“What do you think?” (5.23.2020)

To clarify, Patricia Bokowski, the primary roles of LOVE are not to heal, fix, or mend. Not to soothe, cure, or ease. Not even to refresh, rejuvenate, or restore. Hardly.
The primary roles of LOVE, Patricia Bokowski, are to “Yahoo!” “Yeehaa!” and “Whoohooo!” 
Get your love on,   The Universe /
“What do you think?


You were born to love, Patricia Bokowski, no matter the cost, no matter what someone else said, and no matter how the past once played out.

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius.” – NineFrogs

What do you think?

Has this happened to you?

You get that dreadful message.

From your Iphone.

Informing you that your storage is full.

And now you are forced.

To delete some of your precious pictures.


This just happened to me the other day.

So, I decided.

To make lemonaide out of lemons.

And go through my phone and delete some pictures!

As much as it pained me!

Because I love all my pictures <3

But, in the process.

I came across some great pictures.

Some of them.

Quite old.

So, I thought!

I’m going to make a blog out of them!

As some of them are actually very timely.

Am I the only one.

Feeling this way these days?

Something about living through.

These last three years.

Has had a huge affect on me.

And each day goes by.

I feel more empowered.

I’m not quite sure why.

But I’m going with it!

Let’s be honest.

The world is a different place now.

Life is different now.

But at the end of the day.

I truly believe we’re all looking.

For the same thing.

And that is.

To be seen.


That’s why I ALWAYS say.

You gotta get up!

No matter what.

You have GOT to get up!

And try again.

So I have something BIG to share!

I recently opened a shop on Amazon.

As many of my clients are still reluctant to go out shopping.

I decided to bring my favorite fashion finds to everyone.

Take a look: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ninefrogs

Full disclosure, I make a commission.

New items added daily.

Thank you for shopping with NineFrogs!


Don’t ever chase.

When you chase.

Things run away.

Instead, attract.

And watch the world come to you!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“When life brings BIG winds of change that almost blow you over,

close your eyes, hold on tight AND BELIEVE!” / Lisa Lieberman-Wang


And most people aren’t worth catching.

Trust me.

There’s a lot of empty promises out there.

So, be careful of people.

Who promise you the moon.

Let me tell you.

If anybody promises things.

That seem to be too good to be true;






You get the idea!

To be honest, these days.

I don’t trust ANYBODY.

Not unless I personally know them.

And even then.

I’ve been screwed royally.


MORAL: Use caution with everyone.

And remember!

Unless you actually know the person.

You don’t actually know WHO they are!

They can say they are anybody.

But that doesn’t mean they are them.👈👈👈

Anyone else?

I think especially.

After what we’ve all been through in recent years.

I know for myself.

I’m either going a hundred miles an hour.

Or I’m watching ten episodes of Succession.

On a Tuesday afternoon.

New way of life!

In trying times.

You need to be creative!


How can I pivot my business?

What can you do in your business.

That’s a little out-of-the-box?

Maybe you can open a Pinterest account?




Is your business on Google?

How are your posts doing on social media?

Are people liking and commenting?

If not, you might want to rethink your posts!

Are you a blogger in the making?

If not currently.

Start now!

As for me.

I recently opened my YouTube Channel.

And TikTok too.

That’s what I’m talking about.

And don’t say you can’t do it.

You can do anything you set your mind too!

I’ve said this before.

And I’ll say it again.






Like all those false promises.

Do not believe the hype!

This is one of my favorite quotes!

Because it is a great reminder.

Stop being afraid.

And instead STEP UP!

And take BACK your power.

Whenever I hear people.

Saying how they feel sad or lonely.

I know this person.

Gave up their power along the way.

So I’m here to tell you today.


And watch your world change!

Just like Frank Sinatra says:

The BIG lesson in life, baby, is never be scared of anyone or anything!


Here’s a little something I wanted to share!

It’s called “The Story of the Chinese Bamboo Tree” by Benny Hsu 👈👈👈

When you start.

To make  positive changes in your life.

It is not easy.

Because, you want results right away.

And when you don’t.

You’ll easily want to give up. 

Here’s the story of the Chinese bamboo tree:

You take a little seed.

Plant it.

Water it.

And fertilize it for a whole year.

And guess what?

Nothing happens. 

The second year.

You water it.

Fertilize it.

And nothing happens. 

Third year, you water it, and fertilize it, and still nothing happens.

How discouraging this becomes! 👈👈👈

The fifth year you continue to water.

And fertilize the seed and then—take note.

Sometime during the fifth year.

The Chinese bamboo tree sprouts and grows.


Life is much akin.

To the growing process of the Chinese bamboo tree. 

It is often discouraging.

We seemingly do things right, and nothing happens.

But for those who do things right and are not discouraged.

Things will happen. 👈👈👈

It might take years.

But if you are persistent enough.

You might have “overnight success” that others will see.

But in your heart.

You know the results came from doing.

The right things over a long period of time. 

The situation you are in right now.

Is the result of the seeds that you planted five years ago.

Are you getting the results you want?

If not, begin today.

To sow the seeds.

Of what you want five years from now. 

Remember, if you keep doing.

What you’ve always done.

You’ll get the results.

You’ve always gotten.

So here’s your reminder.

Get busy living!

Because, you either get busy living, or get busy dying.

Choose wisely👈👈👈



I know it’s hard.“Do you believe me now?” (8.25.2021)

I know you’re working really hard.

I know it’s frustrating.

I know it seems like nothing is happening.

But., you’ve come this far.

You can’t quit now.

Rest if you must.

Just don’t quit👈👈👈


Truth time!

What’s that thing.

You keep telling yourself.

That ‘one day’ you’re going to do 👈👈👈

Almost everyone has one.

Only they give themselves.

A hundred reasons why they can’t.

Here’s my advice.

Take the LEAP!


What do you think?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6P8FSG3

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – The Frog’s Den! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCliVgDpn8Yw3eVjiX_yI6Vw

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“What do you think?”



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