“How do we see?” (3.12.17)

It may seem a bit backwards for some, Patricia Bokowski, but the first step one might take towards rearranging the present circumstances of their life is to stop dwelling upon the present circumstances of their life. 
But for you it’s probably a no-brainer.
You’re not like anyone else,
  The Universe / How do we see?
Second, Patricia Bokowski, they might start visualizing the circumstances they want,
as if they already existed. Right. Duh-h-h-h-h-h….
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

How do we see?

Just because you can’t see it.

Doesn’t mean it’s not there.

Expect the unexpected!

Or as I say to all my clients.

Keep your mind open to new adventures everyday.

Because you never know when one is about to happen!

Maybe twelve years ago or so.

I was offered an opportunity to take a ride on the Good Year Blimp.

Now let me set this up for you.  

At the time I was working in Aviation, and yet.

I was scared to death to fly.  

I think that’s called an oxymoron.  

And I mean to fly in anything, a plane, helicopter, and needless to say, a freakin blimp!

But my offer was timed.

I had literally 30 seconds to say yes or no, or my offer expired.  

I was fortunate enough to have my friend being the one offering me the opportunity.

She basically said, “You’re going!”

And the car will be there in five minutes to pick you up.

I remember my whole body starting to shake and thinking, “what the hell did I just get myself into?”

And before I knew it, the car was there to pick me up to whisk me away to the “blimp”.

We were there in a flash.

Have you ever seen a blimp up close?

If not.

Let me tell you.

They are HUGE!  

As I got out of the car.

I was mesmerized by the sheer size of the blimp.

Only more importantly, how the hell do you get in it?

Side note, which I was to learn on my ride.  When the blimp is in town, so to speak, people schedule appointments to get a ride, meaning, they “dress” for the occasion.  Because you don’t just “walk” onto a blimp, it’s a “thing” which I will later explain.  Anyway, that particular day, I had on a long black sundress with 4″ heels, not quite the appropriate attire for riding in a blimp!  I so wish I had a picture of me that day.

Totally inappropriate outfit for flying on a blimp!  

So yes, you could say I stood out from the crowd πŸ˜‰

There I am, in line, waiting my turn to get in the blimp, anxiety beating through my whole body.

I kept telling myself I cannot believe I am doing this…

I can still say no if I want to, but I don’t want to..

I am petrified yet excited beyond belief, I’m doing this, for real!

And now it’s my turn.  

The guy holding the rope (yes, that’s how they keep it on the ground), looks at me, sizes me up as if to say, “didn’t you know you were going on the blimp today and you are totally not dressed the proper way!”

And I know what he’s thinking.

So I explain to him that I literally just got this offer 15 minutes ago and that’s why I am not dressed properly for the occasion.

He shrugged his shoulders and says, “ok, when I say go, you run to the blimp and get on…because THAT is how you get on a blimp!  

You run and jump on!

And on I went, my long black dress, 4″ heels and all!

So how was the ride you might ask?

My answer:  



floating on air!

It was truly one of the most thrilling experiences of my life.  

I was absolutely mesmerized.  

And, it really was like floating on air.

Just because you can’t see it!

Did I ever think in a million years.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

That when I walked into work that morning that I would be receiving a phone call asking me if I wanted to take a ride on a blimp?  

Never in a million years.  

And yet I did.  

So what makes you think something amazing and far-reaching can’t happen to you today?

Just because you can’t see it.

Doesn’t mean it can’t happen.

Miracles happen everyday.

You just have to keep your eyes and mind open to everything.

As I often advise my clients:

Keep your:




And soul.

Open to every new experience.

For you never know which will change your life.

That trip on the blimp, changed mine.

It showed me that:

You never know what can happen in a day!

That I can overcome my fears and do things I never thought I could do.

To soar to new heights!  


Just because you can’t see it!

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Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!


“How do we see?”




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