“You got this!” (4.25.2020)

I have to tell you, Patricia Bokowski, that one of the greatest things about being the Universe, is knowing absolutely everything.
Well, that and making dreams come true.
I also love being eternal… and having no limits.
Creating worlds simply with thought.
Knowing that reality is unfolding just exactly as it should.
Having it all, being it all, doing it all.
And I like being perpetually in love… and loved. 
How ’bout you, Patricia Bokowski? What’s your favorite thing about being the Universe? 
Tallyho,   The Universe
/ “You got this!”


Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

You got this!

I mean.

It’s day #93302830281 of #lockdown2020.😐😐😐

At least that’s what it feels like😷😷😷

How you all doing🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

Making the best of this bad situation I hope👈👈👈


Don’t lose your happiness.

In this ‘whatever this is’ mess.

Life is too short.

Not to be happy.

Even in the middle of a pandemic!

So, a friend of mine called me during the week.

And she said.

‘Patti, what the hell?

How come you haven’t written one of your inspirational blogs?

Like now!

People need to hear from you.’

Okay, point taken.👈👈👈

One day!



I realize.

That many.

Will not be happy.

With my list.


You know what?

I’m good with that!

One day!


I realize.

Not every item on my list.

Is quite ‘doable’ these days.

And that’s ok.


Now you have the time to think about them.

Think about what you want to change?

Think about how you can bring about change in your life?

One day! 👈👈👈

Today I’m sharing.

My ideas for being happy.

Something of which has alluded many these days.

If this lockdown has shown us anything.

It’s that we are all a lot stronger.


Much more adaptable!

Who would have thought just a precious few months ago.

We’d be grocery shopping with masks on?

Or, drinking wine at noon on a Tuesday 🍷🍷🍷

And yet, here we are!

One day! 👈👈👈

LIVE ferociously!

If this lockdown has shown us anything.

It’s that life is fleeting.

So when this thing is over.

Live with all you heart <3

With WHOEVER you want to love!


Here’s a side-note.

Don’t fall in love in lockdown.


A lot of people are just bored.


Maybe not the best time to fall in love?

Just sayin!

One day!

Let YOUR life serve as an inspiration to others.

What can you do?

To start inspiring those around you.


Everyone has a gift!👈👈👈

What’s yours?

For me?

For one thing.

I have a great smile.

And great hair.

Right there.

Those two things make people happy.


I encounter it all the time.

So, again.

What’s yours?

Whatever it is.

Find it.

Share it.

Like throwing confetti around at a party!

One day!

Check out that smile & hair = Makes people happy 🙂

Make those around you HAPPY!



A lot of people can’t find their happiness right now.

And I can’t be everywhere. NineFrogs Daily “QUOTE OF THE DAY!”:



You need to step up.

Be the light for those around YOU👈👈👈

One day!

Take chances.

Life is way to short to live ‘too comfortably.”

Remember the book “Who Moved My Cheese?”

If you haven’t?

Now is a great time to read it!

I know you probably can’t get to the library.

But, maybe you can find it online!

The bottom line is this.

Life changes quickly.

Look at what we are dealing with now?

Would any of us have predicted this February 1st?

I don’t know about you, but I wasn’t.

One day!

You Go Queens! Remember, we got this!

Have fun!

Yes, I know.

Right now you’re saying, ‘that’s impossible Patti.’

And, I’m saying it’s not.

But, here are my two schools of thought on this.


As much as you can.

Try and make the best out of a bad situation.


How can you make the situation work for you?


It’s not forever.

Just for now.

One day!

I’ve also started a list.

A list of all the things I want to do when we ‘get out’.

One thing for sure.

I’m getting a new tattoo.

I’m getting a haircut.

And, getting my nails done.

What’s on your list?

One day! 👈👈👈

“Your spirit is what keeps you going,

your attitude is how you show it to the world.” /

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO – NineFrogs

Let your inner fashionista out…

She’s in there.

And that goes for the men too!

Please don’t be walking around in your sweats all day.

Because, as we all know.

Even in lockdown2020.

You need to get some balance in your life.

One day!

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Fall in love, (or all over again) with yourself.❤❤❤

Prior to lockdown 2020.

We were all running around like chickens without heads.

Let’s be honest.

And for many of us.

Put ourselves LAST on our “to-do” list.

Well guess what?

Take 15 minutes out of the day to do something ‘nice” for yourself.

How can I be happy?

Move mountains, lots of them!

And while you are at it.

Get out of your own damn way.

Another way we trip up our own happiness.👈👈👈

The key to our happiness is in OUR pocket!

One day!

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself. The storm will pass.”

Lastly, don’t be afraid to break the rules (not the law).

To find your happiness.

You don’t have to follow the herd.

You are allowed to do your own thing.

Everyone may not be happy with you for doing it,

But that’s their problem not yours!👈👈👈

One day!

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“You got this!”


1027 St. Johnland Road, Kings Park, NY 11754


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