“Why not you?” (3.5.15)

You don’t have to take everything so seriously, Patricia Bokowski.
Life isn’t black and white, answers aren’t always yes or no, and absolutely nothing has to happen today.
Act when you’re ready. Be led by your feelings. And the next time someone wants to fit you into a box, just tell ’em that your jeans are in the wash, your angels are at the mall, and Oprah’s on the other line.
Fuzzy as dice,  The Universe / “Why not you?” / www.tut.com
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

“If it’s your job to eat a frog for breakfast,

it’s best to do it first thing in the morning.  

And, if it’s your job to eat two frogs,

it’s best to eat the biggest one first.” – Mark Twain

Why not you?

We’ve all been there!

You have “that” phone call.

Or “that” e-mail you have to send.

And you keep putting it off.

Maybe you have a meeting with someone.

You don’t want to meet?

Or a conversation you don’t want to have.

So what do you do?

Eventually you are going to HAVE to do “the thing”…

So, you keep putting it off.

To that magical place called “tomorrow”.

Only “tomorrow” isn’t going to get you anywhere.

You need to do it today!

I’ll get to it tomorrow.

Next week.

Next month.

Hell, if I can get away with it.

Maybe not till next year.

Yet, it’s always in the back of your head,

Because, eventually, you STILL NEED TO DO IT.✔✔✔

So, better to rip the band aid off.

And just do it!

Without a doubt!

And, we are all guilty of it.

Coming up with all kinds of excuses.

As to why we can’t do something.

Why we need more time.

More money.

More knowledge.

It’s all bullsh*t.

We need to be honest with ourselves.

And as the Nike people tell us:

Just do it!

Take some advice from Mark Twain:

Eat the BIGGEST frog first thing in the morning.

And if you have two frogs, eat the biggest one first!“.

Have you heard that one before?

I hadn’t.

Someone told it to me recently.

Makes total sense though doesn’t it.

We all tend to procrastinate.

When it comes to doing the thing(s).

We know we have to do.

Only don’t want to do.

So, now you know.

Eat a frog.

First thing tomorrow morning

And then see how much better.

Your day goes from there.

That’s the thing isn’t it?

We all, or at least, many of us.

Are breathing our dreams.


Is today the day it ‘happens’?

Because none of us knows.

Do we?

Time for me to fly!

What most don’t understand.

Every time you put something off.

You’re blocking your own blessings.

Because once you do that thing you need to do.

You now leave room for something better.

To come into your life!


That’s how The Universe works.

And, she’s always watching!

Why not you?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Available now on Amazon!

Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BMSP3LTJ

Coming out in paperback soon!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, don’t forget to follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!


“Why not you?”


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