“Where now?” (2.26.2022)

Dearest Patricia Bokowski, I wish for you flowers and sunshine, gentle breezes and clear skies, calm seas and rainbows. But, perhaps most of all, I wish for you the glorious breadth of experiences you are now poised to receive, so that these tidbits are mere icing on the cake of a life that’s rich in adventure.

I know what is going to happen next in your life.

Happy tears,
  The Universe / “Where now?” / www.tut.com
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Where now?

As in, right now.


I’ve been asked.

Quite a few times.

Over the years.

What motivates me?

What keeps me going?

How do I keep doing what I’m doing?


My answer would be:

I don’t give up!

Don’t get me wrong.

There have been plenty of times.

When I was ready to throw in the towel.

Times when it seemed.


Absolutely NOTHING was happening.

But then.

I would dust myself off.

And get back at it.

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

Where are you now?


When I started this journey.

I knew it wasn’t going to be easy.


I had NO idea.

It would be this hard.


Sincerely hard.


So worth it.

I can’t tell you.

The satisfaction.

I get from.

Doing what I do!

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

Where are you now?

To be successful.

You HAVE to think it’s possible..

That’s something a lot of people.

Don’t consider.

You can’t.

Be walking around.

Thinking: HOW can this happen?


Leave ‘HOW’ out of the equation.

Your job.

Is to keep.

Doing what you’re doing.


Just keep getting.

Better at it!

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

Where are you now?


How do I motivate myself?

It’s funny.

I don’t even have to.

Think about that.

These days.

I just ‘do’.


I just keep coming up with ideas.

Some work.

Some don’t.


No one will EVER say.

I’m not trying!

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

Where are you now?


When you’re doing what you love.

It doesn’t feel like ‘work’.

And if it does?


Change the way you do it.


Find something else.

The minute I do anything.


It starts to feel like ‘work’.

I know I shouldn’t be doing it.

Everything should just flow.


Feel magical.

Because friends.

That’s EXACTLY how I feel these days.

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

Where are you now?

It’s all about mindset.

I’ve written about this.

Many times before. “How can I be the best?” (5.13.2021)

It’s all in HOW you think.

Think positive.

Think love.

Think success.

Think possibilities.

Think confidence.

Think determination.

Think “I Can Do This!”

You HAVE to learn.

How to motivate yourself!

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

Where are you now?

I’ve learned.

The hard way.


“If you don’t have a seat at the table,

You’re probably on the menu.”


I made my OWN table.

And now.

People ask me.

If they can sit at it?

See how that works?

It’s called.

Taking your power back.

Stop giving it.

To just anybody!



They don’t deserve it!


The longer you do something.

Like me.

You figure out.

Who deserves your respect.


Who doesn’t.

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

Where are you now?

“Inspired by the fear of being average.”


That would be me!

Who wants to be average?


You’re here for a reason.

There is a reason.

You are HERE.

In THIS time.

In THIS place.

So, what are you going to do?


That’s the kind of thinking.

That motivates ME!

I think about that ALL the time.

What can I do.

To help other people?

Be happy?

Be inspired?

Feel loved?

Feel they have opportunity?

That’s how my mind works.

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

Sh*t IS hard.

Do it anyway!

Another great motivator.

Figuring out things.

You had absolutely.

No idea HOW to do them.

Over the years.

I have figured out.

Plenty of things.

I had NO idea.

How to do them?


If it’s important enough to you?

You figure it out.

Let’s be honest.

There are SO many resources these days.

Between Google and YouTube.

I have learned so much.

And then of course.

There’s plain old.

Asking people.

You know?

Like in real life.

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

When it comes to motivation.

Who you surround yourself with.

Is crucial.

And remember.

EVERYONE isn’t your person.

It’s okay to be selective.

The people you surround yourself with.

Will either life you higher.


Weigh you down.

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

Motivational tip of the day:

Get your sh*t together!

That’s it!

These days.

I call myself.

The Queen of lists.

I’m constantly writing.

And, rewriting lists.


That’s what works for me.

You do what works for you.

The point is.

If you want to motivate yourself.

You have to have you shi*t together!

Because, I always know:

I’m going places!

Where now?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Release date: Available now on Amazon!

Click link for purchase: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Where now?”


1027 St. Johnland Road, Kings Park, NY 11754


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