“Don’t go for less. Get the BEST!” (10.4.18)

Well, Patricia Bokowski, enlightenment is kind of like flying for the first time without wings.
Of course, there’s the exhilaration, the happiness, and the intoxicating sense of freedom that’s almost indescribable.
But there’s also the subtle shock at what you now see as the inevitability of your accomplishment. The wonderment of how you hadn’t seen this so clearly before, mingled with acceptance. And the dim recognition that it’s part of some distant agreement you once made.
And, at last, as you come to your senses and finally think to gaze below, upon the tiny jewel you’ve called home for so long, you’re struck with a jolt as you see it so magically and effortlessly suspendedβ€”floatingβ€”in space, and realize, for the first time, that even there you were flying all along.
You soar,
  The Universe / “Don’t Go For Less. Get the BEST!” / www.tut.com

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Get the BEST!

That’s right.

You know what you need to do.

YOU need to…


Until the right person comes along.

Don’t settle on someone because you’re lonely.

Or tired of being alone.

That is a sh*t reason to be with someone.

And you are better than thatπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


How often?

Do you actually swipe right on any dating app these days?

Swiping right.

Can lead to meeting some interesting people for sure!

Like the guy I dated.

Until he told me he was a Vampire!!!

True! LOL.

Some days if feels like dating a unicorn is a better option!

I recently wrote a blog on relationships.

And, quite frankly.

I received quite a backlash from some folks.

Who didn’t agree with what I was saying?

Of course.

These were from the married folks.

Who haven’t been in the dating scene in years.

So many said;  it can’t possibly be THAT badπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

“They” obviously have no idea.

As I’ve said previously.

It’s a good thing I have a great sense of humor πŸ™‚

And a “never give up” kind of attitude. 

Seriously people, it’s a jungle out there.

Ask any person in the dating world.

And they will tell you! 

That’s why so many people have given up.


It’s that bad.

It seems to me.

Everyone I talk to.

Is in some kind of flux.

When it comes to their relationships these days.

They are either in a good one.

But, still having issues (who isn’t these days?)


In a bad one, but not sure if they should leave ;-(


Trying to get into oneπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


Desperately trying to get out of one. 

Oh, and we wonder why no one is happy these days “-(


Like it or not.

We all carry baggage.

And the older we get.

The more baggage we seem to bring.

From relationship to relationship to relationship.


That doesn’t mean it’s bad baggage.

There’s just more of it.

So, to all those people who have in their profile.

“No baggage needed.”

I swipe left every time.


That line tells me.

That that person is most likely not my type.

You know.

The type that doesn’t know how to really live life.


They want everything to be perfect.

And life isn’t like that.

At least not in my world!



I certainly don’t want to be all doom and gloom.

When it comes to dating!

Plenty of people find love everyday <3

You just need to be open to it.

For today’s blog.

I sharing a variety of quotes that sum up my thoughts on love and relationships:

“You Are Adored!”

“From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection”

Here’s the thing.

You have the POWER.

Don’t just settle on what’s given to you.

YOU take what is yours.

And that includes who you love.

Please don’t settle on someone because they seem like a ‘good deal’.

Like, on paper, they seem like a steal.

Only, in real life.

They aren’t.

Or, because you are lonely.

Maybe you’ve been single for a while.

And you’re tired of it.

That’s no reason to settle for anyone.

Who isn’t the BEST person for you.

YOU are pure magic,


Remember that!!!

“Appreciate the moment of a first kiss;

it may be the last time you own your own heart!”

Robert M. Drake / Word Porn

“You teach people how to treat you by what you allow,

what you stop, and what you reinforce!”

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸



“Hubba Hubba”

From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection 


Some times.

It’s starts with a smile.

A short conversation.

A look.

However it happens.

Don’t rush it.

Let it come.

It’s it’s right, it will.

And if it’s not, let it go.


“We women, are hurricanes! 

We have to be, we handle everything! 

And the older we get, the more fierce we become.

So if you can’t handle a little rain, you can’t handle us!

NineFrogs Wisdom

I believe we have all been there ;-(


We have to learn to close some doors.

As in slam them shut and put a nail in itπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

“You’ll find what you seek!”

From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection 

When you find the one that fires your flame!” / Word Porn


Question:  How many frogs do you have to kiss to find your Prince(s)?

Answer:  As many as it takes!


From the book “Promises From the Heart” <3


We’ve all been thereπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

That’s the crazy thing about love.

The things we tolerate.


 “I go where you go!”

“From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection” 


I like to think so!

Ever meet someone new?

And you feel like you’ve known them forever?

You make an immediate connection?

As if they were some long lost friend?

Perhaps it is true?


Like that.

If it comes, great. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

If it goes, let it πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹

To everyone who is looking for love.

Here is my advice;  stop looking!   

Work on you!

Because, just when you think it will never happen again.

It happens!

That’s the funny thing about love.

It finds you when you least expect it <3

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog Den – New videos coming soon!


Loving you ❀❀❀

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!



“Get the best!”




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