Opportunity never stops knocking. New friends are on their way. The ideas you need will find you. You’ll have another chance. Things are getting brighter. You are feeling lighter. Love is rising. Be still. Prepare. Others will call you lucky. Your parents are so proud. You ain’t seen nothing yet.
Look out world, Patricia Bokowski is stirring. A giant is waking up.
Like a country song, The Universe / The love of fashion!
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – Kermit the Frog
I received the Fall Catalog from Venus the other day and haven’t been able to put it down, so many great Fall outfits.
And since Fall is right around the corner here in New York.
I decided to do a post on Fall Fashion with Venus 🎃🎃🎃
This one is very personal to me ☝☝☝
I see far too many women who are absolutely miserable with their lives.
One big reason, they shut-off their WILD🔥🔥🔥
As in, slammed it shut!!!
They don’t dress they way they like.
They dress the way THEY THINK THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO DRESS.
Usually because of some BS theory about their age.
And what “women of a certain age” are supposed to wear.
Do you how many people compliment me on my hair?
My crazy, red, spiked hair!
And most of those people are women!
They all say the same thing, ‘God, I wish I had your nerve‘.
One lady last week actually said, ‘I wish I had your balls.’
My reply to every person is the same, ‘of course you can cut your hair.’
And you can wear WHATEVER you want👈👈👈
Their reply always comes with all these excuses as to why they can’t.
What I want them to know is, yes, you can.
You just need to give yourself permission to do so.
My point it this.
You get ONE life.
Live it on your terms and make it spectacular!!!
That also means.
Love who you want as well.
Who you are supposed to love.
Isn’t that the truth!
So many people are so eager to grow up.
That they grow old in the process.
And what happens next, they start dying inside.
You can see it in their face and feel it in their voice.
So, here’s the thing, DON’T BE THAT PERSON👈👈👈
Stop playing small.
You gain nothing by playing it safe.
You gain everything by going for it!
Whatever you ‘it’ is.
It’s this crazy NineFrogs business.
I started it in 2012.
And I’m still going.
Trying new things.
Meeting new people.
Making new opportunities.
That’s how it works.
It’s a process.
A long process.
And totally worth it!
Look back at some of the worst times in your life.👈👈👈
Now, think how did you get through it?
Trust me, you are doing SO MUCH better than you think!
Life’s magic works through you!🕊🕊🕊
Yes. Yes. Yes.
It always has.
And it always will.
It’s all in the way you think!!!👈👈👈
“It is impossible to live without failing at something. unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all; in which case, you fail by default.” / J.K. Rowling
Because you can do anything you set your mind too!
You just have to be willing to work for it!
And you were built for this in case no one told you.
I am sure they haven’t.
They will tell you to play it safe.
Get a job.
Life your life like everyone else.
That’s fine for them.
But you’re not one of them are you?
You are not!
You want an amazing life.
People need that more than ever these days!
Love the lonely.
Kiss the broken.
Befriend the lost.
Always leave people better than when you found them!
The love of fashion!
Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸
That’s a wrap👈👈👈
Patricia <3 always
NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!