“How can I stop?” (7.7.19)

Patricia Bokowski! Now! Go! 
Stake your claim! Hold out your hands. Move, get ready, give thanks. Imagine, and let go. 
Act, and have faith. Persist. Do what you can, when you can, all you can. 
Because never again, not in a million years, not over ten thousand lifetimes, will you ever again be as close as you are today. 
Ungawwa,  The Universe / “How can I stop?”
/ www.tut.com

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

How can I stop?

Right now!


As we all know.

Time is a precious commodity.

Far too many people think they have all the time in the world.

When, as we all know, we don’t know how much time we have.

So don’t let ANYBODY waste a second of yours!

That’s right!

Focus on your goals.

Take care of you.

Make you the priority. 👈👈👈

Go on an adventure all by yourself.

Do what makes you happy.

Gain as much knowledge as you can (I make that one a #1 priority).

Put yourself first, (read that again).

The right person will come along and find you when the time is right.

Remember: knowledge is power!

The more knowledge you have, the more power you attain.

As much as life may try and break you.

Just remember.

You are stronger.


I have been to hell-and-back (as I’ve written about before).

And I’m still going strong👈👈👈

Not just strong!

Happy as well!


They did break the wrong parts of me!

I had lunch with a friend recently and he said something that has stuck with me since.

We were discussing the various people in our lives.

My friend told me that if someone isn’t adding value to his life.

Friendship/peace of mind.

They are kicked to the curb!

Out of his life. 👈👈👈

I admire that.

And after that conversation I took a good look at the people in my life.

Soon realized there were some people who no longer belonged.

Not that they were bad people.

Just people who were no longer serving me and my life.

That’s how you know you are growing.

When you outgrow friends.

Sad but true!

Think about it.

How often do we keep people in our life because we feel obligated to do so?

Because we should?

You know, it’s making those hard choices that help you level up.

Not everyone is meant to make the journey with you.

And that’s ok.

You’ll find new people.

People who resonate with you where you are on your path.

Let’s face it, no one WANTS problems. “How can I move on?” (9.1.2021)

Only, cultivating your problem-solving skill-set is one of the surest ways to level up.

If you can learn to solve your own problems, you will find that brings a certain level of peace into your life.

Before I became enlightened, any time I had any kind of problem, I would become unglued.

Needless to say, this didn’t help with solving my problems.

Once I became enlightened, I look at problems differently.

That’s what happens when you become enlightened.

But that’s a whole other blog!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

When we talk about how to get inspired, one thing always comes up.

And that is your “mental” well-being.

You need to take care of your mental, physical and spiritual health as much as you do work!

Work will always be there!

Here are some ways to do that:


Take in positive material,.

Listen to great music.

Be with people who make you feel like sunshine 😉

My first tattoo!
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – The Frog’s Den

“Live in such a way that if someone should speak badly of you,

no one would believe it.” / Zig Ziglar

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Why are there so many unhappy people?

If you ask me, the biggest reason, is that they are uninspired!

Second reason, they just gave up on life.👈👈👈

It’s really kind of heartbreaking. NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

People give up because they think they can’t do this or that.

Or, because something didn’t work out for them twenty years ago and they just totally gave up on their idea.

Here’s the thing, you don’t give up on the goal.

You just change the direction of your sails. “How can I move on?” (9.1.2021)

Thomas Edison tried 10,000 times to make the light bulb

And then one day it finally worked!“Tell me!” (4.25.2020)

So I ask?

STOP wasting your precious time <3

How can I stop?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon in paperback.

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6P8FSG3

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – The Frog’s Den!

Interested in working with me?


Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“How can I stop?”



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  1. Bruce Chamoff July 7, 2019
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