“I want it all!” (4.12.17)

Patricia Bokowski, there is no detail so small, no thought however fleeting, no word unspoken, no deed mindlessly performed, that doesn’t send its vibration into the unseen, reaching my heart of hearts, where it echoes and returns as more of the same.
And as your cumulative manifestations draw your attention to the stunning and absolute power you have over your destiny, you’ll come to see that, really and truly, there is no such thing as a small detail.
You have the keys to the Kingdom…   The Universe / “I want it all!” / www.tut.com
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

I want it all!

Don’t we all!

And, should also be your mindset.

Everyday when you wake up!

So I ask?

Why don’t more people?

Have that kind of mindset?


An age-old question.

And I suppose.

There could be a lot of answers.

So, today.

We’re going to dive-in.

And get some answers.

For the win!

Off the top of my head:






Work ethic.

Willingness to learn.

Leadership skills.


That’s what it takes to be successful.

I want it all!

As the saying goes.

There’s no elevator to success.

You have to take the stairs.


Be will to do the work👈👈👈

And I know.

That totally bums people out!

When they actually find out.

What it takes to get to there.


What they have to do to get there.


How many failures they will face.

Like, many.


This isn’t easy.


We are!

I want it all!


There is no “one” book.

Or, step-by-step plan.

To take you where you want to go.

So, stop asking other people!


Everybody’s blue-print is different.

So, there is no point in copying anyone else.

I want it all!

What I have found.

With my very un-scientific research.

Is that there are certain characteristics.

And/or behaviors.

Successful people possess.


Is they are fiercely determined.


They don’t give up.

Once the have their sites set on a goal.

They don’t let anything stop them.

They are confident.


And will stop at nothing to get where they want to be!

Think Oprah.

Bill Gates.

Warren Buffett.

Jeff Bezos.

Lebron James.

You get the idea.

People who are hugely successful.

Who realized their power.

And then used that power.

To propel them to mega-success!


Here are some suggestions on your road to success:

Smile: “Smile.  It intimidates those who wish to destroy you!”

I know, I know.

“Patti, you must have said this a million times!”

I know.

I talk about smiling a lot.

And again.

That’s because it’s sooooo important!

Both for yourself.

And, your quest for success.

Have you ever seen a picture of:

Oprah, Bill Gates, Or Warren Buffett not smiling?

Pretty sure that would be no.

Because they know the importance.

Now YOU know.

Use it to your advantage.

BTW, have you ever read the book, Think Rich, Grow Rich?

If you haven’t you should!

Self-Confidence:  “If you want to achieve greatness, stop asking for permission!”

True self-confidence.

Is the thing.

That’s going to get you where you want to be!

Confidence in yourself AND your abilities.

To get you where you want to be!

Because, in case you haven’t heard.

Not everyone is going to believe in you.

Trust me, they won’t.

And that’s ok.

As long as you BELIEVE in you!


Dress for Success: “You dress for the job you want, not the one you have!”  

There’s a reason they call it “Dress For Success”!

Granted, things are a bit different these days.

Dressing has taken on a whole new meaning.

Are you working from home?

Working in your pjs?

I’ve been asked this question quite a lot these past few months.

And, here’s my answer.

Wear what makes you feel good.

That’s it!

As I said, the rules have changed.

But, if you want to be successful. 

You still need to feel good AND look good.

However you can make that happen.

I got you!

Once you change your mindset.

To the fact.

That everything is rigged in your favor.

Your entire universe changes.

Try and see!

Attitude:  “Attitude is a little thing that makes a BIG difference!”

Want to be successful?

Make sure you have a positive attitude!


It’s pretty hard to be successful.

With a sh*t attitude.

Happiness:   “Never tie your happiness to the tail of someone else’s kite!”  

That’s it!

Successful people are happy people.

It goes hand-in-hand.

So if you aren’t happy now.

You’re most likely.

Going to have a hard time being successful.


I know what a lot of you think.

“Patti, when I’m successful. I will be soooo happy!”



It doesn’t work like that.

You need to be happy NOW!

That’s the difference between winners and losers.

Winners know that in order to be successful.

They have to act AS IF!

AS IF they are already successful!

Not, I need to wait until I am successful.

In order to be happy.

Notice the difference.

You need to live it.

You need to breathe it.

You need to BE it!

Persistence:  “Success is never owned, it is rented, and the rent is due everyday!”


That’s how you have to think.


I know no one wants to hear this.


You have to be a ‘beast’.

And go after what you want.

If you truly want to be successful.

Trust me.

NO ONE is going to hand it to you.

You have to work your axx off to get it.


Whatever your ‘it’ is.

Be prepared to work at it.

And on those tough days.

Which you will have.

And, then.

You’ll want to give up.

So let me tell you now.



I have seen so many people throw in the towel.


It got hard.

As the saying goes:

“If it was easy, everyone would do it!”

Enthusiasm:  “People will stare. Make it worth their while.”

Whatever it is you want to be successful in.

Be 110% enthusiastic about it.


It needs to be something you would do for free.


Quite honestly.

That’s probably how you’re going to start.


Make sure you’re enthusiastic about it.

If not.

Pick another goal!


You have to ask yourself how bad do you want it?

Because, you need to want it REAL bad.


It will never work!


This is lifetime commitment stuff.


Ask yourself.

Are you ready?

Know it!

That’s the big one!  

That is the mindset you have to have.  

Failure is NOT an OPTION! NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

Remember this.

Your life.

Your dreams.

Your journey!

So you ask.

How can I find success?

Here’s how:

Think it.

Dream it.

Believe it!

How can I have it all?

It’s HERE!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

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I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

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Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“How can I have it all?”



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