“Can I come home?” (10.1.19)

Do you know what happens, Patricia Bokowski, when a dream comes true and you feel your joy bubbling over into wide grins and happy dances? 
Your energy actually spills over into the oceans of time and reaches into the past where it laps upon the shores of a former here and now, infusing a former unsuspecting self (who is still merrily living their life due to time’s “simultaneousity”) with a flash of inspiration or a burst of intuition and hope for what the future might hold. 
Whew… and that, my friend, is the truth about where dreams come from. 
Tallyho,  The Universe
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Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

Can I come home?

When it’s time to clean house!

Most people never really want to get rid of anything.


You really need to.

Let go of anything that doesn’t serve you.

Which can be anything from:

A person.

A job.

A relationship.

A friend.

Cutter in your house.

The mail on your dining room table.

You name it!👈👈👈

It’s all that stuff.

That we cling to for far too long.

When in reality.

We should have gotten rid of a long time ago.


I know so many people.

That are holding onto old hurts, wounds and people.

Holding on.


For whatever reason.

They just can’t let go.

No matter how much it hurts them.👈👈👈

The thing is.

When you hold onto like that.

You let it take up to much of the present.

And you aren’t even aware of it.


You are making it way too difficult.

To let the ‘good’ stuff in!

Whenever I’m speaking with someone.

And they start to tell me about some “fill-in-the-blank” …

I ask them, ‘why’?

What good is it doing you now?

And they invariably will say,

“I just can’t let it go.”


I am telling you today.

Let that sh*t go👈👈👈

All of it.

Anything that hurts your soul.

F it.

Kick it to the ‘proverbial’ curb!

You know what they say?

If you’re not losing friends.

You’re not growing.

And the older I get.

The more I see this.

What you need to understand.

Is that some people come into your life.

With the plan of not staying so long.“How do I know?” (5.13.2021)

Only you don’t know that.

Sad but true.

They may not even plan on it.

It just happens.

What screws us up.

Is holding onto that hurt.

Like it’s some kind of badge of honor to do so.

I say, LET IT GO👈👈👈

If you need to.

Go have a cry over it.

But then.

Move on.

Then release it to The Universe.👈👈👈

And then watch your life get better.


You’ll start to feel better.


You let it all go👈👈👈

Remember that!


I think being human.

A truly authentic human.

Takes a whole lot of courage.

The point is.

You got to let it go.

Anything that doesn’t fill you up.




That doesn’t make you feel good.


That person who did you dirty ten years ago.

Forget them.👈👈👈

Your old boss who made your life miserable.

Start your own business and be a huge success.

Success and Happiness are the best revenge.

Move on.

Start over and let go of sh*t.

It’s the best recipe for inner peace.👈👈👈


When life gets too overwhelming.

It’s time to start letting go.

It’s means you have way too much on your plate.

Or your mind.

And if you don’t start letting go.


YOU are going to get crushed.

I’ve learned.

You want to make life work best for you?

Start letting go.




Whatever it takes!

As a result of letting go;

I feel happier.


And I truly believe I think better.👈👈👈

My mind isn’t cluttered with all that “resentment & brain fog”.


You can’t move forward.

If you are still holding onto yesterdays sh*t.


This goes for material things as well.

We all know that.

When you have too much “stuff” around us.

It blocks the good from getting to you.

Wrecks havoc on your mind

And is impossible to get around.

My advice: purge like a mother-fuc*er!!!👈👈👈


The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸


Here’s another thing you need to let go of.

Old ways of thinking.


Those very thoughts could be holding you back.

You know.

When people say things like:

I can’t do that because I am too young/too old.

You need to have ___________ in order to do that.

What would my friends/parents/family think if I did that?

I really want to do _____________but I heard from soandso a long time ago that it’s not a good idea.



Is just another way of.

“Stuff” holding you back.👈👈👈

So I say, let go.


Let go of any and all thoughts that don’t serve you.

Thoughts that don’t make you feel good about YOU.

Because at the end of the day, it’s all about YOU!

Never forget that.

Especially us women.

We’re always putting ourselves at the bottom of the list.

Yet, another reason we hold onto so much “stuff”.

Ask any woman over 40 if she is full of rage 😉

We have to learn to let go.

And put ourselves on TOP of the list.

And LET GO of anything.

That doesn’t make us feel fabulous.

Do you know what happens when you let go?


Old hurts.

Old wounds.

Old thoughts.

You leave room in your life.

For new people to enter.👈👈👈

New adventures.

New opportunities.

And new ideas.

Out with the old.

And in with the new.

Because remember.

It’s all in the way you think.

“Know when to let go and when to hold on tight.”

That’s how you do it.

It’s a balancing act every day.

Enjoy your today’s.

And put to pasture any bad memories.

Of anything that has hurt your soul.

Everyone needs to understand.

You are so loved.

And you are so special.

You deserve to live in the light.

Not the dark.

So this month.

Make it a priority this to let go of everything.

And anything that doesn’t serve you.

I myself will be doing a lot of that this month.

I am finding the clutter is gaining on me again.

I urge you do to the same 😉


I love this one <3

It’s a great reminder.

That we have more power over a situation.

Than the situation has on us!


Remember that!

Let it ALL go.

And be your own HERO👈👈👈

Can I come home?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon!

Coming out in paperback shortly.

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – The Frog’s Den!

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Can I come home?”



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