Primitive societies live by the Rule of Might, and the strong prevail.
Advanced societies live by the Rule of Law, and the privileged prevail.
Enlightened societies live by the Rule of Love, and everyone is lifted higher.
Love on, Patricia Bokowski – The Universe / “How can I find my way?” / www.tut.com
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs
How can I find my way?
If you don’t know where you are going?
Any road will take you there!
Just ask Alice in Wonderland.
You better have a good idea.
Of where you want to land!
Otherwise, any road will take you there!
Nobody wants that!
Make sure you see it in your mind.
Then take every step you can.
To get you there.
It’s not going to happen overnight.
That’s why it’s called a process.
Because it takes a long time.
But, well worth it!
I was out shopping the other day.
And over-heard a conversation between two women.
They hadn’t seen in each other in a while.
And were catching up.
It went something like this:
Woman 1 – How are you doing? Everything going good?
Woman 2 – Oh, you know…I’m tired, I feel like I can never catch up, blah, blah, blah
Woman 1 – I know how feel, the older I get, the harder everything seems. Some days I find it hard to do anything!
Woman 2 – I know exactly how you feel. Just getting dressed and combing my hair is an effort these days.
Woman 1 – It just doesn’t seem fair does it?
Woman 2 – Exactly, life just seems to be getting more complicated and harder, I just can’t deal with it.
“If you don’t have a seat at the table.
You’re probably on the menu!”
How true is that?
I will tell you this.
So worth it.
I’ll make my OWN table!
I’ve worked way to hard!
To take a back-seat.
If you see me out.
And, I’m sitting by myself.
Now you know why!
The tag line for my business is: Where Attitude is Everything!
There’s a reason for that.
Having a great attitude.
Is what you need in life.
To not only survive, but to thrive!
And yet, so many people just don’t get that.
I hear soooo many people complain.
About just about everything.
And it’s not just ‘older’ people.
I hear younger people complaining ALL the time.
About this and that.
How, so many things aren’t fair?
Since when has life ever been fair?
That’s life people!
You either conquer it.
Or, it will conquer you!
You are in it for the WIN👉👉👉
Is it easy?
No, it is not.
Especially these days.
Some days it is a struggle.
Fortunately, those days are few and far between.
I think it is especially important.
These days to keep a positive attitude.
That’s the thing that keeps you sane.
In an insane world.
That positive attitude.
Is what can help you get through the worst of days.
And, make the better days even better!
Every journey begins with a single HOP 👉👉👉
I hope you are hopping these days.
People can feel it.
It fuels your energy.
And as we all know.
Your energy is contagious.
You become a magnet for people who want what you have.
And these days.
We need all the magnetic people we can shining their light!
I for one, get this all the time.
You guessed it.
I’m a magnet!
I’ve been asked more than once.
How do I keep such a positive attitude?
With all the craziness in the world right now.
And my honest answer is this:
I can’t control what’s going on in the world.
But, I can only control what’s going on in MY world.
So I choose to have a positive attitude every morning when I wake up.
I have a business that I work at EVERY day.
And I have a family to look after, among other things.
It’s how I choose to live my life.
And I highly recommend to others!
Sh*t is hard.
Do it anyway!
If you want to make something.
Be prepared to work for it.
Think that you are the creator of your creation.
So, what are you creating?
Now, do everything.
To make it happen.
When you possess a really positive attitude.
You will start to see you live your life.
On a entirely different level.
A level most don’t get to.
Which is sad.
It also helps bring about serendipities.
You never thought possible!👈👈👈
Answers to your prayers.
Are now, possible.
When you think better.
“Whether you think you can.
Or whether you think you can’t, you’re right!” – Henry Ford
That’s what having the right attitude does for you!
Have you heard? http://www.ninefrogs.com
I’m writing a book!
Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”
Anticipated release date: Summer 2022!
I cannot wait for you guys to read it!
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That’s a wrap!
Patricia <3 always
NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!
“How can I find my way?”