“How can I think BIG?” (2.12.19)

Remember, you will always have friends, guides, and love, Patricia, but no one is coming to “save you.”
That’s the adventure package you signed up for.
The one that comes with all the superpowers, guaranteed rebounding abilities, and the all-powerful scrunched-nose-when-you-smile. 
Your 5 Star Time-Space Adventure Tour Agency Manager,   The Universe / How can I think BIG?


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

You so got this!

Stop doubting yourself.

Today, do yourself a favor and let your self-confidence soar!

You have it.

Flaunt it.

And for those of you who could use a little more of it…read on 👉👉👉

Confidence is a habit that can be developed by acting as if you already have it.

The Frog’s Den

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸


Developing self-confidence doesn’t happen overnight.

It is rather a series of acts taken over and over. 

You literally have to push yourself to do things that make you uncomfortable. 

The key to self-confidence!

Is doing this that make you uncomfortable.

These are the things that will push your own limits.

These are the things that are going to get you to the next level.

In other words, get used to feeling uncomfortable. 👈👈👈

Patricia D. Bokowski – The Frog’s Den – TikTok & YouTube

Appearance is everything.  Feeling good about yourself on the outside will help you feel good on the inside.

I am sure I have said the above over a hundred times in my blogs over the years. 

I cannot emphasize it enough.

If you want to gain amazing self-confidence, you need to look your absolute BEST.

That means on the inside too.

Sure, who doesn’t love a pretty face?

But a pretty heart and soul.

That my friends is something pretty f’ing special right there!

That should be your goal!

It’s that simple.

A big smile and a firm handshake will tell people you are confident and comfortable with yourself.

Ok, so these days, no handshakes.

But, you get the idea.

And smiling still counts even if it’s under a mask 😷😷😷

As if you needed another reason!

It does wonders for the body and soul!

Here’s another little nugget:

Self-Confidence is the key to happiness!🥰🥰🥰

That’s right!  

I don’t believe I’ve ever met a person with amazing self-confidence who wasn’t happy?

Kind of impossible really?

In other words, self-confidence and happiness go hand-in-hand!

I speak with so many people who are so unhappy.  🙁

Usually I can tell before they speak.

Their body language speaks for itself.

They are unhappy usually with themselves, their lives, or both. 

Yet, when I give them some advice on how maybe they can change that.

And this happens often.

They invariably tell me WHY they cannot.

And it usually starts with, “Patti I can’t because….fill in the blank.

Self-sabotage at its best.

So I say to you.

If you really want to change your life.

To be happy.

To have amazing self-confidence.

And the chance to live the life of your dreams. 

You will need to do what you have never done before!

And it will scare the shiz out of you, I promise.

Do it anyway!

“We don’t always know how to define confidence, but we always recognize it when we see it in a person; through a gesture, a smile, a word…in short, by watching the way he/she carries themselves.

It’s easy to spot someone with amazing self-confidence.

They way they carry themselves through life.

Their body language.

A big smile.

Radiating plenty of positive energy.

When I started my business seven years ago (I know I’ve said this before), I had no idea what I was doing, other than, I knew what I wanted to do. 

It takes a lot of courage AND self-confidence to do something you have no idea what you’re getting yourself into.

Like the saying goes, “it’s like jumping off the cliff with no parachute to catch you”, and you are basically hoping for the best!

Quite honestly, it takes major balls.

To come out of your comfort zone, and try something so out-of-the-box, it scares the hell out of you! 

It also gives you an amazing feeling.

So, if you are willing to come out of YOUR comfort zone, I highly recommend it!

Gaining amazing self-confidence doesn’t happen over-night like I said. 

Baby steps.


Yes, everyday.

Not on the days you feel like it.

Not “when” you feel like it.

Even on Sundays!

People who are hungry for greatness work whenever we need to.

Including weekends and holidays!

Me now!

And when YOU have amazing self-confidence, that’s how you’ll feel too!

SELF-CONFIDENCE:  a feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities.

Lastly, make sure to follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den🐸🐸🐸

Need a smile?

Check out my TikTok videos, guaranteed to make you smile 🙂

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!



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