“How can I?” (7.1.2020)

Patricia Bokowski, do you remember way back when, on the day you first earned your wings, how you worried about whether or not you’d be able to use them to lift yourself, and thereby the entire planet, higher?
And so I reminded you that the reason you earned them was because you already had?
You’ve already earned all that your heart desires.
Tallyho,Β Β The Universe / “How can I?” / www.tut.com

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How can I?

Trust me.

You can.

Yes is always the answer.


How many people?

Were told.

When they were younger?

That you couldn’t do something.

Or anything.

So I am here to tell you otherwise.

That you ARE capable.

Of so many things.


So many things.


No one tells you that.

No one.

We are rarely told we are magical.


That we can do hard things.

That we are smart.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

That we are creative.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

That we are resourceful.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

That we can do anything we set our minds to!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


No one tells us that.

So, that’s why I write these blogs.

To remind all the girls AND boys.

You can do anything you set your mind to.


How can I?

It’s not easy.

Being a good person these days.


Being a good woman.

You tend to get over-looked.

Taken advantage of, if you aren’t careful.

People will take advantage of your kindness.

And mistake it for a weakness.


But, that doesn’t mean you still shouldn’t be one.

No matter what the world throws at you.

Bad people.

Difficult situations.

Toxic boss.

Never give up on being the BEST version of you!

Because, at the end of the day.

As they saying goes: “Takers eat better, but givers sleep better.”

Ever been around those people.

Who LOVE talking about things.

That happened twenty years ago?

Or that High School was THE BEST years of their life?

If you notice.

They don’t don’t about what’s going on right now.

There’s a reason for that.

They don’t have much going on right now.


Whatever is going on.

They don’t like it very much.

They’ve already peaked in life.

And so they LOVE to reminisce!

Yeah, I’m not one of those people.

I live in the here and now.

I live for today.

And I work for tomorrow.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

I’m building my empire one brick at a time.

One day at a time.

And I’m loving every second of it!

I hope that’s how you are living YOUR life!

And not stuck on repeat from twenty years ago!

Want to be successful?

Stop thinking in black and white.

Start thinking unlimited possibilities.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


When nothing is sure, anything is possible!


And I am living proof.

I can’t tell you how many times in my life.

I was sure things were taking a wrong turn.

And then.

Things changed.

In my favor.

That’s when I started realizing.

Nothing is definite.

Everything is possible.

That’s why I always say.

Keep your eyes AND mind open!

And never give up on that dream!

If you have been one of my faithful followers.

You undoubtedly know.

There are certain subjects.

I often write about.

“The Magic of Thinking Big” is one of those subjects!

Here’s a great excerpt from the book:

“Thing Big and you’ll live Big.

You’ll live Big in Happiness.

You’ll live Big in accomplishment.

Big in income.

Big in friends.

Big in respect.”

David J. Schwartz

Now that is the kind living you need to be doing!

You were born to win!

So don’t be afraid to take risks.

And make it happen!

And don’t listen to anyone.

Telling you that you can’t succeed.

That’s on them, not you!

YOU. NineFrogs Daily:

You got this!


Were born to be successful.

You, were born to live the life of your dreams.


Yes, you!

“When the odds are one in a million, be that ONE.” – NineFrogs

That’s why it’s so important.

To live a BIG life!

As BIG as you can.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And put in all the things you love.

Into that life.

And get rid of everything that weighs you down.

That includes: people, relationships, situations, jobs, where you live, etc.

Make it absolutely amazing!

Make the haters followers.

Most of all.

LIVE for today.

How can I?

You can.

You got this, really!

People are so quick.

To give up on themselves.

Thinking, they just don’t have what it takes!


If you don’t try.

HOW will you know?

No one is going to hand it to you.

YOU have to work for it!




Your life depends on it.


YOU do have it in you.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

It’s just you’ve probably been told.

Your whole life, you don’t.

And that you can’t!


I dare you!

Prove THEM wrong.

Show them what you’re made of.

Let them see you climb those mountains.

Trust me when I tell you.

You do have it in you.

If that’s what you really want.

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available on Amazon!

Click the link to purchase today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap.

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while.

“How can I?”


1027 St. Johnland Road, Kings Park, NY 11754


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