“Let’s start over!” (9.23.19)

If, Patricia Bokowski, when you lay your head upon your pillow tonight, you could choose to slip into a dream dimension where time would literally expand, so much so that you could live out an entire other lifetime within it as a person “designed” by you from head to toe, even choosing your name and who your parents would be. 
Where every single day you’d be pushed on to greatness, every single challenge would invite you to become more, and all of your dreams could come true.

Where, no matter how things may ever seem, you’d be bathed in love, surrounded by friends, safe and sound in your very own bed.
And where, upon waking, all that you loved and learned in that lifetime would remain with you forever, and all that scared and threatened you would only have prepared you for happily-ever-after.

Would you choose to go there, Patricia Bokowski? On the condition that it felt like your โ€œreal lifeโ€?
Of course you would. I know you.
Which begs the questions, “How do you know, then, this isn’t that dream? And, who, exactly, is now dreaming theyโ€™re you?โ€
Howling at the moon,   The Universe /
Let’s start over!


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – The Frog’s Den


Let’s start over!

Time for some Monday Motivation!

Seems like there are a lot of anxious people out there..

As well as sad..

A lot of people saying they want to start something.

Only they don’t!

So basically guys.

I’ve written this blog to get you guys moving in the right direction.๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰

Hopefully, it helps!

To that end.

So what is it you want out of this beautiful life of yours?

That’s a question far too many people don’t ask themselves.

Well, I’m asking you?


If you don’t know the answer.





What do you want?

Sad but true.

If you’re a good person with a good heart.

You rightfully would expect others to act the same.


That’s not how it works in the real world.


As anyone who’s been screwed over by people they know.

Have learned this lesson the hard way!

I hate to say you need to start to be a bit gangsta.


This is what I am saying.

I’ve heard far too many horror stories.

I’m sure you have too.


Maybe you have been a victim of it yourself.

That’s why I keep my circle small.

And I don’t announce my moves.

I work in private.

I live in private.

I love in private.

And you know what?

Life has been so much more peaceful.

As a result.

The way I see it.

You have two choices.

Stay a lamb.


Become the lion๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿ‘†


That’s right!

I am no longer the lamb.



And I will eat anyone who gets in MY way.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

The way I figure it.

You can continue to be a lamb for the rest of your life.

Taking people’s shiz.

And I know a lot of people like this.


BECOME the LION๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

When I first started my business in 2012.

Just about everyone thought I was crazy.

Just get a job, they said.

Why do you have to do this?

Who’s going to pay you to go shopping?

And you’re going to be a Fashion/LifeStyle blogger?

What does that even mean?

Guess what?

Here I am all these years later.

Still in business.

While many who I started with are not.

Don’t ever let someone tell you, that YOU can’t move mountains.

Because let me tell you friends.

I’m moving mountains EVERY F’ING DAY๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I ..I took the one less traveled by. And that has made all the difference.” Robert Frost

As crazy as it sounds.

After I take my morning shower.

And I put on my makeup.

Get dressed.

I immediately start to feel better (if I’m having a bad morning).

There is power in makeup.

It does something to you.

Both girls, and boys, know this.

That’s why I am obsessed with #makeup on #instagram.

So, if you’re having a bad day.

Pour yourself a drink (can be anything from a glass of wine to a glass of water), put on some lipstick, and handle your business!

The Frog’s Den

We all fall down in life.

It’s just a question of getting back up again.

And again.

And again.


That’s how life works.

She is always testing us.

To see how strong we are.

Giving us lessons.

Whether we want them or not.

And for the record.

The Universe must have utter faith in me.

Because she has tested the mother f’ing shiz out of me.

And yet.

I’m still here. https://www.ninefrogs.com

Not just surviving.

But THRIVING.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

And I can feel the blessings are on their way!

Every woman everywhere over 50


Pretty accurate betrayal of my life these days!

So me now.


Not that I won’t shed a tear after reading a story about a dog getting adopted on Instagram.


If you fuxx with me.

I will fuxx you 100 times harder.

That’s my attitude these days.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

That is what happens when you take your power back.

When no one scares you anymore.

Because you have already been to hell and back more times than you can count.

When you are NOT afraid to get down and dirty if you have to.


Like that.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

You have rights.

No one has a right to ‘f with you.”

Although many will try.

You have the right to protest your own mistreatment.

If people disrespect you.

Cross their boundaries with you.

Mistreat you.

YOU have every right to hit back.

And yes, they will be offended and appalled.

Expect it.


That’s their problem, not yours!

NineFrogs Wisdom


When you live your life this way.

You open it up to endless possibilities.

Keep an open mind.

An open heart.

You truly never know what may come next!

People are always waiting for Friday.

Waiting for the weekend!

What about waiting for Monday?

Great things can happen on a Monday!

That’s the kind of thinking you need to adopt!

Kermit the Frog.

AKA The Frog Consultant.

Is a huge believer in The Universe.

And sometimes.

We need to do just that.

Let go.

Sometimes when ‘thing’s’ get to be too much.

Let it go.

And let The Universe work her magic!


I love that!

That’s perfect.

“You are the sky.

Everything else is just the weather.”

Remember that!

“Being underestimated is one of the biggest competitive advantages you can have!” – The Frog’s Den

You this week!


Let nothing get in your way this week!



Be unstoppable.

A force to be reckoned with.

Be a shark.

Sharks don’t let anything get in there way.

That’s the kind of attitude you need to have to accomplish your dreams.

Let’s start over!


Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

Live your life like The Universe has your back!



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  1. Michael Ault September 24, 2019

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