“Who moved my cheese?” (10.8.2021)

To set the record straight: However cool you think it might be to have an out-of-body experience, Patricia Bokowski—floating over your house, flying through space, traversing the past, present, and future—let me tell you, it’ll never be as cool as being in the one you have now. Walking barefoot in the grass, floating on a sun-drenched pool, or dancing alone in the dark.

You so “fly,”
  The Universe / “Who moved my cheese?”
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Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

Who moved my cheese?

Ever read it?

It’s a wonderful book written by Spencer Johnson M.D.

Quite honestly.

I think it should be a requirement.

For every person graduating Hight School.


Listen, most people are NOT prepared for change.

Not even close.

And, most people HATE change.

Only, what you need to know is this.

“Change” is good.

And again, most people HATE change.

But you see.

You shouldn’t be.

Most times.

Change is a good thing.

Only most don’t look at it like that.

Like in the book.

“Who moved my cheese?”

It’s all about being able to change.

Like, really learning how to pivot if need be.

So, I have BIG news to share!

I recently opened a shop on Amazon.

As many of my clients are still reluctant to go out shopping.

I decided to bring my favorite fashion finds to everyone.

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New items added daily.

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See, you can’t let yourself.

Get stagnant.

You need to always be ready.


You never know when.

Change is coming!

So, basically.

You have to have your shoes.

Next to your bed.

Like they do in “Who moved my cheese?”

You know.

In case you are forced to make a change.

Real quick.


Never get too comfortable.

As the saying goes:

“If you aren’t living on the edge.

You are taking up too much space.”

As I’ve said many times.

Starting my own business.

Was THE best decision.

I ever made for MYSELF.

Not including my family.


I’m talking about ME.

It has given me purpose.

It has given me an outlet.

And, most importantly.

It has given me a reason.

To get up every morning.

It motivates me.

Every second of every day.


And I mean.


Is somehow connected.

To my business.

That’s what you call.

Living your life with purpose!

In the book:

“Who moved my cheese.”

By Spencer Johnson M.D.

That is the theme.

Throughout the book.

That you can’t let yourself.

Get too comfortable.

Because, if shi*t.

Goes down.

You won’t be prepared.

To make a move.

Trust me.

I’ve been there.

And I won’t let it happen again. “How to win?” (11.6.2020)

This is a perfect example.

Of how we get bogged down.

With useless sh*t in our lives.

Whether it’s people, jobs or situations.

So make sure.

You’re only keeping the good stuff.

Everything else.

Is a total waste.

Just a bunch of fluff.

Stuff that you actually think you need.

But actually.

Is just taking up space.

In your life.

And that stuff.

Can be a combination of.

A myriad of things.

So, if you want to.

Stay on top of your game.

Make sure.

You are in control.

And not your stuff!

Know this!

That couldn’t be more accurate.

Especially these days.

Where there is a war on woman.

And if you don’t believe that.

Just look at what’s going on in the.

World today!

They are scared of women like you.

Women like me.

Women who speak their mind.

Women who tell their stories.

Women who are leaders.

Not everyone likes that.

Not everyone is excited about that.

In fact.

It ruffles feathers in certain places.

But, do not let that stop you.

From ruffling feathers.

As I always say:

“Don’t be afraid to break the rules,

NOT the law.”

And when you do.

Do it for your fellow sisters!

It’s pretty much impossible.

To be motivated.

If you are taking in negative/toxic sh*t.

Be that:


Your social media feed.

What you watch on the TV.

Or what you listen to on the radio.

And that also includes:

What you eat.

Especially what you eat!

Eat crap.

Well, you know.

I’m not saying.

You need to become a vegetarian.

And eat organic food for every meal.

I’m saying.

Be conscience of what you eat.

If you’re eating fast food.

For lunch everyday.

That’s not doing.

Your brain any good.

Or, your hips.

I actually just reread this book.

It’s titled: Skinny Bitchin.

By Rory Freedman and Kim Barnouin.

And, let me tell you.

After reading that book.

(Because they get very graphic).

You literally will think twice.

About what you eat.

All I’m saying.

Is think about.

What you eat.

Know this!

When you know your worth.

You become.

An entirely different beast.


When you get to that point.

That you know your worth.

And what you bring to the table.

Trust me when I tell you.

Other’s, will want to be at YOUR table.

And, now you get to choose.

Who eats with you.

That’s power.

And trust me when I tell you.

You will never.

Be afraid to eat alone.

I will keep saying.

This, till the day I die.

Smile 🙂

It makes for a good body.

A happy soul.

And think.

What a great privilege it is.

That you have the power.

To change someone’s day.

By simply smiling at them.


Give that a good thought.


YOU DO have that power.

I was out shopping yesterday.

And I ran into someone.

Who I haven’t seen in years.

And I started telling this person.

A funny story that happened to me.

And we were laughing about it.

And as I turned to walk away.

I noticed other people in the store.

Looking at me and smiling 🙂

Yeah, like that!

Make sure you have.

The ‘right’ people in your circle.


There’s no use in having a circle.

If your circle doesn’t clap at your win.


If your circle brings you drama.

Trust me.

Leave the circle.


Your circle should make.

You feel like sunshine.

And if not.

It’s time to.

Get a new circle!

It’s called growth.

Know this!

Such is life.

It will NEVER be perfect.

And, that is the thing.

A lot of people need to hear.

Life will never be perfect.

So start where you are.

With what you have.

With whatever resources.

Hint: Most people have more.

Resources than they think.

They just over-look them.

Listen, we are all capable.

Of doing so much more.

Than we could ever imagine.

Simply, because we were told.

That we couldn’t.

Only, I am telling you.


You can do whatever.

It is you put your mind to.

I mean.

Look at me.

I just self-published a book!

If anyone would have ever told me.

Ten years ago.

That some day I.

Would write a book.

I would have told them.

That they were crazy.

And yet.

Here we are.

Don’t let ANYONE tell YOU.

That YOU can’t do something! NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY!”:

Who moved my cheese?

It’s HERE!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you check out my shop on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Who moved my cheese?”



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