Get the BEST!
That’s right.
You know what you need to do.
YOU need to…
Wait.
Until the right person comes along.
Don’t settle on someone because you’re lonely.
Or tired of being alone.
That is a sh*t reason to be with someone.
And you are better than that👈👈👈
How often?
Do you actually swipe right on any dating app these days?
Swiping right.
Can lead to meeting some interesting people for sure!
Like the guy I dated.
Until he told me he was a Vampire!!!
True! LOL.
Some days if feels like dating a unicorn is a better option!
I recently wrote a blog on relationships.
And, quite frankly.
I received quite a backlash from some folks.
Who didn’t agree with what I was saying?
Of course.
These were from the married folks.
Who haven’t been in the dating scene in years.
So many said; it can’t possibly be THAT bad👈👈👈
“They” obviously have no idea.
As I’ve said previously.
It’s a good thing I have a great sense of humor 🙂
And a “never give up” kind of attitude.
Seriously people, it’s a jungle out there.
Ask any person in the dating world.
And they will tell you!
That’s why so many people have given up.
Yes.
It’s that bad.
It seems to me.
Everyone I talk to.
Is in some kind of flux.
When it comes to their relationships these days.
They are either in a good one.
But, still having issues (who isn’t these days?)
Or.
In a bad one, but not sure if they should leave ;-(
Or.
Trying to get into one👈👈👈
And/or.
Desperately trying to get out of one.
Oh, and we wonder why no one is happy these days “-(
Like it or not.
We all carry baggage.
And the older we get.
The more baggage we seem to bring.
From relationship to relationship to relationship.
But.
That doesn’t mean it’s bad baggage.
There’s just more of it.
So, to all those people who have in their profile.
“No baggage needed.”
I swipe left every time.
Because.
That line tells me.
That that person is most likely not my type.
You know.
The type that doesn’t know how to really live life.
Like.
They want everything to be perfect.
And life isn’t like that.
At least not in my world!
I certainly don’t want to be all doom and gloom.
When it comes to dating!
Plenty of people find love everyday <3
You just need to be open to it.
For today’s blog.
I sharing a variety of quotes that sum up my thoughts on love and relationships:
“You Are Adored!”
“From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection”
Here’s the thing.
You have the POWER.
Don’t just settle on what’s given to you.
YOU take what is yours.
And that includes who you love.
Please don’t settle on someone because they seem like a ‘good deal’.
Like, on paper, they seem like a steal.
Only, in real life.
They aren’t.
Or, because you are lonely.
Maybe you’ve been single for a while.
And you’re tired of it.
That’s no reason to settle for anyone.
Who isn’t the BEST person for you.
YOU are pure magic,
AND deserve THE VERY BEST
Remember that!!!
“Appreciate the moment of a first kiss;
it may be the last time you own your own heart!”
Robert M. Drake / Word Porn
“You teach people how to treat you by what you allow,
what you stop, and what you reinforce!”
Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸
aka fROG cONSULTANT
“Hubba Hubba”
From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection
Some times.
It’s starts with a smile.
A short conversation.
A look.
However it happens.
Don’t rush it.
Let it come.
It’s it’s right, it will.
And if it’s not, let it go.
“We women, are hurricanes!
We have to be, we handle everything!
And the older we get, the more fierce we become.
So if you can’t handle a little rain, you can’t handle us!
NineFrogs Wisdom
I believe we have all been there ;-(
Unfortunately.
We have to learn to close some doors.
As in slam them shut and put a nail in it👈👈👈
“You’ll find what you seek!”
From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection
When you find the one that fires your flame!” / Word Porn
Question: How many frogs do you have to kiss to find your Prince(s)?
Answer: As many as it takes!
From the book “Promises From the Heart” <3
We’ve all been there👈👈👈
That’s the crazy thing about love.
The things we tolerate.
#neveragain
“I go where you go!”
“From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection”
I like to think so!
Ever meet someone new?
And you feel like you’ve known them forever?
You make an immediate connection?
As if they were some long lost friend?
Perhaps it is true?
Like that.
If it comes, great. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:
If it goes, let it 👋👋👋
To everyone who is looking for love.
Here is my advice; stop looking!
Work on you!
Because, just when you think it will never happen again.
It happens!
That’s the funny thing about love.
It finds you when you least expect it <3
Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog Den – New videos coming soon!
Loving you ❤❤❤
That’s a wrap!
Talk soon,
Patricia <3 always
NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!
“Get the best!”
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How long does it take to make a first impression? Pop science tells us seven seconds, psychologists say a tenth of a second. However any seasoned single person knows that in the dog-eat-dog world of digital dating, you have nanoseconds to catch the eye (and halt the thumb) of future suitors swiping left or right on your romantic fate. And no one knows that better than the elite class of daters whose profiles are the country's most right-swiped.
Very True!