“Don’t give up!” (12.14.19)

Me? Concerned, Patricia Bokowski? Let’s see, at the moment, you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. Whenever the going has gotten tough, you’ve always bounced back even higher than you were before. And, somehow, you keep getting even better looking. 
But you are a dear for thinking of me. 
Mmmmmwaw –   The Universe / Don’t give up!

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – Kermit the Frog

It seems there are a lot of people struggling these days.🤔🤔🤔

I’ve been reading people’ stories and talking to some folks about their problems and I feel their over-whelm, and that makes me so sad 😢😢😢

I know what that feels like.🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

I have been there.👈👈👈

In that dark place where you feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel.😢😢😢

Only you know what?

There is a light, and it’s called HOPE👈👈👈

Trust me, as someone who has seen their fair share of heartache, misfortune, terrible circumstances, bad luck and dealing with people who I trusted dearly, only to be stabbed in the back by those very people, I know the feeling of despair 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

Here’s the thing though, if you find yourself in that place. You have two choices; give in and feel sorry for yourself and remain a prisoner of fate ;-(

Or, fight like a warrior, raise your sword and go to war!✨✨✨⚔⚔⚔

I think you can guess which route I chose💪💪💪

YOU are the source of your strength AND your power.👈👈👈

As such, you need to believe with every fiber of your being, that you will over-come whatever it is you are dealing with.💪💪💪

A very wise person gave me some advice several years ago; Everything is figureoutable ☝☝☝

Do you remember that story from 2009 where the chimpanze ripped the face of the lady?

Here’s a paper clipping I have from then, 👇👇👇

You have to be BIGGER than the problem.🦁🦁🦁

That’s what screws people up.🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

They let the problem be bigger then them.

And then they lose their power.😩😩😩

Which makes things a million times worse.

Because if you feel like you have no power, you’re lost ;-(

And we don’t want anybody feeling lost, because that’s a really bad place to be😑😑😑

People tend to filter out a lot of things when they’re in this turmoil?

Which is also why I always stress to keep a positive attitude, because it is extremely hard to have a great attitude when the problem hits👈👈👈

Here are some things to look at to help solve your problem:









Many people filter things in such a way that all they see are the problems and what is wrong.👨‍🏭🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

They have nothing left to focus on but what they don’t want.🤔

Now, imagine if you switched your thinking?

How different would your outcome be?

So, before life throws another life-storm at you (because she will eventually), here are some tips to keep your vibration as well as your attitude in high-gear:

Surround yourself with people who’s goals are as high as yours✈✈✈

Take in inspirational material everyday. Whether that’s reading, listening or going on YouTube and watching some videos!

Pray. And you can pray to anyone you like. Pray to The Universe, ask her if she can send some help🙏🙏🙏

Exercise, you need to keep your body moving 🦾🦾🦾

And the most important thing you can do: NEVER GIVE IN!👈👈👈

“You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!” / Rocky Balboa

Don’t give up!

Do you know how many situations I’ve gone through in my life where I thought?

How the hell am I going to: get through this, handle this, not have a nervous breakdown over this, be the same person after this?

Guess what?

I’m still here!

Still standing.

Still smiling.

Life will always try and knock you down.

That’s a given.

The thing is.

She wants you to get back up.


Then when you went down.


Lastly, follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!



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