“What do I want out of life?” (8.23.19)

The way you know you’ll receive 7 times what you give, Patricia Bokowski, or in some cases 4,900 times what you give, is that the giving gives you true joy without any thought of even receiving 1 times back. 
Nice R.O.I.,   The Universe
/ What do I want out of life?


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

On a scale of 1-10, how would you say your attitude is these days?

Are you a solid 10, head held high, focused, know where you’re going and what your ultimate goal is?

Or, are you floundering somewhere around the 2,3,4 mark, scratching your head, still trying to figure it all out.

Read on…


So, I got a spray tan yesterday (ok, actually last Sunday) at Water2Moon in East Setauket, and saw THIS sign, and it made me smile 😉

(BTW, I love this location, just as nice as their Babylon location, very friendly and professional staff, and I highly recommend them!)

And I also I recommend getting a spray tan to give you a little sparkle to glow a little brighter this end of Summer Season🔥🔥🔥

I think we can all use a little pick-me-up!

Question: How many people do you think don’t get a spray tan because they don’t want anyone to see their body (because you are basically next to naked to get a proper one). I say many!

“Your spirit is what keeps you going,
your ATTITUDE is how you show it to the world!”
Patricia D. Bokowski

Way back when.

Before I started my business, I used to go to the library and research, How To Be Great?


Because I knew in order to have a successful business, I would have to stand out from the crowd.

And how do you do that? Stand out?

Those were the notes I took, and I refer to it often☝☝☝

That’s how you have a winning attitude! #crushfuccingeveryone

How many people stop themselves from doing a lot things they want to do only they don’t do them, because they have the wrong attitude?

At the start of the Summer I got my third tattoo.

I got a lot of compliments on it, and also, a lot of, mmm, comments.

Such as, ‘I’d love to get a tattoo, only it hurts,’ or, ‘Patti, you’re so brave, I could never get a tattoo, only I really want one.”

Trust me, you can be a bad ass unicorn and get a tattoo too!🦄🦄🦄

Mmmm, I don’t know if I would say, I’m so brave.🤦‍♀️

I just know what I want, I research it, then I do it!

It’s all about YOUR ATTITUDE!🦾🦾🦾

The Rock got that right!

Make sure you are working on YOU everyday.

And one of the things you need to work on is YOUR ATTITUDE.

Make sure you are vibrating on your highest level and see your attitude soar!🔥🔥🔥

If you have the right attitude, you can do just about anything!


Having the right attitude helps you do the impossible (or seemingly impossible).

Also, have a good attitude is the thing you REALLY need on those bad days (and let’s face it, we all have a bad day now and then, a great attitude will help you through it, AND, make you realize it’s a bad day, NOT a bad life).🧘‍♀️🧘‍♀️🧘‍♀️

Captain Jack is on the money!

Having a great attitude helps you think clearer, so better to think of solutions about your problem(s).👍👍👍

And as a wise women told me ages ago, “There is always a solution!”

Another way of saying that, “everything is figureoutable”.

But you need to think clearly to do that✔✔✔

Owning your Personal Power is key to having amazing confidence.

And one that many give up far too easily.

Owning your Personal Power means you call the shots in your life.

You, and you alone, make decision that affect YOUR life, decide who gets your respect and attention, call the plays and decide who gets to stay in your life, and who has to leave.

Far too often people are so worried about what other people are doing, or, what other people are thinking about them.

I say, who cares!!!

Focus on you, and treat yourself the way you would want someone else to treat you.

You’d be amazed at how good it feels.

My advice, stay in your lane, take care of you, do what makes you happy, healthy and shine!

I think that pretty much sums it up.

You want to have a great attitude?

Then hang around people who have a great attitude.

People who have high expectations of themselves.

Those that share their dreams with you, and you with them.

If you don’t have those kind of people around you, YOU NEED NEW PEOPLE!✔✔✔

That about sums it up!

You gotta have a good heart.

But, you also gotta me savage about things as well.

That’s the key to Winning At Life.

Trust me.

I know.

Winning every day👈👈👈

What do I want out of life?


Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸

Need a smile today?

Check out my videos on TikTok guaranteed to make you smile 🙂

You are pure magic!

That’s a wrap,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

What do I want out of life?



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