Patricia Bokowski, next time you feel really hurt, really angry, or really, really upset, and you’re sure that even I have been violated, shaken, and humbled, quick, check and see if the sky is any less blue, the sun any less radiant, the birds have stopped singing, or the flowers have lost their scent.
I’ll wager you’ll find that life has gone on much as before. Too consumed by the powers of now and the inevitabilities of love, understanding, and eternal life to have even missed a beat.
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs
How can you tell?
The age-old question!
If you want my advice.
Shift your mindset.
We all know It’s not easy.
It never is.
You need to start!
Believe it or not.
Some people never start.
Why is that?
No one ever told them.
They could do hard things.
When most of their life.
All people ever told them was:
“You can’t do that!”
Do WHAT YOU love👈👈👈
What someone else thinks you should be doing!
Don’t take NO for an answer.
Prove the naysayers wrong.
BELIEVE that anything is POSSIBLE👈👈👈
And work smart.
When anyone tells you, ‘that won’t work’.
Prove them wrong.
And, for the love of God.
Stop thinking it’s going to happen overnight.
I hate to break it to you.
But it might take some years.
That’s the reality.
It will be SO worth it.
If it comes.
If it goes.
Do things that scare the f*ck out of you!
We get so comfortable.
We forget that we are made.
To do hard things!
It all comes down to:
Being comfortable with being uncomfortable.
As the saying goes:
If you aren’t living on the edge.
You are taking up too much room.
Life shrinks or expands.
In direct proportion to one’s courage.
Do hard things.
Things that make you uncomfortable.
Those things that you keep pushing.
To the back of your “to do” list.
Push yourself harder than you ever have.
See what you are made of!
People always think, ‘this is only how much I can do.’
And I say.
No, you are capable of so much more.
Fall in love (or, all over again).
Only, this time with yourself👈👈👈
Discover what you are made of.
It will most likely be much more than you think!
That goes for me too.
I’ve had to come out of my comfort zone.
And do new things.
I started my YouTube Channel.
That took longer than expected.
And I started on TikTok too.
Both, took me out of my comfort zone.
And now I have some other things on my “to do” list.
That I want to accomplish this year.
Nothing happens until you put the action behind it.
Do that things that scare you.
Either you will fail miserably.
It will be a huge success.
And a little something I learned recently.
One of those ‘Aha’ moments.
Stop worrying about the likes and comments.
Just do it.
And keep doing it.
Eventually, they will come.
But don’t stop because they aren’t there.
Keep your mind and eyes.
Open to everything!👈👈👈
You never know.
Where you will find your next miracle?
Or find you?
That’s why I always say.
Get out of your own way! NineFrogs Daily:
We trip ourselves up all the time.
Get out of your own damn way.
Stop doubting yourself.
And just do it.
Now is the time.
Lots of them!
Keep it happy 🙂
Reset your mindset set to success.
No matter what is going on around you.
Just keep telling yourself:
I CAN DO THIS!
Know that you are always winning.
(That’s success mindset).
Know that The Universe is on your side.
And wants what you want.
Like The Universe is conspiring on your behalf.
Because she is.
Don’t be afraid to break the rules.
Not the law.
You don’t have to follow the herd.
Do your own thing.
And learn the power in it.
Find out what you are made of, really!
You think you can only do this much.
When in fact.
You can do a whole lot more.
And you won’t know unless you try.
We are made to do hard things!
It’s just no one tells us that!
Be kind to yourself.
Say nice things to yourself.
And watch what happens.
Stop beating yourself up for who you are not.
And instead. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:
Give yourself high-fives for who you are!
You are a work in progress.
And don’t be afraid to fail!
Failure is not the worst thing that can happen to you.
Living a mediocre life is.👈👈👈
Always strive for the BEST you can do!
If you are trying to create something beautiful.
“There is always a way, ALWAYS.”👈👈👈
Your future is going to be EPIC!
It’s in YOUR hands. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:
Be courageous brave girl.
I BELIEVE in YOU!
And, if you ask?
HOW do I start?👈👈👈
Right from where you are right now!
With whatever you have!
You so got this!
I’m so proud of you!
How can you tell?
Have you heard?
I wrote a book!
Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”
Available now on Amazon!
Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ
I cannot wait for you guys to read it!
Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!
That’s a wrap!
Patricia <3 always
NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!
“How can you tell?”
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