👈

Take 15 minutes out of the day to do something ‘nice” for yourself.

Here’s an idea 👇👇👇

And then rub moisturizer all over your feet to make them feel fabulous!

Discover, what you are made of…and it will most likely be much more than you think!

That’s how you find your happiness.

When you find what you are made of.

How much you can accomplish.


Big one.

How you make others feel👈👈👈

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Move mountains, lots of them!

While you are at it.

Get out of your own damn way.

Another way we trip up our own happiness.

Get out of your own damn way and just do it!

Even in #lockdown2020

Plan an adventure!

Again, this one is an pause at the moment, but someday!

Be kind to yourself.

Say nice thinks to yourself and watch what happens.👈👈👈

Stop beating yourself up for what you are not.

And instead.

Give yourself high-fives for what you ARE👈👈👈



Can do anything you set your mind to!


You are a work in work in progress, no matter your age!

Take chances, and don’t be afraid to fail.🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

“Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself. The storm will pass.”

Lastly, don’t be afraid to break the rules (not the law).

To find your happiness.

You don’t have to follow the herd.

You are allowed to do your own thing and be proud of it!

Everyone may not be happy with you for doing it,

But that’s their problem not yours!👈👈👈

How to have a Happy Day?

even in #lockdown2020

I also wanted to give a HUGE shout-out to ALL the essential works!

From the medical folks, to the grocery store people, to the truck drivers, to the cashiers at the Dollar Store, and to anyone I may have missed!

THANK YOU to you all👈👈👈

And while you’re in #lockdown2020

Make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den

That’s a wrap!

Stay safe everyone.

I’m so looking forward to the day we can all meet again in person!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!



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