“How can I choose?” (4.12.17)

Patricia Bokowski, here’s some advice for those who come to you with long faces.
 
“If you’ve finally decided, once and for all, to be happy, yet you aren’t… then you haven’t yet decided to be happy, once and for all.”
 
Same goes for all the other stuff they’ve decided.
 
They’re that powerful.
  The Universe / “How can I choose?” / www.tut.com
Always being your best, Patricia Bokowski, shining your brightest, and standing as tall as you can, pays far more dividends than one might ever imagine.
 

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions!” – NineFrogs

 

How can I choose?

What every entrepreneur asks themselves?

Which business should I pick to start?

These are all the important questions you need to ask yourself.

Before you embark on entrepreneurship!

Do I want to be an entrepreneur and have your own business?

Or do you want to work for someone else?

Those are you choices.

And YOU have to choose.

Although you should know.

If you want to be an entrepreneur.

It’s no walk in the park.

It’s like, a lot of work.

And there’s no elevator to success (as they saying goes).

You have to take the stairs.

You have to actually work👈👈👈

And that totally bums out a lot of people!

When they actually find out what it takes to get to the top.

And.

What they have to do to get there.

And how many failures you will face.

Like, many.

Look.

No easy fixes here.

Just hard work.

That’s what it takes to be amazing!

Day in and day out.

One step at a time.

One day at a time.

I can’t choose!

 

And for those that want to know!

There is no “one” book.

Or, step-by-step plan to take you there. 👈👈👈

Which many entrepreneurs don’t get starting out!

Because.

There is a different set of blue-prints for each of us.

So, no point in copying anyone else.

 

So, what I have found with my un-scientific research.

Is that there are certain characteristics, and/or behaviors.

Top entrepreneurs possess.

One, is they are a determined lot.

They don’t take NO for an answer.

Once they know their goal, nothing stops them from getting there.

They are confident.

Determined.

And will stop at nothing to get where they want to be!

Think Oprah.

Bill Gates.

Warren Buffett

Jeff Bezos

Lebron James.

You get the idea.

People who are hugely successful.

What characteristics do you think they have?

Characteristics that made them so successful.

I know there are many.

But.

For me.

It boils down to one thing.

They didn’t give up when got tough! 👈👈👈

 

Other things successful entrepreneurs do:

Smile: “Smile.  It intimidates those who wish to destroy you!”

I know, I know.

“Patti, you must have said this a million times!”

I know, I talk about smiling a lot.

And again, that’s because it’s sooooo important!

Both for yourself.

And, your quest for success.

Have you ever seen a picture of Oprah, Bill Gates, Marc Zuckenberg not smiling?

No.

Because they know.👉👉👉

Now you know.

Use it.

BTW, have you ever read the book, Think Rich, Grow Rich?

If you haven’t you should!

 

Self-Confidence:  Knowing who you are and what you are made of.👈👈👈

That, is what is going to get you where you want to be!  

Having the absolute confidence in yourself and your abilities.

To get you where you want to be!

Because, in case you haven’t heard.

Not everyone is going to believe in you (trust me, they won’t).  

And that’s ok.

As long as you BELIEVE in you!👈👈👈

BECAUSE, I BELIEVE IN YOU 

 

Dress for Success:  You dress for the job you want, not the one you have!  

There’s a reason they call it “Dress For Success”!

Granted, things are a bit different these days.

Dressing has taken on a whole new meaning.

Are you working from home?

Working in your pjs?

I’ve been asked this question quite a lot these past few months.

And, here’s my answer.

Wear what makes you feel good.

That’s it!

As I said, the rules have changed.

But, if you want to be successful. 

You still need to feel good AND look good.

However you can make that happen.

As for me, I’ve made it work for me.

 

How many clothes did you buy this Summer?

I hardly bought any.

Quite honestly, there was nothing to buy.

I think I bought like four new dresses.

No shoes (none I liked).

I bought some new makeup.

Got my haircut as soon as was allowed here in New York.

Then I dyed it. lol

And guess what?

I looked fabulous any day I went out!

I know, because I received many compliments!

 

Attitude:  As Winston Churchill said, “Attitude is a little thing that makes a BIG difference!”

So what’s your attitude like these days?

Hopefully, good and positive!

And if it’s not.

You need to change that asap!

Because having a crappy attitude is NOT going to get you anywhere!

Happiness:   “Never tie your happiness to the tail of someone else’s kite!” – Beth Hoffman.  That’s it!

Successful people are happy people.

They go hand-in-hand.

So if you aren’t happy now, you are most likely are going to have a hard time being successful.

And I know what a lot of you think.

‘Patti, when I’m successful I will be soooo happy!”

Yeah.

No.

It doesn’t work like that.

You need to be happy NOW👉👉👉

That’s the difference between winners and losers.

Winners know that in order to be successful, they have to act AS IF!

AS IF they are already successful!

Not, I need to wait until I am successful in order to be happy.

Notice the difference.

Now LIVE It! 

Persistence:  Having an attitude like that 👆👆👆

Riri knows!

You have to be a BEAST sincerely!

I know no one wants to hear that.

You have to be a ‘beast’ and go after what you want.

If you truly want to be successful.

NO ONE is going to hand it to you.

You have to work your axx off to get it.

So.

Whatever your ‘it’ is.

Be prepared to work night and day to get it.

I can’t tell you how many part time jobs I’ve had over the years.

Growing my business.

Working for nothing.

Putting in 60 hours a week.

Not making a penny.

That’s devotion.

And that’s what you need.

When you see the big picture.

And know what you are working towards.

It’s easy.

It doesn’t feel like work.

It literally is ALL you think about.

So.

If you want to be successful.

Be willing to work.

Be willing to move mountains.

And if you don’t have THAT mindset.

You need to get it real quick!

Enthusiasm:  Be enthusiastic.

Whatever it is you want to be successful in.

Be 110% enthusiastic about it.

It needs to be something you would do for free.

Because.

Quite honestly.

That’s probably going to be the scenario at first.

So.

Do you have that enthusiasm.

If not.

Pick another goal!

And lastly:

You have to ask yourself how bad do you want it?

Because, if you don’t want it REAL bad.

It will never work!

Because, it is a lifetime commitment.

So, are you ready?

How can I choose?

That’s the big one!  

That is the mindset you have to have.  

Failure is NOT an OPTION! NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

Remember this.

Your life.“

Your dreams.

Your journey!

So you ask…

How can I find success?

Think it.

Dream it.

I want it now!

How can I choose?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

 

 

 

“How can I choose?”

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